If making out doesn't end in sex, do you masturbate once you're home?

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Do you masturbate after you made out with a guy/girl if you didn't have sex that night (whatever the reason is)? I do, I'm just curious if people also do the same thing lol

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johnmsk Explorer
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yes.. i do after intense making out if it doesn't end in sex.. and so u r not alone :)
and i fantasize about the stuff we did and wild stuffs that might hv happened if we hadn't stopped... what do u fantasize when u masturbate after making out?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  same thing
Crazyced Explorer
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All I can think of is what a shame it would be if both parties ended up walking away to masturbate on their own.

Even if sex was out of the question, they could masturbate each other. That’s be hot too. Beats doing it alone that’s for sure!
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- Asker
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  Yeah but what's the point of masturbating each other but not having sex? If you're ready to get intimate enough with a person, enough to masturbate each other, then why not go all the way? Like I said somewhere below in a comment, sometimes, like on a first date, maybe, you're not ready for sex yet but making out is alright and fun.
- Crazyced
  +1 y
  For some people (mostly girls I have to say), sex itself is the threshold they won't cross too hastily. Anything else doesn't really count nearly as much.
- Asker
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  That's how I feel too. But masturbating each other also involves about the same amount of intimacy as sex. For me at least...
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- Crazyced
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  I think so too, but I'm always surprised at the amount of rationalization some girl will got though in order to not see themselves as slut. Heck not too long ago on here there's was a question about whether or not 'just the tip' counted as sex.
- Asker
  +1 y
  yeah society is fucked up if you have to ask that.

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strawberrycupcakes Xper 6
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i don't have the expectation of sex at the end of making out. i mean it's a turn on and all, but unless there was also a lot of touching involved, i'm fine with just making out.
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Hidden_P Guru
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No. Sometimes you can be making out and it's more about the connection or expressing your love. It's not always passion-fuelled snogging.
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Anonymous
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Sometimes. I guess it depends on if I got worked up sexually or if I just enjoyed the kissing.
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COCOCHANEL Master
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i always climax during makeout sessions. the boy doesn't always.
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- Asker
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  wow really? Does he finger you?
- COCOCHANEL
  +1 y
  yes after i climax

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HandsomeRaj Guru
+1 y
Ok I've always been 'weird' lol but if I make out or watch p*rn etc it isn't necessary that I wank off later.

