If woman say porn is cheating? What is withholding or denying sex to your partner called?

[Boat4Fun]

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I don't watch pornography. Sure, there are times when she is not in the mood and the times I'm not in the mood. I don't think it's cheating, perhaps a bit selfish, but not cheating.
If you watch pornography, it is likely that your partner will feel second rate in terms of what you expect them to look like, or do in the bedroom.

[molonski2]

I'm interested in those who do withhold sex? Why would they do that? I'm not into Porn but how could it possibly be cheating? Relationships need to be highly sexually active or they are just a friendship.

[IslaTheWitch]

If a man watches porn every evening, I can imagine how his woman can feel. If he does it only when she says "no" it's hardly counted as cheating... at least from my perspective :)

[Apple1996]

Withholding because they are disgusted by their porn addict partner is completely reasonable. It's not the same in anyway

[Boat4Fun]

Getting turned down constantly. What does she expect?

[Apple1996]

Probably for you to figure out the reason for getting turned down and work on fixing that

[Billlewis]

Withholding and/or denying her husband or boyfriend sex is what I define as 'A woman's right to have sex when she wants it, and only when she wants it'

[Boat4Fun]

But as the guy I'm expected to provide for her and her kids. I stepped up and took care of them better than her X ever did. But I would have to get pissed to get a BJ or something. But I didn't have a choice. I kept the bills paid, the lights on, And food on the table.

[Billlewis]

Yes, sir, I can certainly understand why you'd be dissatisfied with that kind of scenario. If she were amenable to receiving oral service while you masturbate, would you have considered that type of activity?

[Dargil]

It's called Rationing. The relationship is uneven.

[Fireguy17]

A bad plan.
Why be with someone if you don't want to have sex with them.
They will probably just go elsewhere.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Porn isn't cheating. Cheating involves a romantic, sexual or flirty interaction with a person who isn't your SO.
Porn is just lewd art or lewd tv/movies.

Withholding affection from an SO is considered spousal neglect.

[Nikki1989]

If I had a pathetic partner that watches porn, I wouldn't be giving him any sex either.

[Boat4Fun]

What if he started watching "P" because you wouldn't have sex. Does that make him pathetic or you for denying him sex? When you told him you were kinky but when you married him you did little to spice things up. Tell him things you had tried previously but you are unwilling to do anything outside the two or three normal positions. When he has to get pissed to get or give oral. When a guy comes into the relationship, provides for you and your kids. Makes sure all the bills are paid. Giving you a better life than your income and very little child support (always late or less than required) provide. You get to treat him like that? He is being used. And the "I love yous" mean less and less because he get the energy boost the you can provide. I'm sorry. He isn't the bad guy.

[LiamJHayden]

The right of every individual.

[jahaims]

It depends on why she isn't having sex

[Joker_]

cheating

[fuddly]

Totally different

And man can withhold sex? (Unusual)
And woman can look at porn? (Unusual)

On scale 1 to 10 of wrongness. 10 =very wrong

Watching porn: 2
Denying partner sex: 10

[Boat4Fun]

When you are told you are the best thing that happened to me. You both are perfectly healthy for sex, but I sometimes feel like I'm forced into a life of celibacy..

[Anonymous]

Extortion.