If someone is a bad kisser, will they be bad in bed as well?

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lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

maybe you and your girlfriends can run a social experiment, chart the results, and present a youtube and make thousands? It's a unique question, I have never heard of such correlation. It probably comes down to experience to a large extent, socialization. And so that means... what girls would like is a guy that has been trained (e. g. had various experiences with other girls). Or would you rather have him "unscathed by those other vamps" and train him yourself?

It's kinda judgmental in our time of "instant gratification" for the expectations to be there, else they get dumped.. you may not be saying that, but others have. True in reverse as well.
you might chart this to porn experience as well... e. g. what they've seen. But that may result in a whole another set of problems.

God.. you all have a lot of work to do... better start kissing...

I'm pulling your leg of course, kinda. I'd be more concerned with compatibility, health, values, aspirations.

Passinggas · Accepted Answer

I had this ex that would suck my tongue out of my mouth before I could even kiss her right. She was an out-of-control kisser and she did some of the weirdest out-of-control stuff in bed too. Wild ride in bed no doubt. I would say the kissing would certainly give you a clue as to what to expect.

lumos · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't be surprised if there's a correlation there. Kissing is quite simple. If someone can't even get the kissing part right, how on earth would they get the sex part right?
Or, it just means that you like different things and therefore are incompatible. Which could also be quite obvious in bed.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Kissing is a mutual sport. If a guy kisses well, he responds to how the woman kisses him. A good bed partner does the same, so there's some truth to this assessment...

aicarg · Answer

I feel that it's a window/clue in knowing how they are between the sheets.

MissKittyz · Answer

No, my ex and my ex friends with benefits were awful kissers but they were alright in bed.

DizzyDesii · Answer

My first ex was a good kisser but not the best in bed. My second ex was a bad kisser but really good in bed. Hopefully the 3rd guy is good at both lol

wingattebaby16 · Answer

maybe yes, maybe no. you have to give them practice time and they can always learn to kiss better. train him...

Lliam · Answer

I would say almost certainly. Yes. If a person isn't a good kisser, they won't have any knack for kissing and licking other parts of your body.

ohshee · Answer

I'm not sure. When I've had someone that kissed weird I. Slow down and stat kissing slower softer nearly touching her lips almost in a rythem and then they follow same when making love if you want it to be good you have to have rythem,,, I can say this if they are a bad dancer they are bad in bed lol

MrKinktastic · Answer

Nah, you can be good with your hands and hips but sloppy with your lips.

Apple1996 · Answer

Nah I dont think so, my husband is a bad kisser and it doesn't affect how he is during sex

Elliegirl · Answer

Not necessarily.

Chikky · Answer

you can not be bad in every areas, maybe they will be pretty good in that department

InfobotsMom · Answer

I'm inclined to think yes. Kissing demonstrates their attitude towards intimacy. Hurried and clumsy is rarely a good sign.

Jjpayne · Answer

The two in terms of experience could be connected but separately just because you kiss bad does not mean the same will happen with sex

HexedJinx · Answer

They might just be inexperienced, you could help them learn

WhiteShoulder · Answer

Yes.

Darcia · Answer

There is a high chance that could be true. I had a boyfriend who was a bad kisser and awful in bed. But it’s not likely to be true.

LoU_Hades · Answer

I had a bad kisser, but she was good. Some people don't have proper feeling for sensuality while kissing, in bedroom is motivation to reach mutual satisfaction much more important

Rixon · Answer

Are you talking about me lol?

Diiamondz825 · Answer

Usually sex starts off with Sensual kissing, honey! If someone is a bad kisser how would you even get in bed with them? If I kiss someone and they are a bad kisser they ain’t getting any further