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If my boyfriend told me that my vagina and chest is small is he calling me ugly?

My boyfriend says that my chest and vagina are small. He also tells me to shave, which is very painful. Is he saying I'm ugly?

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  • You say, "under 18" and I wonder how old your boyfriend is. I had a long-term girlfriend in my 20's that told me that her prior 'friend with benefits" with whom she had been sucking and fucking (her words, not mine) for probably a year, had told her to her face, that she had: "ugly tits, but a beautiful pussy". There was nothing 'ugly' about her 'tits' per se, and the only thing I saw was that her nipples were not 'smooth, but had small, bump like places all around her nipple, keeping them not as 'suckable' as a very smooth nipple. NOTHING at all 'ugly' about her nipples.

    Her labia were, indeed, very beautiful, since they were 'closed', smooth, even, and had a nice covering of pubic hair. A small vagina is a plus in your favor and can't imagine that is a 'negative' for him.
    I have stated many times, that for a girl to shave her pubic hair, for some bozo guy, is simply crazy and you should tell him to 'fuck off' on the subject of shaving your pubic hair.

    With all that said and stated, MY girlfriend, was probably about 18-20 when the guy said that to her.
    No matter what I say, I am sure your mind is made up to stay with him, but my experience with the girl I mention above and her friends with benefits, it was a mistake for her to be 'put down' that way, To make matters worse, he was older than her, and apparently more experienced, and took advantage of her by convincing her to suck him "off" and ejaculating in her mouth, thereby making her sick and throwing up.

    What this guy is 'saying' to you, is NOT that you are ugly, he is saying emphatically, that HE is a MORON, and you should dump this son of a bitch ASAP

    • Well he's compliments my smile before. He's even called me cute. But I'm more on the skinny side so...

    • Anyone that makes those kinds of comments is not worth your time.

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  • You are under 18, your boyfriend is presumably also under 18.

    You are both completely clueless, nothing that either of you are doing is being done on purpose.

    You should pay close attention to the language you are using by the way; quote: 'He also tells me to shave' Who's body is it that we are talking about here? Yours or his? If its your body then you and you alone decide what happens to it so no he isn't 'telling' you anything even if he presumes to, he is asking you and you get to say no and no means no and you should have nothing to do with any man or boy who doesn't understand that.

    Oh and your body is completely fine, stop worrying about it.

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  • He’s being immature. Find an adult.

  • He's not mature. But, way more important, he's not being nice. You deserve nice and you deserve respectful. Find a man for you who respects you and talks to you that way.

  • dump your boyfriend he's a loser

    • I told her the same, and gave her a list of reasons why he is a MORON.

    • @Bricealan unfort we can only suggest it.

  • Disrespectful.

    Tell him you'll shave if he does and not his face

  • He's saying he's a jerk. Red flag.

  • He doesn't love you, he just want you for sex.

  • Seems to have control issues. Look elsewhere!
    Forget everything that he said about you. I am sure that you are very desirable to an appreciative person.
    Wait until you are 18 before you become too desirable.

  • It sounds like he's tactless, but I'm not sure he's calling you ugly.

  • Leave him

  • No he's saying he's stupid

  • That’s hardly calling you ugly

  • Asshole, find a new boyfriend

  • He didn't say that you were ugly. It's his preference. He prefers big tits and a shaved pussy.
    Maybe it's time you go shopping somewhere else. Where someone prefers you and does not want to change you. You are a chosen person.

  • If he is, than he's a moron. But ask him?

  • yeah

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