If I find penises gross does that mean I'm not straight?

I think they're weird and gross looking and it creeps me out how they can move on their own. Guys in their underwear look dumb and gross to me like a weird thing is awkwardly hanging down. When I'm intimate with my boyfriend I don't want to give him a hand job because it grosses me out. I just give him one over his underwear and it feels awkward. But I do love him and find him attractive
Is that normal? Am I asexual?
it's normal
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  • I mean penises aren't cute but they're no better looking than vaginas. Besides, the clit can move too believe it or not, expand and tuck under it's own hood.

    I mean I can't throw around sexualities but if you're repulsed by sex you're either inexperienced and getting in your head way worse than you need to, or maybe you are asexual, who knows for certain?

  • The first time I saw a penis I thought it was really weird and kinda gross and I didn't want to touch it. I think that's pretty normal since us girls don't have one! But if you still feel that way after time getting accustomed to it then it might be a sign.

  • You are a virgin that explains all of it. You would not be asking this after you ride one!

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  • You're probably not heterosexual or bisexual. You may or may not be a lesbian. You might either be hetero-romantic asexual or you are inexperienced and you need to grow up... As an aromantic asexual, I don't like the word asexual being thrown around so much... Only you can know for sure what you are. We don't have access to your mind.

  • I find some vaginas gross but I'd bury my face in them before I'd ever touch another dick but my own. Honestly genitals are fucking gross sometimes, it's whatever. Doesn't mean anything unless you're physically attracted to women in all capacities, like their features, bodies, mannerisms, etc, etc.

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  • Honestly, I was the same way. You get used to it, I honestly avoid looking at it but I love feeling it and even give blowjobs. You just get over it eventually.

  • I also dont like the way genitals look. Heck i used to wish we were all shaped like Ken and Barbie down there lol. But aye I guess the look dont matter if its all about the pleasure

  • i wouldn't presume you aren't straight. sexual organs aren't necessarily attractive. but it's more about if you are attracted to men or women or whatever as a whole

  • I only find certain penises attractive, but as far as women I find them to be beautiful. I also get the urge to make love to them and kiss all over their bodies, but I'm straight. I promise.

  • Well I don't find them attractive but I do like guys wee bulge :) I don't think they're meant to be the most attractive things in the world anyway! Nobody's parts are really 😳

  • Have you ever received pleasure from a penis yet?

    • I think your views will change when you realize the pleasure it can bring

  • I think it's normal, I say this because I know guys who are grossed out by vaginas. But between the sheets they don't mind as long as they don't see it.
    I think this applies for women 2.

    • Any guy who's grossed out by vaginas is actually gay. They've just somehow managed to deny it enough that they can get through the act. Vaginas are gorgeous - and they taste great too.

    • @Intraluminal That's far to black and white, not being a fan of genitals doesn't make you anything. They lijke breasts and everything else like a normal dude would

    • I doubt that. I'm pretty sure attraction to genitals is imprinted. As a matter of fact, look at gay men and women. Have you ever heard of a gay man that wasbgay, but didn't love the way cocks look? Ditto (in reverse) for lesbians.

  • You could be asexual and not into sex. Maybe your going through a stage
    and not interested in guys at this time of your life really hard to say?

  • lol most likely you dont have a lot of sexual experience?
    I felt like that when i was inexperienced and it grows on you.

    • "It grows on you..." lol :D Yeah, literally!!

  • You might be asexual

  • Your not asexual and you are straight. Relax. What grosses you out specifically? Smell? Flaccid jiggle? Foreskin? Erection? The fact we pee from there? My advice is to ask your boyfriend to let you "play" with it a bit. Experiment a bit. You ll soon realise that its a really nice thing to have fun with.

  • Some of them are really ugly and gross just like some girls punanis are super gross looking. It just depends.

  • I don't know.

  • Not that it would make you homosexual but i dont think its normal no
    Inalso dont want to sound harsh but you should try and get over your fear of dicks or your boyfriend will most likely leave you

  • What's funny is that vaginas can be exceptionally beyond gross when compared to a penis... in others words... you're putting your foot in your own mouth

    • Asker... wait untill you've accually had sexual intercourse before you assume the worst.

    • Feel terrible for her guy.

    • @truthbeknown Just another feminist question

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  • Do you like pussy?

    • nope

    • Could be asexuals.

  • i find women's genitals and bodies gross and disgusting. and unaesthetical. but i'm straight and i only desire women.

    • Do you not even like boobs?

    • @Pink934 show me ONE woman with a nice pair. just one.

    • What does a nice pair consist of exactly?

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  • it is normal

  • If I put mine in your mouth you would have an instant orgasm

    • ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww barf

    • Hmmmm vomit fetish? I'm not into it but if it means I will get my dick sucked... I'm in!

    • you won't. ever.

  • Asexual means u don't even think of sex like at all
    And maybe is because something happened to u or maybe ur parents didn't give u the sex talk and explain to u that penis and a vigana are normal and not something for u to be gross about.

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