If He Takes Too Long During Sex, I'll Just Tell Him To Jerk Off

But not that bluntly. I think long sex is OK, but anything over 10 minutes is not for me. If we have sex after I orgasm, then I only want and can handle like a minute or 2.

If He Takes Too Long During Sex, I'll Just Tell Him To Jerk Off

It just sounds so rude doesn't it? But what else can we do...I like it when things work out. If he can't cum fast from sex, and even could have trouble cumming from oral (lots of guys have told me that, and girls too), then this could be the only thing to do.

We could switch it up! He could go in me for a minute, and then pullout and jack himself or I'd give him a handjob for a minute, then put it back in and repeat. I would think that was really annoying, but if he liked that we could do it for a few times.

I think the best idea is just for him to jack himself until he's mostly there, then stick it in and thrust until he comes. I could obviously give him a handjob then too, but if he does it himself he'll probably be able to do it better than me. If he wants the handjob from me then sure...

I could also suck him right after he jerks or the handjob and then we fuck. It'd be good for lube and he'd like it. Or also moan from it which I would <3. As for bringing it up...

Awkward. So let's say we did foreplay. Then, I would just tell him I <3 short sex. He could say what he wants then and if he lasts long, then I'd offer a handjob and suck him until he's hard or whatever. A long BJ isn't something I'd do since it'd hurt my jaw/mouth.

I don't think guys would care about this routine, but what do you all thinkkkk...

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  • Just from my perspective I'd be totally cool with this. My initial reaction in my head was all "WTF bitch.." But then I thought about it and honestly I think it wouldn't be an issue.

    This makes me wish there was an easy way to sort out sexual compatibility without actually having to have sex with someone.

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  • I personally love guys who can fuck for an hour or more. I love it when one orgasm ends just as the next is beginning. Give me a 5 minute break and I can go for another hour.

    I wish I had your problem. I always seem to get the guys that get off quickly.

    • I can fuck for an hour or more I've found out older women can hang with me younger ones will began to whine

    • @Chitwnfootluver I don't care how long you fuck me for, once you're done I will be begging you for more! Sometimes I wonder how some of the younger women would have fared as I was coming up? I don't think they'd have survived. Especially hanging out with bikers.

    • I've noticed lots of younger women are afraid of a well endowed man

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  • You have an open mind and you're thinking very creatively. That's what counts. A combination of things is likely to work well. It may need to be a specific combination, so be sure to talk about it beforehand, try stuff out, etc. I didn't notice if you mentioned it, but sex is very mental. Mental stimulation helps a lot. So talk dirty to him as well. Say things to him that you know he needs to hear you say. With my husband it speeds things way up and makes him cum better with huge orgasms afterwards. It's a lot of fun to see how good I can make them for him.

  • I wish I had your problem. That seems like a lot of switching up for you to get any pleasure from it.
    I love long sex hell I love marathon sex. Have you tried just switching positions or maybe prolonging your orgasm. Get a guy that lasts longer than 10mins is impressive to me at this point

    • 10' is impressive? Seriously

    • @kostas25 hun from experience most guys dont last that long.

    • Yeah this was just for the scenario. IRL I haven't met guys who could last 10 minutes either. Online guys brag so much about this it seems like it has to be at least a little real. But five minute sex is plenty for me.

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  • 10 minutes? Girl, that's warming up. Past 20 minutes, shit gets freaky when your head is spinning for that long. Lawd, the memories heehee Yea, I like long sex, I can orgasm over and over again. If I finish and it's been a while, I tell him "You can finish" then I give him a few minute or two of thrusting back, pulling his hair, intense eye contact, neck biting, and above all-disgusting dirty talk, anything to get him off.

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    For the guys with premature ejaculation.

    • IRL guys barely last 10 minutes, when they try. Premature ejaculation, is I think anything under 2 minutes. And the dots R funny, thought you posted an image.

    • That's under 4 minutes. Average time is 7-13 minutes. And, dots don't work with images.

    • If guys make themselves last that might be the avg time. But Google it, premature is defined as cumming within a minute or 2.

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  • Most men can cum within 10 minutes but I don't think 10 minutes or even 30 minutes is too long to have sex. In fact I think most of the pleasure is getting to the point where you are on the edge of cumming. Also I like to cum more than once during a session, ordinarily 2 to 3 times but my wife likes to have up to 10 or 12 orgasms so I give her most of them orally. In regards to jacking off it feels 10 times better if the girl jacks off the guy than it does if he does it himself. If you only have one orgasm than I think you may have a problem because most girls can and do have multiple orgasms~ fortunately for them. I just wish I could have 10 orgasms every time I have sex either with a girl or by my own hand but unfortunately my record is only four ejaculations in one session.

    • No, it's common to only have one O for women! Just like how it is for guys. You can be exhausted and need to sleep after just 1. I do think it's more common than people say for guys to have multiple ejaculations/orgasms in one session though.

  • I don't think it's rude, or selfish. If a guy cuts to a point that his penis is sore. . . I mean it's pretty hard to keep going when your happy stick gets tired. I'd imagine it's the same for a girl too.

    Not for me though, I like super long sex sometimes. Like sometimes I like to go for an hour or two.

  • I've rarely (never?) had a complaint from a girl I was fucking that more than ten minutes was too long. But if I have a clue that she's that that's the way she is, then I can fuck her vigorously and come in ten minutes, or six, or even less, if she wants. Do you like to be fucked vigorously?

  • All the best

  • Maybe for once in a womans' life it could be her fault for a guy not being able to cum.

  • Well... I usually always love & in step with your opinions & takes BUT
    even though I do agree a guy can take too damn long (ironically criticized most often for not taking long enough to get her to blast off) it seems more heavenly to practice the buddy system in swimming, i. e. your sex buddy will be there to insure the other will get off, once all hot & bothered headed for the finish line.

    This might mean that if your vag is tired, getting sore, then you work on HJ/BJ to finish and if too tired, no sex toys to help then offering your (last resort) tight well lubed & stretched ass to finish off the poor guy

    Well, now I've done it - ready for your whipping response... but I might enjoy it? ooohlala

  • I thought only guys think like this. Make it short and sweet.

  • It takes me a LONG time usually. Think a half hour or more, and I have been asked to stop. Yes it sucks, but a gentleman understands. It's the same as a guy cumming too early and leaving her unsatisfied, but a guy doesn't talk about how bad she was... (unlike many women).

    The solution is simple, if he was unhappy then he won't go back, if he keeps going into your bed, he's fine with the situation.

  • After all that all I can think of is that I'm just glad I don't have to have sex with you. :)

  • As someone that can definitly take too long I think i'd have to with most girls my first time i somehow lasted over an hour everything else was normal in fact i was hard as concrete and she demanded that i was rough with her but still took ages. about 2-3 times Longer than jerking of strangely. Same thing 2nd and 3rd time and later with my next hookup a while after that ended.

    • My second was ok with it either for my benefit or she had more stamina my first said aren't you done yet witch made me quite self conscious honestly. Its not really a on command sort of thing.

  • 10 minutes is enough? You're easy to please.

  • I think you better forget men and buy a vibrator.

  • I personally love a long sex. There are no bad men and bad women, there are only bad combination.

  • I'm not pulling my pants down for 10 mins lol

  • i'm guessing you're fine with a guy telling you to finish yourself off if he cums first... or that another double-standard?

  • Oh man I last in bed way to long. Probably like 30 minutes each time. I'd feel awkward just have to jerk off of every few minutes. Maybe if she gave me a hand job

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