If my husband gets an erotic massage is it cheating? What does it involve? Have you had an erotic massage?

[Anonymous]

Today he jokingly said that if I didn’t give him erotic massage he would have to pay for it. I feel there is a little truth to every joke. He said it’s not cheating if it’s just a massage but I am 100% against naked women giving massages for pleasure and will leave him if I find out (if he does it)

Has anyone had one? What does it involve?

[SlickDizzy]

They strip you butt naked, then they give UA sponge bath. Massage your whole body then start by jerking you off and suck it to finish

[Asker]

Have you had this experience before?

[SlickDizzy]

Once

[bassinguy76]

Happy ending... he will get jerked off.

[wingattebaby16]

every time one of my guy friends has a massage, it ends up being an erotic massage where she will jack him off.

If it is an erotic massage to start with, the girl will probably be partially or totally nude, give him a Happy Ending, and may even give him oral and if he pays enough, have sex with him, condom or not...

[Curmudgeon]

Let's not "jump to conclusions", shall we? He clearly is signalling he WANTS that, but that's a far cry from him actually having gone and done that already.

[sheikalana]

I think an erotic massage involves a happy ending and the massuesse will be naked.

[Gedaria]

Yes, I treat it as a bit of fun. Most people do.

[COMMODOREII]

What do you think?

[Sylvanas_Windrunner]

Handjob

[Anonymous]

Erotic massages are the reason Epstein is dead and Maxwell is in prison. So it would be cheating.