If I guy doesn’t automatically use a condom is that a red flag?

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I take full responsibility also. I have always had sex with a condom by either reminding them but most of the time they automatically put one on. I was so in the moment, extremely aroused, a tiny bit tipsy and I didn’t even think about it. I didn’t realize it until I got home. Is it a red flag if a guy doesn’t automatically put one on?

Hannahm67 · Accepted Answer

Not unless he is pushy about it. Like maybe in your case he was tipsy and forgot also It happens. Also if you are about to hook up with someone and they go to enter without and you stop them and they put one on then its also probably not. But if he tries to push saying it's fine without then yes or worse if he tries to take it off midway. I would recommend leaving right away if either of those happens. You don't want to risk them since it is likely that they have gone bare with many other women because there are a lot of women out there that are just as stupid to go bare with a stranger.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Lol 😆 this guy tried to do it condomless and said he was allergic to latex. So I got latex free condoms. Sucker 😅😅😅😅

Side note condoms suck... If I have a regular partner I will eventually do it without a condom

nousername44 · Accepted Answer

Excluding allergies to latex, no excuses. Personally i'm a germ-freak, so if i slept with any woman, "i" always insist on providing the condoms and the lube.

I'm the sort of man who comes prepared. But i'm choosy. I wouldn't date a woman who's never religiously worn condoms, but then again, i hate all types of oral, so then that's another demand hahaha isn't it?

You can see how i don't get laid. My demanding nature is what it is :)

I value "my" sexual health.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think it might be a bit of a "red flag" if it's not discussed at least. Shows respect and that he cares about it. But some guys don't care so? I think it's says something about them. I question if a woman doesn't bring it up, or if she says it's ok to not wear one. Especially the first time and if we don't know each other that well even.

normalice · Answer

Every condom I've used broke. Maybe I'm doing it wrong, but I'd rather not have that false sense of security in any case. I'm a pro at pulling out and got a vasectomy anyway..