If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?

Love may indeed be blind, but in order to create that love in the first place, you’ve got to start somewhere and wearing lingerie makes the “falling in love” process a lot easier for some people.

An interesting observation is that lingerie is worn more often while dating than it’s worn after the wedding vows have been spoken.

Lingerie is a big turn-on for a lot of men and women. And both genders generally know this. Some women and some men wear lingerie for its effects on their partners, while other people wear lingerie because it makes them feel sexy. Many women and men wear lingerie for both reasons.

But regardless of the reasons why men and women wear lingerie, it popularly is due to ability to stimulate a lovers libido and some times their own libido.

If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?

It's soft to the touch and can be very revealing without giving everything away before the "Christmas Gift" is fully unwrapped.

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  • My feeling is that "Love being blind" would refer to what happens AFTER you have actually fallen in love...
    I would hardly fall in love because of lingerie (or due to the lack of it). The wearing of lingerie, or absence of it, would certainly not encourage or discourage any notions of real love.
    However, after you have fallen in love, it would mean "being blind" to the partner/significant other's faults or errors (Maybe they don't wear lingerie then and you accept that? LOL)
    Personally, I find zero correlation between Lingerie and Love!

  • why u mix sex with love?

  • That's just an added bonus to both men &women.

    • Yes many men wear it to. I'm one of them

  • You are confusing love and lust. Lingerie alone does not make someone fall in love but can be a small oart of the puzzle that makes someone fall in love with another person.

  • I like them too.

  • Love isn't blind lmao

  • Shallow attraction.

    To many haven't developed enough to understand the difference with real love and shallow based feelings.

  • Uh cuz guys still like their girls looking sexy lol. My mom was really skinny when she got married to my dad. She's heavier now, but he loves her so she's still sexy to him and so sexy stuff makes her even better.
    Love is blind means that if you love someone, they'll be automatically attractive naked even if no one else thinks so. But that doesn't mean dressing up still doesn't make them look even better.

  • I thought you were a woman asking this question.

    • Hahaha really the blue give it away

  • That's not love, that's passion, love of the female body !!

  • Love is blind because you may not be able to help whom you’re attracted to. But at the same time, you may already find it sexy for a woman to wear lingerie.

    • How about the other way other around. What if she love him in lingerie

  • one word

    LUST

    • That's a big super DUH

  • Because lust sure as hell isn't.

  • It's a stimulant for both parties. Hubby and I both enjoy it when I wear it, and when I remove it.

  • It's no surprise that lingerie is worn before marriage more often than after. You won the game, you got the guy, you don't have to keep trying to get him to marry you, he already did.

  • Its a like not a love bruh

  • Because the ''falling in love'' kind of love ain't blind. It requires physical and emotional attraction.

  • Love is blind, sex isn't.

  • It helps that women's bodies are works of art and the tease of what you barely cannot see is intoxicating

  • It's sexy. I enjoy wearing it.

    • very sexy indeed - at times can be ever more so than fully nude

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