If most guys say they love curves and curvier women, why does most porn (and media/movies) feature such skinny girls?

[Anonymous]

Okay, I don't mean curvy as in a lot of extra fat, I just mean softer, more actual silhouette to her frame. Sure, porn girls can be hot, but most look like little boys (very straight up and down) with fake boobs, not much of a butt, and lots of make up. Is that desirable? OR maybe you guys are just looking at the act? Occasionally, you'll see that curvier, skinnier girl, but that doesn't seem to be the norm and you kinda have to dig a bit for it. Movies are often the same. Maybe just scared a little fat looks like a lot or? Just more curious thoughts on this! Every guy I know says, "curves!"... am I misunderstanding their idea of curves? Maybe it's just females that analyze it. Lol. Maybe guys are more on board with a girl is naked and this is awesome. 😅

[Effably]

Guys like all kinds. No need to complicate it really. If we say and act like we like something, we do.

But curvy to us is closer to the actual meaning of the word.

Keep in mind that curvy does not mean having any extra weight. That's just what some people chose to call it to have a flattering word for extra weight.

Curvy is basically just a shape like S. It curves. As opposed to say l.

If you look at typical body types the curviest one is the hourglass shape. Which is also the bodyshape most men will favor if given a choice. I can not stress enough though that attractive is attractive. Silly things like body type, hair colour and alike don't actually decide much.

Aaaand as a little afterthought: Watching and touching are different. Skinny might be nice to watch but touching a girl and feeling her ribs isn't all that appealing. So its perfectly reasonable for a guy to prefer a more.. love handles type of girl in real life and still favor a skinny type in adult videos. Make sense?

[Asker]

Perfectly. I think this is a great response. I think overall, it's the balance of proportions and measurements.

[Holsen]

Well in case you don’t know there is an even splitting in porn like you have all kind of porn girls ranging from slim or very skinny to petite , regular, curvy milfs and even to extreme bbw so I guess they do that in order to attract all kind of viwers as not all favor curves some have a thing for skinny some for regular some for curvy and so on!!

[Asker]

Right! I am based off of most viewed and nonsearched specifics. Think homepage suggestions.

[Holsen]

Well I see your point

[Holsen]

Even though personally I don’t think there’s even a fav type anymore, according to me for as long as a girl feels natural and beautiful in her skin then I don’t mind the body type that much!!

[Asker]

That is a great response. Thank you for your honesty. I agree that if a women eludes confidence and self care, it grabs attention and there is a drive for more.

[Holsen]

Yeah cuz personally I think that there is some sort of connection between body and soul like I get that a persons looks can be affected by environment and many factors but I like to belive that the body has some sort of plan on how the body takes shape and develops accordingly to the persons personality and character!!

[Asker]

Never heard that before. That is an interesting view!

[Holsen]

Well that’s how I feel;at least since I can say I have a good insight of myself I can tell that my body suits me well and I suit my body well as well, like the body is a car and you are the racer, you can have a great car but if you don’t have the right racer then you won’t get the best result and the same applies, if you have a good racer but not the right car for it (note that here Im not refering to price or year, just in terms of customising according to the racer traits and abilities and personality) the racer won’t be able to show his full skills

[Kaneki05]

Intentionally looking over a thing called Milfs which I am about sure is in the most of guys likings. Most Milf porn is curvy women and liked for such reasons.

[Asker]

Milfs definitely hit all the boxes. Real milfs typically have a bit extra, stretch marks, and a bit of skin (oh, babies!). I'd think this would lessen that desire, but maybe not?

[Kaneki05]

For some reason we are drawn to the fact she's been used before so those things just add to the evidence so those things just make our desires spark.

[Asker]

Intrigued!. Could you elaborate? I think the 18, fresh, new, first time being the most desired. (Which still might be). Is it experience and self awareness/appreciation on the woman's part that is so desirable?

[Kaneki05]

I would say both are as common as each other. And we probably like both fantasy wise. Speaking in general terms. Well yeah we like women who are experienced, you can't really have a fantasy of her saying dirty talk like "I do it better than anyone else" or etc if they are a virgin lol. And I am sure many guys won't admit it like I said I think we like knowing she's been knocked up before. I would say it's taboo hot. And as we know taboo likes some are very common.

[Asker]

Very true!

[Dargil]

My guess two reasons. To appease feminists in oppo to the big tit stereotype and because flatties hint at underage. Harvey Weinstein would approve.

