If the guy pays over $100 for a date shouldn't he at least get a BJ?

Question

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

I'm saying no.

First of all. I want to pay for my own stuff. You can't Buy me like that. I don't agree with having a guy pay for me. It always felt wrong to me. It always felt more like a 'tradition' than it felt fair. If he insists on paying, I'll go "sure pay for me if you want to", but I don't agree it. I'm not going to make drama over who's paying for my meal. But don't expect me to suddenly climb on top of you cowgirl style because you paid.

If you pay for me like that, just to expect the something else in return, it isn't genuine anymore, it's all business. It'd be a "nice guys finish last" thing.

Let's ignore the $100 thing. If you and me go on several dates, and the dates go well and we grow very close, I will rock your world once we get home And the only thing you would have paid for is your own bit on the date, transport, food, ... And I'd have paid for my stuff.

If the date goes bad and you paid $ 100, goodjob silly you scammed yourself.

If the date goes well... Does she like you or the freebies you're giving out?

Sour-rose · Accepted Answer

Tsk, he can get this BUDA if he thinks he is so deserving A $100 is nothing for someone who can make or is making much more than $100 an hour... :) (Boot Up Da Ass)

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

No. You’re not entitled to sex point blank. It’s a very nice thing to do to pay for a date. It’s very nice because it’s something you don’t have to do.

If all you want is sex them I’m sorry women with self respect won’t want you or women with dignity or standards or morals. Those women will either dump you trying to use them or you’ll leave them.

You’re gonna get degenerate whores who don’t mind trading sex for anything really. Sorry but it is what it is.

If you want a decent woman. Be a decent man. Stop expecting sex. There are other ways she can return the favor and doing something out of the goodness of your heart isn’t wanting sex.

If you don’t want women using you for money. Then stop expecting sex point blank because you’re using them.

If she’s a good woman who isn’t one sided. While you might get sex. She might get you a really nice gift. She might pay for the next date. She might cook for you or whatever who knows

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

I get mine for 30.00, Sucker... ;-)

MrOracle · Answer

If you're a guy, you're an idiot for taking a girl for a $100+ meal on an early date. Never lead with your wallet, or you'll only end up with girls who are only with you for your money.

Spending any significant money on a girl is for girls you are in a relationship with - not girls you are taking out to a first or second date, and have no commitment with.

Now, if all you care about is getting a BJ, then, yeah, there are women who are completely transactional, who will blow you for a nice meal. But don't be under any illusions that those BJs will keep coming after the money stops, because it won't. If you pick a girl who gives you sex for money, you're going to have to keep giving her money to get sex - and you won't be the only one who is doing so. If you're okay with that great, just don't be under any illusion as to the nature of your relationship.

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

I think you're a bit mixed-up.

A whore will suck your dick for $100. You don't even have to look at her throughout a dinner. Just... give her the money, and she'll suck your dick.

A date is a whole other ball-game. When you're spending money on a date with a woman. You aren't buying sex.

That's one of the main differences between a date: and buying a whore.

It's... an important distinction.

Ladybugharp · Answer

If you want to pay $100 for a blow job, there are establishments for that. LOL I hope to the gods you're not asking for yourself Legendary Dater.

chrissykerdock · Answer

to be honest i kind of expect to give a blowjob with a 100$ date... which is why i probably wear a mini dress or skirt for the occassion... there's no way i'm paying for a man with $$$$ so this is a fair alternative.

Varanus · Answer

Dating is not prostitution. You're not owed anything unless there was some sort of upfront contract, and that, by definition, makes it prostitution. Stop thinking of dating and relationships in transactional terms and you'll live a much happier and less hateful life.

You'll get a blowjob if I like you and the mood is right. Which ends up having much less to do with money spent and much more to do with personality, thoughtfulness, hygiene, and creativity.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Nothing is ever owed on a date, regardless of how much was paid. It is thinking like that, that makes women want to pay their own way on dates. It also would make women more likely to say no.

katiesmuff · Answer

That is an attitude which should keep you dateless forever!

purplepoppy · Answer

Just basic manners

blackgaletiger · Answer

If you play your cards right and plan with your date ahead of time you can negotiate for a better contract where she has a good time you dont need to spend $100 and you get your oral simulation as well. Money doesn't always buy simulated happiness. Gotta be smart with your cash and invest in the right ways

Lliam · Answer

So, your asking if she should prostitute herself by trading sex for meals, as if a date is a business transaction? Why not just save time and offer her $100 for a BJ?

Girls should mock guys like that and tell them to fuck themselves. Guys like that aren't interested in the girl, they just want a whore.

It's quite different if the girl offers a BJ after the date, not as repayment, but because she really likes him.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If that is your expectation, it should be discussed in advance so that there are no misunderstandings or disappointments. Of course, when you verbalize this "deal," you will be telling the girl that you see her as just a whore and I wouldn't expect too many favorable outcomes. . . unless she is just a whore.

KansasX · Answer

I love how 5 guys vote yes on a BJ, STUPID MEN!!!

MCheetah · Answer

No. Just stop being a simp.

Labokachulaa · Answer

I will always say no, I don't understand why there's an expectation for sex when someone takes you out on a date. Why not pay for sex instead?

But, this can also be solved with everyone paying for their own meals. That will help weed out the trash itself.

I don't understand how dating is these days because I'm not in the dating field, but it sounds like absolute trash.

dustybiker · Answer

I’ve seen this same question here a few times before. I will continue to give the same reply.  Only if she arrives in a tiny box and is inflated with air.

LazerBean · Answer

If you want to exchange money for sex then you should see a whore instead.

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

Nothing about gim matters in that equation. Not how much he spent. Not how good he may look. Not how good of conversation he gives. nothing will ever make a guy “deserve” a BJ.

coachTanthony · Answer

This is outrageous but I am looking forward to the poll results lol

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

If you go on a date with a hooker or gold digger you have a chance however it might cost you.

Haha456 · Answer

nobody told you to pay 100 for a date

If the guy pays over $100 for a date shouldn't he at least get a BJ?

Most Helpful Girls

Most Helpful Guys

Related Questions

What Girls & Guys Said

Latest Questions