If someone told you after being sexually assaulted, that it had to happen so you'd have a learning experience, would that person be an asshole?

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  • What possible lesson could be learned from that? Seriously I want to know?

    As an adult I was not sexually assaulted, but as a child I was, by the person I knew as my dad. All I learned from it was to not trust anyone and that I was some how dirty.

    The other question, is the person saying that the one that did the sexual assault?

    In any case it does not matter. It makes the person not only an asshole, it makes them evil and just plain stupid.

    Again what possible lesson could an experience like that actually teach.. Wow..

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  • I can think of a lot of different names besides a****** how about beat up how about punched in the mouth about f****** a****** c*********** mother f***** punk ass b**** and somebody needs to take a baseball that to his ass and then tell him the same thing

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  • Definitely so. The fuck kind of life lesson comes from sexual assault? The only outcomes I can think of are all negative. It takes a heavy amount of therapy after a traumatic event like that to be able to trust people again. And the asshole who tells them that it's "a lesson" would only foster more mistrust in the victim.

  • I would say so and sadly my partner whose been in a situation like that says it, I’ve been through it to but I never would wish it on anyone. I don’t think that should be said whether a person has or hasn’t been through it, sorry if someone said that to you.

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  • Yes, without question, EVEN if there's some truth to the statement. I would never want someone to learn a lesson that way, even if I desperately wanted them to learn the lesson.

  • Yea a lot of people these days are very insensitive with the shit they say

  • That is a person that should be in jail

    • That attitude aids and abets rape

    • What if she just rejected him and he stopped his attempts?

    • @scooogy Sorry, I do not understand your question in relation to this context. Would you re phrase it? Or give more detail. Thanks 😊

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  • that person is already an ass hole!

  • Yep, in my opinion no good can come from someone being sexuall assaulted, so that makes that person an asshole in my opinion.

  • Definitely. Also someone I wouldn't associate with any longer

  • ... Mother fu- Yes. >: / I'll give you a learning experience with a sand paper dildo, how is that for funkin learnin', asshol'!

  • I mean that goes without saying. What a horrible thing to say to a victim!

  • Absolutely

  • Yeah that's too much even for me ☠

  • That would be the all-time loser response to an assault.

  • Yeah, that person would be an asshole. There is no silver lining to rape. You only learn trauma and then have to deal with it for the rest of your life in a way that helps you take back the power lost in that event.

  • Yes!

  • Yes, that makes them an asshole is the way I see things?

  • First asshole surely.

  • Learning experience? Harrassment is learning experience? In what universe? Lmfao. I'd question if this person's brain is in functioning order or not.

    • I agree entirely. Had to disconnect so I wouldn't go off on him

  • Why is this even a question, are you "someone"🤔

    • Nope. An asshole on here was telling me my abuses and assault were just learning experiences that needed to happen.

    • It's giving rapist, he was telling on himself.

    • I agree. I had to leave the site for the day before I lost my temper

  • I think that I would see red at that point and attack that person so they'd have a learning experience of their own.

  • Yes that is absolutely uncalled for.

  • I wouldn’t have learned anything because they’d be on the floor knocked out or in a jail cell.

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