If there were one thing that you could change about your first time, what would it be?

If there were one thing that you could change about your first time, what would it be?
If there were one thing that you could change about your first time, what would it be?
A. It would definitely be the guy, or girl, that I did it with, for sure. They were just not the right one to have a first time experience with
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If there were one thing that you could change about your first time, what would it be?
B. It would be my age. I would have waited until I was older.
Vote B
If there were one thing that you could change about your first time, what would it be?
C. It would be their age. They were too old (or too young) for me at the time
Vote C
If there were one thing that you could change about your first time, what would it be?
D. It would be the place where we did it. A place a little more confortable would have been better
Vote D
If there were one thing that you could change about your first time, what would it be?
E. It would be the way that we did it. We did it without any pregnancy protection
Vote E
If there were one thing that you could change about your first time, what would it be?
F. I would have used a penis dildo first to get ready for it ahead of time, since there was pain involved
Vote F
If there were one thing that you could change about your first time, what would it be?
G. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "What Would You Change About Your First Time" survey
Vote G
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I voted D, but it was less about the place itself and more about the paranoia that her mom would come home early. It's already hard to relax and enjoy when you're having sex for the first time, but when you add to that the possibility of being discovered/interrupted by a parent, that made it so much worse.

    As it turned out, the mom ended up coming home later than usual, but I had already left in fear of getting caught. Turns out her mom didn't really care all that much - and was mostly concerned that I was treating her well and didn't pressure her. But in the moment, I was definitely paranoid. You can't just go get a motel room when you are 15 and your transportation is a bicycle...

  • Two things. One, I was just watching that video. Two, I can't believe I'm gonna type this. Why you no let me go anon?

    ... Actually have had it happen?

    • I don't allow anonymous because there are some real creeps who have posted that way to my questions and they can not be blocked so they have ruined it for everyone else. GAG needs to have the option of blocking anonymous creeps and then I would allow it.

    • Okay that's a very valid point there... I'll stop complaining now.

    • ... :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • I wish I hadn’t cried. I’ve only had sex with one man. I had waiting so long and it hurt the first time so much that I cried out then got upset and cried. It was way better the second time. I wish I had remembered that the first time hurts but second time is better. I feel stupid for crying. Second time was great!! And now I love sex

    • Yes, I remember you talking about your apprehension about it. So glad it worked after the first time :)

    • Crying in that situation is totally understandable and nothing you should feel bad about. And at least it was a one - time thing.

  • All of the above? Wrong person. wrong place. I think I was too young. didn't use protection. Wish i had experimented with a dildo first. The only thing that WASN'T a problem was his age.

    • Wow! Murphy's law was at work for your first time! ... lol

  • I was drugged and forced into it so I’d change that...

    • Wtf? I am sorry to hear that is crazy

    • I am so sorry... that is horrible!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Id wait til marriage

  • To tell myself dont trust the asshole in the first place he stuck it in without permission n hurt like a bitch

  • The person I did it with

  • Not a thing!

  • My first time was just fine. I came pretty quickly but it was amazing just to experience a woman's body. We were both young and she was very cute. She was also hot for me. And she wasn't a virgin so there was no fear or awkwardness on her part.

  • B for me

  • No change at all.

  • I would like to be with somebody more experiences

    • Experienced *

  • Relaxing more. Too much tension built up to it the first time.

  • Both of us not being so nervous , we were both Young Virgins

  • I lost my virginity in a psych ward 😂

  • I would have asked for more money. Haha jk

  • Voted D... Did it with my best girl friend of many years, in the Stables with my horse breathing over us... Not the cleanest, romantic or most comfortable of places! (and yes, we were both finding hay strands for days afterwards 😅)

  • Stiffer bed.

  • He would have lasted longer.

  • The place. We did it in my best friend's bedroom.

  • I'd have waited to find a girl as beautiful as you are !!

  • I wouldn’t. It was an awkward new experience, but it was what it needed to be.
    I was 18 in a dorm room bed with a girlfriend I was very into. And it wasn’t too early into the relationship. We were ready.

  • A. It would definitely be the guy, or girl, that I did it with, for sure. They were just not the right one to have a first time experience with

  • I wouldn't have changed anything at all because I don't care about the concept of virginity.

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