If the girl you are dating said she wants to be married first before you can have sex, what will you do?

Given you really love her and are ready to settle down, are you willing to marry her first without ever finding out how she is in bed?

What if she's not even a virgin anymore?
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  • Personally I would respect your opinions and feelings. Whatever those belief sets are I respect. But I also have my belief sets and since I know they aren’t aligned due to limitations of someone else, I cannot be with that person.

    It may seem that you view sex as a “taking away” because of your own experience. Or it may be you don’t like the getting hurt part, even religious.

    But if I’m dating someone in this mindset I would have to break it off before love can occur. I know that you need to deal with you first before you can be ready for a relationship.

    I’ve always fell in love after continuous sexual Contact. One thing I know is sexual chemistry is Very important for love and marriage.

  • I would like to confirm if she was even physically attracted to me or not. Also, I'd let her know that she shouldn't be expecting mind blowing sex at all, because I'm not that good at performance and size wise also.

    And if later on she feels like I'm not that great in bed it'll cause problems so she should make her decision of marrying me without having sex first with that point in mind.

    And I'll also make it clear that if she marries me, then I'd want total exclusivity, so no sex or anything with anyone else at all.

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  • IMHO, only a stark, raving fool enters into a lifetime contract where sex is the engine that drives the relationship without knowing the other person in depth sexually.

  • If you dangle sex as the prize for getting married, I think it sets the wrong tone and could be a recipe for disaster. As then you get married, realise you both have very different sexual tastes and needs, and it falls apart eventually, ending in divorce, cheating or a very unhappy life together.

    A couple should see if they are compatible in all ways before marriage.

  • I would prefer to have sex before we got married.

  • Wouldn't happen, because we would have discussed this on the first date or certainly the second. It's a deal-breaker for me. A woman who wants to abstain until marriage is just not that into sex.

  • I married mine.

  • If she isn't a virgin and doesn't want to have sex with me until we're married. I would bounce because she's being shady

  • I would leave her. Not having sex before marriage is just not something I'm interested in, and especially not if she's not a virgin. Even if I love her; the sexual component to a marriage is just too important to not know what she's like in bed.

  • Well, if I love her that much, I guess we are waiting.

  • Lol I wouldn't be dating her in the first place if I hadn't fucked her yet. Your question isn't answerable as asked.

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