If the option to become friends with benefits with someone you already know would you accept?

If the option to become friends with benefits with someone you already know would you accept?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I have done it a few times in the past. One is a little unusual. I have a long time lesbian friend. Actually I think she's bi, 95 percent lesbian and 5 percent hetro. She has a girlfriend she lives with who is her partner. I'm the 5% hetro part. Every few months she wants to hookup with me. I hadn't affected our friendship in any way.

    The second one involves a lady that I met at a hobby meeting. We were normally competitors but occasionally there were team events and we teamed up for those. Eventually we hooked up and became friends with benefits. Sexually we were a perfect match for each other. Unfortunately it affected us as teammates. It changed the way we acted towards one another. Sometimes we acted more like competitors than teammates. We were giving the impression that there was nothing going on between us.

    If I did it again, it was be with someone that I only knew slightly and was not part of a friends group, somebody I would rarely see except to hookup.

  • No, as much as I love sex and have great respect for such a powerful and beautiful activity between a man and a woman, I want there to be love and a relationship involved. Sex without love makes about as much sense as dehydrated water!

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's the best of all worlds, but just know it will only last for about two years.

    But many marriages last less than that. Marriage is for financial security and or children. If you just want happiness, get yourself some loyal friends.

    • Thanks for the MHO.

  • Nope because there’s no benefit of a friends with benefits besides sexual reasons and me personally I can live a life without sex especially if it’s from someone that doesn’t see me as good enough to be a girlfriend

    • Nah... the "F" stands for "Friends." You aren't supposed to be detached from people you're having sex with; there's nothing healthy about that.

    • @filmguy93 I no longer have meaningless sex. If you aren’t my boyfriend, we ain’t fucking point blank

    • Make sense. I'm just saying that if you do FWBs right; it shouldn't be meaningless.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • it usually is someone i already know

  • If its someone I knew and liked, I'd develop feelings for them that went beyond friends with benefits

  • That's who I prefer forming that kind of connection with.

  • Nope.

  • No. Couldn't do that. Probably one of us would end up having feelings and probably mess up that type of relationship.

  • I'm married so no I wouldn't

  • Nope. Not interested in sex for the sake of sex.

  • Why not, life is short, all these silly rules you guys make for yourself are pointless in thee end

  • No. I don’t want a friend with benefits. Just normal friends and a SO.

  • It depends if I think of her sexually at all in the first place. Some our our lady friends are just that, friends.