Guys, if it's just for a hookup, do you rather go for the innocent girl or the "slut"?

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  • By definition a slut is more convenient and the whole point of a hook up is the convenience,

    But this is a badly framed question. If you're asking if both a slut and an identical innocent girl approached me for sex at the same time so i got to choose - what makes a girl innocent is the thing that is likely to prevent her from asking for sex directly in the first place. Then the benefit of a slut is she knows what she likes so that's likely what we'll be doing, even if I'd prefer something else. An innocent girl does not know what she likes so I'd get to experiment.

    Of course, that only applies if the slut doesn't like what I like and the innocent girl is willing to experiment. So, even if a slut and an identical innocent girl approached me for sex and asked me to choose between them, if they wanted me to take the choice seriously I'd have to ask what each is interested in trying. But if they both wanted to do what I wanted to do, it wpuld ultimately depend on my mood. Half the enjoyment of sex is how the girl reacts to it, and an innocent girl's reaction is more likely to be genuine. But a slut is going to take far less coaching. So if I was in the mood for some patient sex with a high payoff, then the innocent girl. But if i just wanted to get off, the slut.

    • You put a lot of thought into it haha thanks!

    • Well, a lot of words, anyway 😅

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  • Generalities like these aren't genuinely helpful for when I, personally, am going to have a hookup with another, given, human being. The most I can say in direct response is that I might expect a 'slut' to have less internalized misogyny than an, 'innocent,' girl (yikes on these terms, is sexual experience evil or something?). But even that isn't consistent across the board. I do prefer less internalized misogyny, of course.

    For a hookup I prefer someone with a lot of affective empathy so that, even though we might only be consummating the semiotic romance of a few hours' time, that the connection will be mutually and apparently felt. Ideally they should also be openly communicative and free to speak for themselves and their desires.

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  • If she just goes for a hookup. She's not what I would qualify as an innocent girl.

  • I would say go for both

  • I don't go for just a hookup and an "innocent" girl is always much more of a turn on than a slutty girl.

  • Well since you know nothing about the person, you do not know if innocent or not.

    you will have hooked up with them by the time you find out.

  • Innocent girl. I think she’s the wild one but in disguise

  • the person that knows what they want. innocent is only hot if she's that kind of hoe. if not it feels weird and like im dragging someone along

  • An innocent girl wouldn't do a hookup... duh

  • If it's a one time thing than I want someone more naughty. But if she is innocent I would rather try and date her.

  • Whoever's willing to hook up

  • The slut. The more experience, the better the sex is.

    • True :)

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