Kind of difficult to explain why but that's how it is :)
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Glitter_TE_ART Xper 5
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Yes, most definitely.
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ClearBlueSky Xper 5
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Yep. Every time ;)
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Belgie Master
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I'd prefer if she finished me off, if we weren't going to have sex.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  That counts as sex, oral sex
- Belgie
  +1 y
  Hand job would do fine.
- strawberrycupcakes
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  really? so from what i gather from the guys answers, sex or something else is always expected after a make out session? i've made out just for the sake of making out because i liked it.
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- Belgie
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  Guys aren't like that. Making out is nice, yes. But it's also something that revs our engine up, and once that happens, we want release. It's something girls often don't understand because they seem to enjoy getting their engines revved up just for the hell of it. So they ask questions like how can they turn their guy on and get him worked up. They don't understand that getting a guy worked up and then LEAVING it alone, is not pleasant for the guy. It's like that joke about the guy who takes his wife shopping for new outfits, jewelry etc.. then leaves her at the check out and says he's not actually buying anything, he just wanted her to have the pleasure of shopping for all these things...
- strawberrycupcakes
  +1 y
  but what if you're at the 'making out stage' in a relationship but not the more 'intimate stuff stage' yet? unless you're saying that from a guy's perspective, there shouldn't be a make out stage? :(
- Belgie
  +1 y
  If you're that young, then in that case sure he can wait until he gets home to jerk off.
- Asker
  +1 y
  That's the thing. It's like on the first date, you don't always want to have sex yet, but making out would still be OK...
- Belgie
  +1 y
  Yeah, sure.
BrianG123 Xper 6
+1 y
Yes, certainly.
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Sex_Panther Yoda
+1 y
Yes! Because not really, no.
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yaddayaddayadda02 Master
+1 y
Yes, I would. But making out always ends in sex for me.
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Mesonfielde Master
+1 y
Actually, yes. You just cannot override the biological imperative of sexual arousal in any other way.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I like how you put it... "the biological imperative of sexual arousal" lol Nice... *giggle*
- Mesonfielde
  +1 y
  It's true though, the arousal just doesn't stop otherwise even after the event xD
- Asker
  +1 y
  hell even until the day after, if you think about it again :P
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- Mesonfielde
  +1 y
  Exactly! There is only one solution...
rthomas43 Guru
+1 y
Regardless of whether or not it leads to sex, I'm jacking off later lol
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- Asker
  +1 y
  even if it did lead to sex?
- rthomas43
  +1 y
  Yep. I have to cum multiple times a day to be satisfied.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Whew, that must be exhausting and time consuming
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- rthomas43
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  Nah. By this point in my life, I can't get it done and over with fairly quickly lok
- Asker
  +1 y
  can or can't? But still, most guys say they're pretty tired after cumming once.
- rthomas43
  +1 y
  Can* After I cum, I'm out of commission for all of 20 minutes, then it's like it never happened and I'm horny and ready to go again lol
TadCurious Master
+1 y
I think that's pretty common, yeah.
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Annymous8 Yoda
+1 y
I do the same thing.
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zombiebabe Editor
+1 y
yes of course
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abundantlyrich Master
+1 y
too busy with house work...
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- abundantlyrich
  +1 y
  And no privacy in the house
- Asker
  +1 y
  bathroom... Unless your bathroom has no lock... lol
- abundantlyrich
  +1 y
  The lock doesn't work... im better doing housework to wear the excess energy out
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- Asker
  +1 y
  that's no fun...
- abundantlyrich
  +1 y
  Its exercise, not Sexercise.
decemberxblue Explorer
+1 y
Nope. Never done that before.
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ThreeIn Xper 7
+1 y
Nah. Making out only gets me going if I know we're gonna fuck, or if I really like the girl.
Otherwise its not a big deal.
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kaitlovesyou Yoda
+1 y
Do lol well when I wasn't married
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Keyspirits Guru
+1 y
Lmao.. dis make meh LOL
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- Asker
  +1 y
  so what are you saying? And why do you spell like a kid?
- Keyspirits
  +1 y
  can't i allow to have ma own tecting stylez Dx I luv uniqueness!
- Asker
  +1 y
  you can, but I can also think whatever I want about it. I think it's retarded btw, not unique.
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- Keyspirits
  +1 y
  at least its better than being the same as everybody else =P Too boring if were all da same
- Asker
  +1 y
  If being different means talking like a baby, then I'd take being boring anytime.
- Keyspirits
  +1 y
  Than why are u still sexting meh huh ;D
- Keyspirits
  +1 y
  U know u want sum of ma uniqueness babay xD
- Asker
  +1 y
  so this is what you call sexting, huh?
- Keyspirits
  +1 y
  I said do u want sum?
- Asker
  +1 y
  sum what? dim sum? Hell yeah I'd like some dim sum.
- Keyspirits
  +1 y
  Lel sum of ma uniqueness. I can embed sum of dem onto u ;3
- Asker
  +1 y
  little boy, you make me feel dumber
- Keyspirits
  +1 y
  Lmao! little boi u mean? Our kidz would be even better than us @ dis doe if we manage to have sum one day c:
- Asker
  +1 y
  God I hope we don't.
- Keyspirits
  +1 y
  Haha why not? I dink it would be hella dope xD
- Mesonfielde
  +1 y
  I would be ever so turned off by the abbreviations and misspellings xD
- Asker
  +1 y
  You can learn a lot from Mesonfielde. Words like "overriding the biological imperative of sexual arousal" can be such a turn on instead of your "dis is how I spik cuz I want 2 be unique n not no I am rilly weird"
- Keyspirits
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  Why can't i be unique spicken lye dis? Dx Only people wif speshal brain can read such advanced texts. If u don't know how to read it, do bak to Engrish 1-2 lel i dun hap time to teach kids :3
- Asker
  +1 y
  Because it just sound dumb instead of unique.
- Asker
  +1 y
  But whatever, do what you want, I'm sure you can turn on some 8 year old talking like that
- Keyspirits
  +1 y
  Since you're being so butt hurt, now can i embed sum of my uniqueness onto u? I have peove u my worth have i? c:
- Keyspirits
  +1 y
  prove*
- Keyspirits
  +1 y
  Hahahaha sum 8yr olds xD Dont make ma hart race lye dat pliss asker x) Ma hart is very sensitive u noe :/
- Patsfan69
  +1 y
  I get it. your a time traveler.. your a runaway slave.. aww.. ya poor bastard
Strider90 Yoda
+1 y
Not always.
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Theguywhomadeurday Xper 7
+1 y
Yeah I do.
Generally I masterbate daily at least twice if my gf is not there.
Sometimes dcore can be upto 10 also. Lmao 😉

I have lots of testosterone and hormones. Lol
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spiffy11 Xper 5
+1 y
If I got to feel her tits I do
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poisonlady Xper 4
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Lol. Tbh: I've never experience that feeling afterwards.
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Anonymous
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yes, but i´d probably do it anyways, even if i had not been making out with them :D
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Anonymous
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Yes, if i make out but for what ever reason end up back at home alone, i will masturbate about it.
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