Guys, If I lost my virginity from a sex toy am I still a virgin to men or not?

[Anonymous]

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So basically I’ve never been with a man, but I’ve used so many toys. And I literally lost the real virginity to a dildo. ☹️ Is my value gone now?

[MementoMori777]

You can't lose your virginity to a sex toy

[Asker]

But I did and I started bleeding. And it hurt. It hurt like a period cramp, or like stabbing. Like if I went too deep ☹️

[MementoMori777]

Sounds like you broke your hymen, your hymen isn't your virginity, virginity is a manmade word for first time basically, if you haven't had a real male genital inside you then you still have your virginity, you just broke your hymen with a sex toy

[Asker]

Oh ok 👍

[DerekC321]

You're still a virgin.

[Asker]

Are you sure? ☹️ even if I don’t bleed now?

[DerekC321]

The definition of losing your virginity is when a guy's erection enters your vagina. And honestly it doesn't matter if you're a virgin or not, anyway 🙂

[Asker]

❤️❤️❤️ Thanks my sister called me hoe and she’s says now men won’t talk to me

[DerekC321]

That's ridiculous, and very cruel. And she's totally wrong. Nothing wrong with using lots of toys and/or being with a lot of men. You're fine. Don't worry. You're human. You have needs, just like all of us. Might as well say I, as a guy, lost my virginity because I use/used sex toys too.

[Asker]

You have?

[DerekC321]

Yes, several different kinds.

[Asker]

Cool lol now I don’t feel so crazy

[DerekC321]

Yes, I ejaculated into a sex toy before I went all the way with a woman and I think I was still a virgin

[DerekC321]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Asker]

You said that even after you came in a female you still think you’re a virgin?

[DerekC321]

Haha, no, even after I came in a sex toy I still thought of myself as a virgin

[OlderAndWiser]

How do you define "virginity?"

[Asker]

When the woman bleeds? The hymen?

[OlderAndWiser]

By that definition, a 9 year old girl whose hymen ruptures as a result of an accident is not a virgin.

[Asker]

What type of accident is that?

[strateguy632]

reference to the warning on some tampon boxes and websites. oh 9 dont use tampons yet.

[OlderAndWiser]

"The hymen has a reputation for being an indicator of sexual activity — like a hard, seal-like covering that blocks your vagina — but it usually has no connection to whether a woman (or person assigned female at birth) has had sex. In reality, it's soft and elastic and doesn't necessarily block your vaginal opening. It can break from everyday activities, inserting a tampon or having sex."

my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/22718-hymen

What I have heard most often is gymnastics, riding a bicycle, or inserting a tampon.

[236color]

If any guy feels that you are only valuable for your lack of sexual experience, run do not walk.

[Berethor]

You not a virgin physically, but you might mentally, but you lost your proof, lost your hymen.

[Asker]

So what do I do now?

[Berethor]

Accept that you are not fitting for marriage anymore, give up on marriage.

[abc3643]

Yes.

[Gent207-2]

Your virginity does not determine your worth and anyone who says otherwise is a creep and a liar.

Your worth is more than the presence or absence of your hymen or sexual experience.

[strateguy632]

according to online dictionary and some men, still a virgin but most men feel that is just playing with words. open is open even by tamping tampon for pool.

[Asker]

Tamping tampon for Pool?

[Miristheiss]

Sex and the loss of virginity is SEXUAL CONTACT with another LIVING BEING.

What you describe... a sex toy is MASTURBATION.

[Bricealan]

My question is HOW you managed to rupture you Hymen with a dildo. I have only had sex with one virgin that was 19 and breaking her hymen, (which I regret doing to this day) was a horrific thing to do. She had minimum bleeding, but it was a traumatic thing for her and I both.

Had it to do over, I would have continued to have intercourse with her but not breaking her hymen, until she was sure of her lovers intentions.

[Asker]

It’s probably because I used a glass one

[Davidbrooks]

You are still a virgin. But there is a thing called a sex toy virgin. (Read it on the internet) so you are not a sex toy virgin.

[Wonderingguyy]

Don’t worry, you’re still a virgin