If I go on a vacation with a guy , is sex on the table? is that something that's need to be talked about ?

[callmekai]

[stevie123]

It depends on you relationship with this guy.
I don't know any girls that would go on vacation with a guy that they weren't hooking up with already.
I suppose a spring break thing might end up with sex with a non partner.
You should probably talk about it if you have any reservations or expectations.

[GingerGuy]

Depends on the relationship specifically and the vacation, however it's never a bad thing just to confirm that you are both on the same page. I think it should definitely be discussed. He may not be "expecting it", but like you, I'm sure he's wondering the very same thing.

[loves2learn]

If you are going on a vacation with a guy I would say it is highly likely you would expect to have sex. If you don’t want to have sex you should probably manage those expectations.

[Angel_ika]

If its only you two he probably expects something to happen at least

[wheist9095]

Depends entirely on your relationship with the guy. I've gone on vacations with groups of friends and not had to fuck any of them. That being said, I also paid my fair share. If you are tagging along and he's taking care of everything, he might expect it. So depending on the situation you should definitely talk to him about the expectations for the trip, and if he thinks it's going to end with him and you taking a roll in the hay

[ChrisMaster69]

It has to be a consideration, a lot depends on the guy and you, however even if platonic now, a holiday away does bring down the barriers.

you need to make sure you take condoms, of on pill make sure current.

if you want to talk to him, however thats a yes or no bit for sex.

[Sensmind]

I think it is conversation that needs to be had maybe you can be circumspect about and talk about sleeping arrangements - If you talk about separate beds or separate rooms, it almost automatically implies sex is off the table.
Anyway I am a genuine believer in total and open communication , leaves no room for potential misunderstandings

[Wowie101]

If its a couples vacation... ya

[Avicenna]

You should discuss your expectations. If you’re vacationing with him, especially if he’s paying for it, you can be sure he’s expecting to have sex with you

[Dargil]

Some degree of sexual intimacy is on the table. How far it goes is up to you.

[exitseven]

I would say that yes, it is on the table. If you have not had sex with him yet it is a conversation you should have, especially if you plan on not doing it with him.

[callmekai]

I just thought we could go on vacation together and it not be a big deal

[exitseven]

I should not be a big deal but it might be awkward if he has different expectations. My future wife lived 300 miles away. I drove up to her place for the weekend when we first started dating. Later she told me she was scared to death that I would expect sex. I was the consummate gentleman and she told me how much she appreciated it.

[Browneye57]

Only if you don't want it. And if you don't, tell us why you want to vacation with a guy in the same bed. Please, we're dying to now.

[KrakenAttackin]

@browneye57. She wants a simp to pay for a nice trip.

[Browneye57]

@KrakenAttackin - Just like all those dating site profiles that say, "Loves to travel". Sure you do honey... who the fuck pays for all that?

[KrakenAttackin]

@browneye57. Absolutely! "love to travel, live to dine out"... everything the man has to pay for. "Makes me laugh"... in every damn female profile, meaning she wants a court jester to entertain her. "My partner in crime"... unoriginal AF, in 80% of profiles. "Want a driven, professional, successful, man"... you must have a job that makes a lot of money and a title that will impress her friends. "Extra points if you...". Points? You can shove your points up your ass, in my mind too many points mean you lose your license. Or no profile data at all, just pictures equals "I'm too pretty to fill out this stuff, just come to me Chad Thundercocks". This is a great indicator how little effort she will put into the relationship overall. "I love to laugh"... in every single female profile, who TF doesn't like to laugh?

[KrakenAttackin]

And let's not forget the "NOT looking for HOOKUPS or friends with benefits"... But many of her pictures show her with a drink, at a bar with her friends, in full throttle "hookup" mode. Seriously, the amount of alcohol American women consume is mind boggling.

[Browneye57]

@KrakenAttackin - Here's my 'Take on what dating profile comments really mean:
Your Dating Profile Dissected - Or What NOT To Write About Yourself ↗

I actually borrowed it with permission, from a very experienced serial-dater. I just had to laugh.

[KrakenAttackin]

@browneye57. Agreed and that mytake is just the tip of the iceberg. I guess the world is mostly simps as women get away with all of this bad behaviour. On YouTube "Human" did a video about what it takes to get mature people to start dating and I think he is spot on. We have our lives in order and you had better be amazing if I am going to disrupt my normal order and allow you in.

