Are you losing your virginity for him or for you? Make sure you want too because doing it for them and then later on in the relationship if it ends you will regret it.
Plus keep in mind the sex might be short if he cums quick.
Basically all I'm saying is make sure you are happy to do it, not just to make him happy.
Maybe after you lose it you can have sex to make him happy if you want too but make sure your first time is your choice because you want to do it for yourself
It's not a he should you should thing. If he knows this whole deal and isn't like I got this babe or whatever... think again, give it to someone else. But if the whole point is a surprise then there's nothing wrong with you paying.
If you're not sure though please wait. A woman's V is very important to her future relationships so if you aren't sure just wait, that's never a bad thing.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Well, if it is a surprise. If you have him pay for the hotel, presumably in advance unless you know the place has plenty of room, well, it is not a surprise anymore, is it?
I'm just old fashioned. Chivalrous or whatever you want to call it. I like to pay for dinner, pay for the hotel, the lot. You're giving him your virginity, at least he can pay for the room?
Your invitation and your surprise: you should pay.
He gets my virginity and a free luxury hotel room?
I'm sorry... I didn't mean for it to sound harsh. I guess the way I looked at it is if you make it a surprise, but I've got to whip my credit card out that's a bit of a gut punch. I don't know where you live, but where I live, a good hotel room is $300 a night. My girlfriend offering her virginity is wonderful and thoughtful and awesome, but if she says hey, we're going for a surprise, we get to the hotel to check in, and my wallet's coming out, that's a bit much.
Regarding your update: plenty of men can and will be romantic. Plenty of men would probably even be glad to sweep you off your feet and pay for the hotel. But NOT if them paying for the hotel is your idea and is a surprise. It's not the paying for it that everyone in these comments is against. It's the surprise of paying for it. If you told your boyfriend something like, "would you take me away for the weekend -- I have something very special to give you..." I bet he'd book that hotel room before you finished the sentence.
You should get married first
Would like to but men are no longer traditional and will rather dump you and run off to an escort to have sex and other guys encourage guys NOT to wait
Well you’re just as bad if you’re not waiting. Those are man whores. Find a man who isn’t a man whore. Because good men don’t want women whi sleep around either and those women don’t choose those kinds of men. Not even saying he has to be traditional unless that’s what you’re wanting. Just not a man whore
Modern or traditional I think it’s all stupid and I say find who makes you happy. Just save sex until marriage
If it's part of a surprise gift, like for Christmas, you should pay. If it's something you've discussed doing with him and have decided now is the time, I suspect he would be happy to pay for the hotel, or at least help you pay for it.
If its a surprise then you should pay for it. Why is it weird if a woman pays for the man, its not like he hasn't done anything for you which involves money
Just fuck him in the car if you wanna surprise him then given you don’t want to pay for it.
If he pays for it, it’s no longer a surprise. He’ll know why you’re telling him to buy a room
I don’t want car sex
I want my first time to be in a bed with rose petals and stuff
Oh wow
May as well just pay for it and let him make it up later; that way it’s a surprise
How about you ask him to pay but use an excuse so he doesn't see it coming.
@update wow haha some guys are romantic but they just need the right space for that I guess. Hope you get your great first time.
Let him pay. He will care of it if he thinks enough of you. You should feel special as this only happens once.
Let him pay. He will take care of it if he thinks enough of you. You should feel special as this only happens once.
He should
How will it be a surprise if he pays?
Like I take his card and say I’m gonna buy something for the both of us and i tell him don’t check your card or I ask him upfront for the money
Couple of issues with this. First, if I was your boyfriend I would say no to a random credit card purchase. Second most hotels won't let you check in as an 18-something year old. Thirdly if it is a cash purchase; that will send all kinds of red flags. Finally, if it is his card, he will need to be present to check in; and then the surprise is over.
I assume he was the one who asked you out and hit on you
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