[Asker]

Ha! 😅

[Ekvark]

Ionno about that but there are dozens of women body types in porn. That's just stereotyping right there.

[Asker]

Maybe! I am basing this off of opening up the individual sites. Not searching unless it's most viewed.

[RedInnocent68]

Disagree. Your guy just likes ‘teen’ porn. 🤔😉😂

[Asker]

Who said anything about a guy?

[RedInnocent68]

Apologies. I made an assumption, given guys tend to avail of porn more than girls. I’m steadfast that that most porn does not feature skinny girls.

[Asker]

How so? Explain, I'd love to read your thoughts!

[RedInnocent68]

Well, of the top four trending pornstars on PornHub, only one I would describe as ‘skinny’

[RedInnocent68]

And of the top ten categories, only three would tend to focus on girls that are skinny…

[RedInnocent68]

So I guess I’m wondering what's informing your view that most porn features such skinny girls? The algorithms on the internet sort of make it a self fulfilling prophecy, suggesting more and more of what you start out with. To be fair, the rare occasions I search for porn often start with ‘busty brunette’ because if I’m getting off to porn I’m usually missing my SO who I obviously like a lot… 🤔😉😂

[Asker]

That is so sweet. 😊

[RedInnocent68]

Gee, thanks. Some girls would still diss that as cheating… ☺️😂

[Asker]

Dang. Nope. I watch porn when my husband travels for work. We often share a few we enjoy when miles apart for fun. Together, I don't as much... obvious reasons 🙃. We do sometimes together and it is a lot of fun. Cheating... nope. Unless it's a hidden, lied about thing. Guarantee most real women like it just as much as guys... maybe just different types!

[RedInnocent68]

I know, right?

[Asker]

Yes.😊

[CallmeTheKnight]

Yeah, just stick to reality. Because porn is just for profit and that’s not real pleasure. Don’t make something out of nothing.

[Asker]

I could agree! No standards and comparing!

[Sunnybeach123]

Curvy is just as sexy and more realistic, too.

[Asker]

Meaning? Is it preferred?

[Sunnybeach123]

Yes, definitely. I prefer it and I know other guys who do too.

[Asker]

Right. Point agreed. Is that also the porn you watch? Or do you like it all? Or?

[Sunnybeach123]

I don't watch porn. I just think a girl/woman with that kind of body is attractive. Seeing a nude picture of a woman like that gets me very aroused/hard.

[Asker]

Ah, may I genuinely ask why you don't? It seems rare not to is all.

[Sunnybeach123]

It's honestly kind of boring for me in most cases. Like a minute of bad acting and then just repetitive sex. My fantasies are much more arousing to me (and if I have a pic to look at).

[Asker]

Same. Once you've spent a few years, it's all the same, different face.

[Sunnybeach123]

Exactly. Nothing at all exciting.

[Asker]

😅...

[Joker_]

law of averages

[Asker]

Good comment.

[MrCharlie13]

There's porn for all tastes. Most mainstream porn sells ideal images, just like fashion catalogues

[Asker]

So, you are saying that's the ideal?

[FenixG45]

I'm gonna guess because that industry, like Hollywood, encourages and favors drug and diet abuse!

[Asker]

Nice. I'd agree, but think preferred is as skinny as possible WITH as many curves as a skinny girl can give. (Hard to do!)

[FenixG45]

It's a brutal industry chewing people up.

[Asker]

True!

[Anonymous]

Guys like all shapes and sizes of women. Skinny is just the most popular.

[Asker]

Why? Curious! 🙂

[Opinion Owner]

Hold over from the 80s

[Anonymous]

Privately we like curves!!

[Asker]

Privately! Love it! I feel like a search result of curves is not at really curves. At least skinner means they take care of themselves? I could see that.

[Opinion Owner]

I think society condition people to think that thin women are more valued as mates, but naturally guys like soft women and love the way curves look and feel, a lot of guys I know who judge women for being overweight and talk about how skinny women are the hottest also admit to me about having secret flings with curvy and even chubby girls, so it's kinda complicated! As guys get older they care less about what others think and become more accepting about body types

[Anonymous]

Most?

[Anonymous]

If you look back at the most popular men's magazines (before the internet destroyed all of them) and you check out the women they featured, you'll find that curvy was indeed the most popular body type for a woman. And I mean FIT with a dramatic waist to hip ratio and big, firm, perfectly shaped boobs--not the morbidly obese messes that declare themselves "curvy" today.

Of the most popular girls in the British "lads mags" for instance, almost ALL of them had some SERIOUS curves.