[KrakenAttackin]

Oh and a big one I forgot "NO DRAMA"... In almost every female profile, which tells me she has been a drama queen and driven away tons of good men and is just starting to realise maybe it really is her that is the problem

[Browneye57]

@KrakenAttackin - yes, they're ALL drama queens. And attention whores. And shop-a-holics. And they've been told by their parents since before they could talk, just how pretty and special they are, how much more deserving than, and special than any boy, that boys must defer to them. That they'll one day be swept off their feet by some prince charming, and they they DESERVE all the best the world has to offer. It's an effort by mom and dad to nurture, but instead it instill this innate sense of entitlement that, unfortunately, some never grow out of. You even see it in their word tracks... "I deserve to be happy." Everyone deserves respect. Guys need to make the first move. And their self-view of their value is highly inflated as well. And not once in their entire limited little life did they ever once consider how they'll keep a man, what they will DO for their man, or what it takes to KEEP their man. No, most say that all men cheat. Well honey, you're so fucking boring I go find a side-chick for some fun pussy action. Fukkin loser. LOL I have a headache. I'm on my period. I just did my nails. You're so boring. I never get off. ARE YOU DONE YET?

[KrakenAttackin]

@browneye57 Yes! Yes! And Yes! Even mature women have these laundry lists of "must haves". I have also noticed how many women LIE about their height! I can only guess this is an effort get a taller man. You are the picture of her standing next to her son who is much taller than her, yet she lists her height as 5'8" which would mean her son is pushing 7 foot... Bullshit. I also see how many women just don't get it. The Chad Thundercocks are tiny percentage (especially once you are 40+) and yet these women constantly out want "TDH"... tall, dark, handsome. Delusional. I am 5'10"... not short but not tall. Why can't women realize the simple fact that what they seek is unrealistic?

[Browneye57]

@KrakenAttackin - They've been lied to their entire life. And they surround themselves with others that are completely biased, and support feminism which lies about EVERYTHING that is different between men and women. "All people are the same and equal". Well, no, honey, some of us are more equal than others. LOL. Or put another way, 'we don't need no stinkin' men'. Good. Then quit whining about it and get a cat instead. Idiots. And then they'll stand there with their hands on their hips accusing me of hating women and being a misogynist. Well, okay, false on the former, likely true on the latter, so fucking what? Like that's some kind of crime? No, I absolutely love women, have had one by my side my ENTIRE life - they adore me, I adore them. I'm strong, good looking, smart, capable, and make a a shit-ton of dough. And then there's the confidence. LOL But I don't take any shit from them, and call them on their bullshit game every time. They get nervous when you are aware of what they're really about. They simply just can't bullshit you anymore.

[KrakenAttackin]

That's right. As women get older their ability to buffalo high value men diminishes. It is amazing (and amusing) to see average at best women trying to "lay down the law" on dating profiles. Yes, this will work with Simps but they just divorced a Simp and want Chad Thundercock. Chad won't play that game so she is back to Simps.

[Browneye57]

@KrakenAttackin - Sad. They get so desperate. I tried to get rid of mine, no fukkin way she's leaving. Even offered to buy her another place and set her all up. "You can come and go and do whomever the fuck you want." Nope, she's staying. LOL

[KrakenAttackin]

@browneye57. Oh man. Hit yourself with something and tell the police she attacked you!

[Andres77]

Is anyone else going?
Ask him "where am I going to sleep?"
Watch his face. That should tell you what his intentions are

[callmekai]

Yeah Six friends that we both share and I'll ask him

[Ironic_Method]

If you're going on a vacation with him, you're both thinking about it. So if you both want to it absolutely is an option.

[Iron_Man]

If you don’t want to have sex you better make it clear before you step on an airplane or in his car

[AydenHazor]

It's something that needs to be talked about. If you're both up for it, then it's on the table

[Jamie05rhs]

That all depends on what his views are on sex.

[Wise4myage]

You should discuss this before you agree to go on vacation with him. But yes, chances are he’s gonna think sex will happen.

[Philyouup]

YES< he is expecting sex.. Yes, you better talk about it,

[TheBigGuy9]

What kind of guy are we talking about here? Some random guy, a friend, business trip?

[callmekai]

We have been talking for about a year now

[TheBigGuy9]

You online friends or something? Or you met in person? Talking for a year, wow.

[callmekai]

We met in person recently spending a lot of time together , met him through a mutual friend.

[TheBigGuy9]

Then yeah. You’re going on a vacation. He’s hoping to go balls deep in you.

[Caliguy88]

Lol. I’m planning a vaca with an ex and I told her I will try to have sex with her. She just said good luck. Regardless if she does or not... she knows I’ll try... but also knows I’ll drop it if not ok...

[KrakenAttackin]

@caliguy88. Dude, WTF are you thinking? Vacation with an ex? You are paying for everything I bet.

[MasterOfReality]

Yes, you need to lay that out up front if you have no plans on it. Anytime a guy takes a girl away on an overnighter plus, and he’s paying for everything, he thinks sex is gonna happen and the girl wants it too. If he takes her out like this and nothing happens, he will think she is a gold digging tease. It’s easy just to go ,”Hey, this trip is totally platonic right?” Beforehand.

[Twalli]

It I'd probably considered a definite possibility

[KrakenAttackin]

If you go on vacation with a guy sex is EXPECTED.