If I could not save My Mom and Sister? Am I the weakest/Dumbest Guy?

Kishumbh Xper 1

My father had a dispute and hostility with Many People and he passed away in a Road Accident 10 Years Ago in 2011 and then in 2012 Some Guys raped My Mom 9 Years Ago, I was too young to do anything and Now just 6 months Ago One of My Sister got raped too and I could not do anything... I went in depression and I feels very low and Down All the time... I feels like I am the weakest Guy of the City or May be very timid and Coward too !

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t-8900 Yoda
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Dude don't kill yourself over this. None of this was caused by you. I've been through hell and back multiple times. I have some my takes posted on this stuff and worse so I know what you are going through. Do not let the demons in. I know it feels like no one can relate to you. You'd be surprised how many people get raped every year. It absolutely sickening and why all rapists should be put to death. I've also dealt with wicked people. I could have killed my sisters rapist. Almost did in fact. Took the.380 and went out with a homie to the guys place. Saw the dude had kids, decided against it. But now I'm glad I never did it. Doesn't make me a coward, doesn't make you a coward. People and life are not so simple. You are who you are, you don't fit squarely and picture perfect into the box labeled as society. If people criticize you for it the f*ck them they can got eat a d"ck because they haven't experienced it.
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- Kishumbh
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  How long ago it was happened with your sister?
- t-8900
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  mmmm i must have been about 21 or so when i found out. about 11 or so years ago now.
- t-8900
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  no wait i was 19 actually now that i remember.
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- Kishumbh
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  And how long it took you to get over this? Was she older or younger to you?
- t-8900
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  she was 14 when it happened. I never really got over it tbh. You dont get over stuff like that. But you can't let it rule your life either or destroy your future.
- Kishumbh
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  If you was 19 then you was of My Age... I know its not easy to forget it ( even as comparison to female of your family ) did you take any Pill medicine for depression? Can you PM me if you?
- t-8900
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  i'll send you the whole story but it's several pages long. You should read it all if you are contemplating suicide. Those mytakes were made for two people and you were one of my target audiences. The other were the cocky SOBs who think they're better than everyone else because they were born with silver spoons in their mouths.
  A Look Into My Childhood (Long Read and not for the feint of heart) ↗
  
  My life Part 2: a history of bad love Part 1 or 2 ↗
  
  My Life Part 2: A History Of Bad Love Part 2 of 2: a compromise on Faith ↗
  
  Story Of My Life Part 3 ↗
- Kishumbh
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  thank you
- t-8900
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  no worries

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Highcountry Xper 3
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No, your just a man who has been in a lot of tough situations. Just do the best that you can and forget about it.
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- Kishumbh
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  My life was tough from the starting and I had seen very bad incidents, My Mom got raped in my childhood , We faced Poverty and could not study well, Now 6 months ago My sister also got raped and I felt very helpless in front them... I could not save ANYONE, My Life is like a Joke and I feels like I am a Timid Joker !

