Guys, If my boyfriend won't show me his penis what does that mean?

Jamie5 Xper 4

I met this guy online and we have been talking for a year and he is my boyfriend now... But he won't show me his penis.. He always says "nah not to night" and stuff like that he told me the size but he won't let me see it.. What could that mean?

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FantasticPlanet Xper 5
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Sounds like he lied about his size.
Or it's crooked.
Or maybe he's ashamed of being circumcised or UNcircumcised.
Or perhaps it's 2-tone like Bruce Venture
Or maybe he's huge and doesn't want to scare you!
Or it could just seem really private if you two haven't actually met yet... That's how the question reads.
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- Jamie5
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  Yeah we haven't met yet in person. Also he just seems strange to me like.. We talk on FaceTime and when ever we are on there and "someone" comes in his room he hangs up on me real fast then says it's cuz the Internet or something like that.. but he's told me that he's told his family about me, but I think it's weird how he hangs up on me maybe he's seeing another girl there?
- FantasticPlanet
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  This is sooooo super shady. He needs to exhibit some sign of actual interest. Like visiting you or at the very least introducing you to whomever he lives with.
- Jamie5
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  Yeah I've introduced him to almost all my family members and he hasn't... He always hangs up on me when ever anyone comes on his room and is always listening for people coming in.
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- FantasticPlanet
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  Sorry to say this, but he's lying about something. If you guys are so close, why does he have secrets?
- Jamie5
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  I know right.. I feel like he's lying about something... And he dies this too... This one day he was holding his drivers license up in the camera And I was all "what's that?" And he was like " my drivers license " (I couldn't see it, cuz he moved it fast) then I was like "let me see!" And he said "I'll show you tomorrow " so I said ok then tomorrow came and I asked and he got really mad at me and said he's not showing me
- Jamie5
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  Does*
- FantasticPlanet
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  You need to cut off all communication with this liar POST HASTE! These are all sociopathic tendencies. He's lying and getting mad for NO reason. I'm sorry if this is hard news to hear (read) but he's doing something weird, and you don't want to be involved.
- Jamie5
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  I've tried to break up with.. I did actually, but he wouldn't leave me alone and made me feel bad and so I said I would be back with him.. And he does this like he tries to control me on what color to dye my hair.. I dyed it red and he got really mad at me and said "that's cool I'll remember that" he just seems controlling to me. What do you think?
- FantasticPlanet
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  CHANGE YOUR NUMBER! START A NEW ACCOUNT! ERASE ALL SIGNS THAT YOU EXIST TO HIM! Block him on all social media, and consult a free clinic about verbal and psychological abuse. This weirdo is a predator, and he knows everything about you, and you don't even REALLY know his first name. Unless you end this, he will end it. And I can promise you, the way he will end it will be a lot more damaging than you cutting him out of your life.
- Jamie5
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  Ok... Well I also told him my address (I know) it's cuz he wanted to send me something... What should I do about that?
- FantasticPlanet
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  Look, I'm not an expert on hiding from sociopathic stalkers, but someone out there is. I just know very, very bad behavior when I see it. Please google women's support centers in your area and see what free/affordable services they offer. Seek someone that can really help out, and give you the right information on how to avoid this creep forever more. Women's centers don't judge, their staff have been through many traumatizing things, and know when a young women needs help.
- Jamie5
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  Ok, I'll do that.. Thank you so very much!!
- FantasticPlanet
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  😊happy to help. I hope everything goes okay!👍🏼
- FantasticPlanet
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  🏆thx for MHO🏆
OlderAndWiser Editor
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Have you ever met him in person or is this all internet and texting?
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- Jamie5
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  No I haven't met him in person but we talk on face time
- OlderAndWiser
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  How can he be your boyfriend if you never held his hand or kissed him? Those are things that you do when you have a real boyfriend.
- Jamie5
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  Ok, I'll do that.. Thank you so very much !
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- Jamie5
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  Lol sorry.. I meant to say.. I don't
- Jamie5
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GotTheseMitts Xper 5
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Insecurity... naturally
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- Jamie5
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  Ok so you don't think it's cuz he just don't want "me" to see? Or something else like that? Cuz he's told me he's sent pic of it to other girls.
- GotTheseMitts
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  Well if you made your question more detailed a better answer could be given
2k15rpatterson Xper 2
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He has little man syndrome where he thinks his dick is to small and is ashamed. Just add some positive renforcement and a pussy pic and he will come around. Secondly it's normal for shut to feel like that not every man gets to be so proud of there dick as I do.
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Ulyss Yoda
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Since its online he probably thinks you aren't real and he'll not be getting anything back
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- Jamie5
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  Well no he knows I'm real we talk on face time..
- Ulyss
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  Hmmm then you should start it send him some pics and he'll send some back kinda like give and recipes
reptocarl Master
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He might not be who or what he says he is
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Jersey1 Yoda
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Maybe he is holding off until marriage.
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- Jamie5
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  No he's had sex already with his ex, and he's sent pics of it to her.
ClauseViter Yoda
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It's means you shouldn't date people on the internet.
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subzero007 Xper 7
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Insecurity and thats naturalŕ
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- Jamie5
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  Ok so you don't think it's cuz he don't leant me to see or something else like that cuz he's told me he's sent pics of it to other girls
- subzero007
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  Nope :)
WilliamWinslow Yoda
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It is perfectly normal since it is online.
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Greeneyes0 Xper 4
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He is very shy and self conscious
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Anonymous
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Maybe he has herpes or some unique markings on it. there is definitely something up here though, not normal.
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Anonymous
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he's got a small dick.
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