Can't say. Not super experienced in this area.
For one, a lot of times it's more exhausting for the guy unless you use more female-active methods. For another, your body just kinda wants you to "get to the point", and then once you get there, guys get drenched in basically enough tranquilizer to put a horse into a coma. Women get a shot of adrenaline and can have multiple orgasms, at least once they've been at it a while.
While speculative, some say this may point to a history of women "making the rounds" in tribes. Basically going from guy to guy, knocking them off one-by-one. Some hunter-gatherer tribes in the Amazon believe that a woman needs to have sex with 5 or so guys in order to actually get pregnant.
Some anatomical evidence points to "making the rounds" as well. But I don't think it's super conclusive. Just that it seems to match.
But it's something I always keep in mind for if I eventually get to that point. Like, for me everything leading up to it is the fun part, anyway. So might as well stay in foreplay as long as possible. But I guess you've been with a lot of guys who would disagree. lol.
Hope you find one to have a good (long) time with.
Lol.. that is somewhat... ok.. here goes.. the more times any couple engage in sexual activities it is supposed to become increasingly better and balanced.. to make your partner feel that good they lose control is a good thing.. a partner that only worries about their own needs.. is a life lesson that's about to be learned one way or another.. it's inevitable and can go a hundred different ways.. help the partner in that situation come to... lol.. no pun intended at all. Help them to learn and yourself enlightened along the way as to make it to where both sides are satisfied.. get a head start so you finish the same time.. try different methods to make it work for you to the fullest.. after all... if there's a problem one of two are having and it's not brought to their attention and is allowed to continue until it reaches unhealthy irreversible effects in the relationship.. then it's just as much your own fault.. like.. ok who's fault would it be if you ran 1/4 miles worth of gas out in 1/8 of a mile.. the driver.. or the car.. the driver may need to adjust the ways she drives it if she likes the car and don't like getting left on the side of the road.. ya see.. if he's.. driving the car until empty and not filling her back up.. then he's going to mess up a nice car.. see it goes both ways.
Some guys don't know they're not doing it right or good because enough women don't express that they're not getting enjoyment, or those that fake an orgasm... Truly great sex happens with good communication and really getting to know your sex partner, sharing your likes/dislikes, turn ons/turn offs... Trying different things..
That's too much work for many people.
@spartan55 talking about sex is too much work?
It seems like it is for the OP here
I uhh wow. I don't think you are giving men enough credit here. Or you've just gotten very unlucky with the quality of your sex partners. For that I feel bad for you.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You must be talking about young inexperienced men, who think sex is about thrusting for five minutes and women should enjoy it as much as much.
The more experienced older ones know how to do it right.
What's the matter, you never hear of foreplay before?
Remember in the cow girl position sex doesn't finish until she finishes.
To get better at something requires PRACTICE.
Practice REQUIRES a supportive, compliant PARTNER to practice WITH
a 'designated alternate' constitutes 'cheating' unless a
'Friend With Benefits'. CONSTRUCTIVE Criticism is ALWAYS welcome.
In college, hook ups came with the admonition:
"If I've made you happy... tell your friends.
If NOT, please TELL ME FIRST!"
Why men are YOU sleeping with, that can barely last 5 minutes. I usually go 60 to 90 minutes at the very least, and even that time flies by pretty quickly.
Yes, it’s all about finding the right one and getting him trained up to do a good job
Is there a problem in learning by experimentation? Like imagine your boyfriend/husband lasts for a few minutes right now. When you two have frequent sex, his "stamina" should increase and that will lead to satisfying sex for both of you
In sex, a lot of times, your role is of receiving the pleasure which does not require practice. The art of "giving" pleasure can only be learnt through experimentation (maybe that's why some girls prefer older men as they already know this art)
Some guys actually like listening to their partner, finding out what they want and making sure they are satisfied... funnily enough they also tend to be the guys that get passed over and ignored most of the time.
What are needing to understand? Some people are terrible at sex. Plenty of girls suck at it too.
Cause foreplay! O and just let him know what you like, helps a lot!
I think you need to stop fucking inexperienced boys and move on to men 🤣
Don't.
Now go away.
Maybe because that's a very enjoyable 5 minutes, after 30 minutes or more of enjoyable foreplay.
Men in your age group, seem to behave that way, and at that point in my sex life, I have to knuckle under and agree with you. Not to say all guys in their 20's are that way, but you are probably right to feel that way. No good answers for it from me.
They have thicker condoms or medicines to slightly numb the penis to prolong sex for the man.
I can't relate to any of this shit tbh
You can do some other activities before sex
If you give them enough practice, they will improve.
I guess because maybe you might meet one like me who sees to it you cum, too, even if I do finish first.
Practice makes perfect, right? Expressing sexual needs is difficult for a lot of women, so a lot of men's lack performance comes from simply not understanding how women like to be touched.
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