If I use a dildo am I cheating on my boyfriend?

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  • Not if you've told him you're using one.
    Is this purely for your own pleasure when alone, or because of sexual frustration?

    • sexual frustration :( he does not know I am thinking about buying one

    • @not_a_dumb_blonde Have you tried talking to him, explaining what you like, even gently showing him?

    • I have. I love him but am just really stressed with work and school whenever we are in bed together all I can think about is the next assignment I have due for school or all the unread work emails I have

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  • Of course not.

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  • of course using a dildo to pleasure yourself is NOT cheating on your boyfriend. having sexual needs is human nature and if he isn't there to deal with your needs, one's gotta do what one's gotta do right? I think it's good to let him know you masturbate to take care of your own needs when he isn't able to do so.
    one might consider it as cheating if you're thinking about another guy while masturbating.
    I'm happily in a relationship but I only have sex with my girlfriend once a week, and hence, I have to attend to my own needs on other days.
    I have a huge stash of sex toys including fleshlights and autoblow, and my girlfriend thinks it's the most normal thing in the world!! don't worry too much and just enjoy your body.

  • Well, you just proved your name is not true if you believe using a dildo is cheating - - - unless you use it all the time instead of having sex with your boyfriend/So. Then you might be guilty.

  • I mean ya could ask to get his hard on replicated... O. O if it's that important XD. We do have 3D printers now..

  • Pretty sure that doesn't qualify as cheating!

  • nope

  • Nope

    • Thanks!

    • Sure

  • No though it might be more fun if you teach him how to use it on you.

  • As long as another mans hand isn't attached to it. How does your question even come close to cheating? Were you thinking about another man and now you feel guilty?

  • Hell no

  • Nope

  • SERIOUSLY?

  • Uh, no.

  • No. But you should be getting all of your sexual release from your boyfriend when possible. That's part of the reason he's there.

    • I love my boyfriend but when we have sex I don’t orgasm

    • You should be able to make yourself orgasm during sex. Also teach him what you like and what feels good. With enough practice sex should be way more enjoyable than masturbation.

    • Do you orgasm every time you have sex?

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  • Ofc not, especially if he doesn’t give you enough sexual pleasure

  • Nope

    • okay

  • Not really, he probably still wanks even though he's with you

    • Considering how often we have sex and I give him oral I don’t see why he would he would do that

    • You'd be surprised, if you do it that much why would you want a dildo?

    • I don’t orgasm when we have sex together and lately I’ve been feeling very sexually frustrated

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  • No miss girl

  • No Way girl, you are releasing your sexual / hormones driving you crazy, I don't see it as cheating heck there are couples who introduce sex toys in the bedroom?

  • Nope

  • No, you are not with anyone else so it is not cheating.

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