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Cherry234 Guru
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You were too young to do anything to help your mom. It's not your fault. The fault is on those evil rapists who raped your mom and your sister
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Vviiccttoorr Xper 5
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We’re you there to stop with your sister? Also it’s not your fault with your mom you were too young to do much
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- Kishumbh
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  @vviiccttoorr No, I had gone out for My Job... it was a day time and they ( 4-5Guys ) came into My house and they forcefully dragged My older Sister in to their Car and kidnapped her and raped her... I came in the late evening but by then They had left My Sister and she already had reached home before to me... And When they did same with My Mom then I was very young but they did same to same things with hey both !
- Vviiccttoorr
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  Dude it is beyond not your fault in any way. I understand you still feel helpless though, I would also but, the strong thing to do now is be with your mom and sister and get them help. I personally recommend advice like from someone you know that’s very wise, maybe therapist, or even a priest. Even if you’re not religious it can give you a sense of hope, peace, and strength. Also do you know of your sister is pregnant because, another way to help is to go down and get something like the morning after pill to prevent any pregnancy if she’s unwilling to carry a baby at this time especially with a rapist
- Vviiccttoorr
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  As a matter of fact, considering that they waited for you to leave the house shows that you are not seen as weak. “Men” who gang up and/or attack someone weaker than them like your sister or mom are actual cowards and weaklings. Honestly those type of creeps should at the very least be put in prison, at the very least
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- Kishumbh
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  @vviiccttoorr From your talks it seems you believe in Priest or God but Nothing has happened with me since the beginning So I don't believe in them... I was not at home when they came but even if I had been there even then they would have taken her because I can't fight with many criminals Alone... Yeah, You raised a good point... i will ask My sister if she needs to get herself checked up by a doctor or if she needs a Pill to stop pregnancy...5 Guys had raped her and not sure if they would have used any condom or not though Criminal don't care if their Victim girl gets Pregnant !
- Vviiccttoorr
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  It truly is awful and hope I helped in anyway man. Make sure to stay safe and maybe even watch out where you’re living. Possibly find a new spot if possible at all
- Kishumbh
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  @vviiccttoorr Yeah, Now we are also thinking to shift to another place for the safety purpose, Can you tell me one thing if you have any idea, When those Guys kidnapped and raped My Mom and then Now sister then both time those Guys kept their bra & panties with them... what is this for?
- Vviiccttoorr
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  Maybe it’s just cause they’re creeps, honestly true and get the police involved. Also your sister could get tested and even help give a trace for them with semen residue. I would try and stop them
Sam2021 Xper 4
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Get help, a therapist someone to talk to
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Likes2drive Master
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Did the police do anything?
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- Kishumbh
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  In 2012 I was too young when they raped My Mom So i could not do anything and Six Months Ago they kidnapped / abducted My Sister when I was not in the City... later on we went to Police but they didn't help us and they has never been caught even after 6 Months, Other side I have one other Sister and they are threatening to rape her as well if we tried to stand up Against them !
- Likes2drive
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  Sounds like a third world country, are you allowed to have guns?
- Kishumbh
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  Yes its a 3rd world country, they are real criminals and I am not allowed to keep weapons illegally
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- Likes2drive
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  Maybe you can move out of there, or learn self defense like martial arts
- Kishumbh
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  Now i am very much in depression and thinks about to commit Suicide
- Likes2drive
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  Hold your ground and learn self defense if you can
- Kishumbh
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  self defence is a good thing but it don't help against real criminals
- Likes2drive
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  Well you might need to get down to their level and even teach your mom and sister to defend themselves so they won’t mess with any of you anymore
- Kishumbh
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  Do you think girls and women can use self defense against Ferocious Criminals? It can provoke them even more?
- Likes2drive
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  Depends if you want to be a victim or or not since the police are doing nothing to help , if you can fend them off they might go elsewhere since they don’t want resistance because they already told you that, they don’t want to have to go through all that. Unless you can move from there you’ll have to do something
- Kishumbh
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  Yeah, That is right that i will have to do something or move on, but Right now i am not situation to take up a fight with them, they raped My Mom and Sister and they might target on my other sister So at least i want to keep her safe before !
- Likes2drive
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  Can you lock the place up enough to keep them away until the police come?
- Kishumbh
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  Yes You mean lock the house from the inside?
- Likes2drive
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  Yeah and maybe booby traps also
- Kishumbh
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  what is this booby traps?
- Likes2drive
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  Spring loaded devices in case they get through your doors or windows, usually that will harm them or disable them if they get that far into the house, even a bucket of oil or tar on them. Have you seen any movies like that? Watch home alone
- Kishumbh
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  I have not seen any movies like that but i can try to make or put something like that... In My house, My Mom and 2 sisters live... Now My youngest sister is in danger... they have threatened that they would abduct her forcefully from my house like they had taken My Mom and older sister... So My younger sister is very scared !
- Kishumbh
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  also they have threatened to kill me if I intervened
- Likes2drive
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  Then it’s self defense if you kill them, you need to defend yourself somehow, you need to tell the police if you can’t
- Kishumbh
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  Yeah
- Likes2drive
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  Hope you can get help from other people that are tired of these thugs