If I dated a girl with "smaller" boobs is it ever ok to ask her to get a boob job?

I'm not dating anyone right now and I'm not even sure if I'd date a girl with "smaller" boobs but if I did is it appropriate to ask her to get a boob job. How would I go about it if it is
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What if when we talk about it that it turns out she's been thinking of getting one anyway
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How come then people say "it's about personality"?
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  • Nothing like the cart before the horse
    So basically you're saying it's all about you and you're dating her because you want her to get bigger boobs
    I don't think she was going to give you the time of day I think it's pretty rude in a lot of different ways
    Let me try to give you a little bit of insight you should want to date a girl because you like her for who she is on the inside
    Not because you want to get a boob job from her
    Is it make it worse by telling her she needs a boob job good luck with your relationships

  • No. If you can't accept her how she is, then you should just move on. Never, EVER get with someone and then try to change them. It usually won't work, and even if it does, they're likely to resent you. It's just never a good thing to do.

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  • Would you be okay with her saying your dick is smaller than she likes and ask you to get a penis enlargement?
    If big boobs are that important to you, than stick to women that have natural big boobs, instead of expecting someone to change their body for you, or lower their self esteem

    • *then not than🤦🏼‍♀️

    • you have to pay for it though

    • @888theGreat wait, what doI have to pay for? Lol I wouldn't ask anyone to physically/surgically alter their body. If can't accept someone for who they are, shouldn't be with that person... I find it kind of ironic though that some men say women are always trying to change them into something they're not, but this post proves some men do that as well.. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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  • Yes its ok, if a girl has small boobs and you like big ones she will have to compete with girls with big tits like me.

    • You're the first yes I've seen

    • What do you think?

    • I think that if it's well thought out before you say it and you present it well just as if you were to ask for a raise or even a promotion that she is more likely to say yes than no. But to just automatically say no simply because I asked her to is not ok

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  • There is so much more to a girl and a relationship than boobs! If that is the first thing you think about when you met a girl you are going to have a hard time maintaining a solid relationship.

    Small boobs have some really great advantages. They always look young and perky and in most cases are more sensitive to your touch.

    NEVER tell a woman she needs a boob job! It's her body not yours. What would happen if she told you your dick is ugly!

  • Of course it's not okay.
    They're her boobs, not yours.

  • Would you like it if some woman said your dick is too small... maybe you should get a penis extension?

    • I just said the same thing before reading comments... "Great minds..." Lolol

    • @Brainsbeforebeauty some guys want bigger dicks, the real question is would he agree to have it made smaller. I don't know of any guy who wants a smaller penis.

    • @Twalli nor woulda woman with small boobs want smaller, but that wasn't the question? It was about asking someone to make them bigger, don't matter if she would want it or not, he's not really thinking about that, he's only thinking about what "he wants"

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  • No that is not ok. I can’t believe you are even questioning it.

  • I wouldn't ask her to do so. In general I prefer natural over fake. So I would rather a woman had natural boobs on the small side rather then fake ones. The same goes for for a woman's backs side as well.

  • Accept her as she is or move forward and find someone else.

  • no. if its such an issue, don't date them in the first place.
    no one should get surgery for others.
    if you do date and then tell her to get a boob job, you're an asshole who is wasting oxygen.

  • Wow, you are definitely the type of guy women need to avoid.

    it’s her choice, her life,

    even mentioning it is shit.

    just remain single, it’s the best idea all round.

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  • Sure you can ask, but she'd probably get the impression you don't like her as she is and might get real offended by that. I know where you're coming from though; to have a girl who's otherwise great, except for some small correctable issue with her.

  • Would you be willing to help her pay for it?

    • If I could

  • It would only be okay after you got dick extension surgery to add 8 inches to your dick.

    • 🤣🤣👍

  • Depends. Do you not need her anymore? Or want her?

    • What do you mean?

    • I said what I said.

  • Obviously that’s not ok

    • What seriously?

    • Why not

  • It isn't OK to ask her to get one, if she brings it up you can discuss it with her but also appreciate there are multiple risks with surgery

    • So then is it worth it in the end to even bring it up if there are "risks"

    • You shouldn't bring it up... only talk to her if she talks about it. .. but really you shouldn't have a say

    • And the risks are very real, like any surgery

  • No, it's not appropriate. In fact it's a major asshole thing to say to a woman. Think I'm wrong? Try telling a woman she needs a boob job and see how it goes.

    • I've seen lots of women want them

    • I Dredd ft ? Sure, but that's not what you are asking here. So you think that most women already want them and just need your 'encouragement' to make the decision. Like some other posters have suggested: date girls with big boobs, don't ask her to mangle her body for you.

  • Lol yeah you do that !! 🤣 see if you still have a girlfriend next day 😄😆😅

  • If a girl dates you & you have a “smaller” penis is it ok for her to ask you to get a penis enlargement?

    • Or if she wants one smaller, a reduction

    • @Twalli my brother from another mother you have a point on that one.

  • No, it’s never okay to ask her to get a boob job! Be happy that she has boobs and let’s you see and touch them. Otherwise, let her go so she can find a guy who appreciates her little boobs and go find a girl with bigger boobs.

    • So you're saying I should be shallow then?

    • If big boobs mean more to you than she does, yes, be shallow. Are you dating the girl or her tits?

    • Exactly. So if I broke up with a smaller chested girl just because she wouldn't get a boob job doesn't that then make me shallow?

  • No, absolutely not.

  • No it's not appropriate, if it's that big a deal for you just don't date them. It's never your place to ask someone to physically change themselves.

    • Re update, you can look at it whichever way you want but it still makes you a dick!

    • It is about personally, therefore her body shouldn't matter to you, that doesn't help your argument.

    • Right, it SHOULDN'T

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