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Sexual Health If my boyfriend asks me to strap on a dildo and give him anal, does that make him not straight?
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We've known each other for a few months. He seems like an ok person overall. Lately he's been asking for anal. I don't like it. But he asked me to give it to him. The way he wants it makes me start to think he might not be straight, and he might be hiding it from me. I identify as female and I want a straight guy. What do you think?
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8 42if he only desires to have women do this for him then it doesn't make him gay
No it it means he likes anal sex. That's it
He's a homosexual. No straight would desire a penis near him wheather real or fake especially in his butt.
he may be curious
I mean if it bothers you, end it. It's still a new relationship.
Not my cup of tea but some guys like things in their ass, even straight.
What do you mean you identify as female? Are you a woman or not?
Doesn't make him gay... it may be a kind or fetish he is into.
May enhance his experience.
Nope.
all I’m gonna say is that’s not my cup of tea
I used to think that it did. After some long self reflection I realized that it dosent. He either wants to try something knew with his girl or its just something he likes to do. Gay and straight are labels put in place for control. Be free and live your life.
It makes him experimental
He's gay as fuck! Dump him! If somebody tells you he's not there crazy. Their isn't a straight man alive that will ask you to do that and deep down you know it that's why your asking this
still straight
If he were gay he would want a guy, he just wants to try things
I want a woman or girl to make me rimjob, but I never let her use dildos, I'm not gay or bisexual. :)
As straight man I would say that a guy like this asking for anal is not masculine. And he is definitely 💯 gay. Straight men don't do such things
Only if you are a man doing it then it would be different
it makes him gay
Ehhh months in and alrdy wants it in his bum XD I don't know
My ex asked me if she could peg me. I said no. Do you think it meant she isn't straight?
Why do women hold themselves to a different standard?