If I have casual sex a few times per month after being celibate for two years will it ruin my reputation?

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  • Yeah, but if it's something you've done before then your reputation probably can't get very much worse.

    • Why do you think that

    • Because it's true

    • Have you done it and why and how was it

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  • Yea, having casual sex always ruins woman's reputation, especially if it with different men.

  • Reputation? Only if you live in a small town. In the city no one cares.

    • I live in a really big city most of the guys I’ve chatted to barely have more than 1 mutual friend on Facebook with me

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  • I don't see how it effects anything? Reputation? With regard to whom?

  • It is your private business. Don't ask, don't tell.

  • Yes, you will be viewed as stupid for choosing to be slutty, a lot less guys will be interested in you. But tbh if thats something you even want to do, then you aren't relationship material anyway, whether you do it or not.

    • Lol, I told her almost same thing

  • Not just ruin your reputation not will also do irreparable psychological damage

    • how will psychologically damage me?

    • Casual sex causes people to not be happy with single partners. It can cause depression Give you euphoric feelings at first but as you age you will realize everyone gets into your pants because of your outer beauty and not your inner beauty and character. You are likely to become frustrated with each person after sometime and lose your patience that's the requirement in a stable relationship. If you want to have a good relationship you should realize that you as a female need to respect your body first and love your body. I mean we all have lust but as a guy who remained virgin till now when I am finally engaged I think the wait was worth it. If you want to have sex then get married. You will be much better off. Yeah you might argue that people have sex around you but my dear you need to understand that life in this world can be spent wasting on these things or do it the right way. Maybe your husband is a swinger later on but right now you need to get your priorities straight:). Forget the past, your have been celibate, keep it that way. And no, don't fall into the honey traps where guys hoo you for being a nun, a prude etc etc. You're a woman who wants to have kids be mom to your pearl like kids one be a good wife, be a good mom, a best friend to your husband and expect same. You are at time of your life when you will get lots and lots of guys to compliment you like you are some Queen or possibly Goddess but trust me you are not special. What will make you special is not that you spread your legs to people but do it for someone who is ready to make family with you. If you have any more doubts, do ask away.

  • It can

    • What if I live in a huge city where people come from all different social groups etc

    • Then some people would really care and some do not care at all

  • How many times would have to have it in a week

  • Not in my eyes. Why should you be concerned about what others think. If you choose to have sex, have sex.

  • bruh...

  • Depends on who knows and how loud they are.

  • What others think doesn’t matter

  • Depends who u tell

  • Your business, no one else's

  • Its your personal life, live as you want.

  • Nothing will happen enjoy life

  • what kind of reputation do you have?

  • Yes. Any hoe like body count will make your value 0

  • I doubt it unless you talk about it

  • yes because casual sex with no committed relationship.

  • I have a few thoughts on that.

    • I would like to hear what you think

    • @Backwood1988 Nah, because the asker doesn't care.