If sex is overhyped than why do people have friends with benefits?

[Reem12345reem]

[Drewtate]

Generally for different reasons between the genders.

Men because they want casual sex but feel they aren't ready to be in a serious relationship or don't see themselves in a long term relationship with the girl they are having friends with benefits sex with.

Girls usually get into a friends with benefits thing because they like the guy and can see themselves getting serious with the guy eventually. For instance women will generally not be in a friends with benefits thing with a guy they don't see as high quality and end up getting hurt in the long run when he finds another chick and gets serious.

[Reem12345reem]

women can also want sex without having a rltp ,

[Drewtate]

Can but generally they won't settle for a mo-ped.

[Reem12345reem]

no most women who choose to have friends with benefits want casual sex only , women are humans too , we get horny

[Drewtate]

Women and men are just different creatures. If that wasn't the case then you'd see more women with mo-peds and bring less chosey for their friends with benefits things.

[Bricealan]

I dont' think that sex is over hyped, since it is the way we reproduce, it is essential to the continuation of the human race. I have had a friend with benefits, but did not handle it as I should have, and we could have both 'benefited" from the relationship had I handled it differently. I agree, that sex is not over hyped, but sometime is mishandled, and people get hurt at times, and that can be a down side.

[BasedBaeBecca]

People are driven by their biological needs, which can make them seek sexual satisfaction with minimal emotional attachments. While there are definitely perks to having a 'friends with benefits' arrangement, it can also lead to feelings of loneliness and alienation if one party becomes too attached and expect more than just a sexual connection. It is important to establish clear boundaries and expectations before engaging in such a relationship to avoid potential hurt feelings and disappointments.

[chrissykerdock]

i have a friends with benefits and i give him blowjobs only... and you might say why... well i don't want to go through my phonebook everytime i want to give a blowjob... i don't want to have to look through dating sites for guys who want one etc... it's a lot easier to have a guy 10 minutes away and who wants a blowjob a few times a week... and it keeps you from being an old maid.

[Emii_Urashima]

Who is saying that it is overhyped?

[Reem12345reem]

I saw a girl comment on an Instagram reel about sex

[Emii_Urashima]

She probably hasn't found a partner that knew what he or she was doing.

[Reem12345reem]

I agree

[BrookeAZ90]

Not overhyped.

[Sitonmyface33]

Agreed! Unless you’re having some really bad sex

[Sirenboobzilla]

Really depends on your views of sex. It's your body. It's your choice. You can do as you please, just make sure to take the necessary precautions when doing so.

[Red_Arrow]

Sex overhyped? Who have you been listening to?

[Reem12345reem]

I saw a comment say that on an insta reels

[Reem12345reem]

reel*

[nolookingbackx]

It think it is overhyped. People live fast these days and often avoid commitment, that's why. Relationships aren't easy and they only want what's pleasant and nice. Although I've known a couple that went from friends with benefits to a serious relationship.

[SnowedIn]

It's not. It's amazing.

[Gent207-2]

It is overhyped

There are limited number of ways you can put two body parts together, but only two positions you can do without laughing.

The high doesn't last long and the risks ALWAYS outweighs the rewards.

[Reem12345reem]

What risks?

[Gent207-2]

Unplanned pregnancy - every birth control has a failure except for abstinence and surgery. The health risks of hormonal BC vs natural methods. STDs - passive even through condoms Emotional/physical trauma from rape and abuse. Exploitation by predators Marriage at a young age All for what? A rush of hormones that last anywhere from 1-7 minutes post climax.

[WhitneySnow]

Cause some people don’t think sex is overhyped

[RavVid]

I think it is over hyped in terms of superlatives.

If it was fantastic out-of-this-world all the time then that would become average. I think it is overhyped in that way.

[sheikalana]

Cuz they want to have a sex partner without having to commit.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because they are stupid.

[Wise4myage]

Sex is not over hyped and people choose to go with friends with benefits for a variety of reasons.

[ButthurtGAGpeople1]

Desp. and boredom

[LavLavLuv]

It’s not… overhyped 🙅‍♀️

[Twalli]

Because it still feels good

[FireFox001]

It is overhyped.

Sex is nice but it is not the meaning of life. Having a friends with benefits is a mutually beneficial relationship with minimum hassle. But a good fap is just as fine. I don't have a relationship due to my job. I have an friends with benefits and we usually get to do something together once a month.

Sometimes more, sometimes less often. But it is not the be all end all.

[Jerre]

Sex is not overhyped. I have many friends with benefits. We are good friends, date, but most important, is we want to fuck every opportunity we have. We love the feeling of sex, we love the orgasms.

[Jerre]

@reem12345reem Thank you for Like

[In_Trance]

It's not overhyped

[EaterPeter]

It's not

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like! All it takes is a one good partner and it will never be same.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for likes!

[Amur8711]

When did you learn it wasn't over hyped?

[riverrat3]

Fun without responsibility

[riverrat3]

Not overhyped

[Celticwolf78]

Sex is not overhyped some just want friend's with benefits or just want to have a one night stand

[QuestioningEvery1]

Sex is definitely not over hyped. It’s really really fun! And feels incredibly good. It makes sense that especially when young, you want to have as much as possible with many people.

[Anonymous]

Sex with random people is overrated. Sex in marriage is underrated

[Anonymous]

Because most people don't over hype it