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If you are a virgin, do you only want to have sex with another virgin - if so can you explain why- OR do you not care?

If you are a virgin, do you only want to have sex with another virgin - if so can you explain why- OR do you not care?
♥️♥️As long as I’m a virgin, I only want to have we with another virgin. Details below.
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♥️Don’t care.
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💔 Don’t want sex ever.
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Hey should have put “ If you are currently, or when your were a Virgin... So really everyone can answer. 👍🏻🌹
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So.. don’t think it really matters if someone has had sex or not. I think being a good person , patiently taking time to explore learn communicate and squire Lots of experience with your PARTNERS body-far outweighs any experience with someone ELSES body. You can have TON of experience before actual intercourse. Often that fact is overlooked. Sex stuffers and as a result we get absurd stigma against virgin guys. Of course, if either is a dick head sex will suck- Virgin or no😛
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  • I want to answer this one anyway. When i was a virgin i thought that having sex with a virgin would be more of an exchange. We could give each other our virginity and maybe learn together our sexuality. But instead a friend gave me a chance to explore my sexuality and i gave her my virginity. I never even told her till after a month or two. She was shocked. For me i think it was good the way it happened. I was able to be with someone who i could trust and was able to explore that part of myself without fear of being judged. I was able to explore a woman's body in depth too. My advice for any virgin is that only do it if you truly want to do it. Don't let anyone force you. If you do decide i say find someone willing to treat you right and allow you to explore that part of yourself. Always be cautious about pregnancy but more so for stds. One night of exploration can change your life if the person you give yourself to turns out to be a liar or uses you. I myself have never taken a girl's virginity but if someone asked me too that would be an honor. For her to trust me like that i would make sure she enjoyed and experienced the best i could give her. Mainly because everyone remembers their first time and having a bad experience can also ruin that persons trust in anyone else.

    • Thanks my friend 💓💓🌹🌹😋

  • There can be something really special, nice, being a virgin, and wanting to share your first time, with another virgin. I said that, to both of the ones that I knew were. I was only 2-3 years older, then, (and 5 years between them) but both said they loved me, trusted me, and wanted to be with someone that knew more.
    They were both nervous, but I think they meant that I understood them, and took the time to make them feel safe, relaxed, and really wanting to experience it, and wanting to think it was something to remember, rather than something to just 'get over with!'
    It depends on what you prefer, just learning, together, and discovering things, together, and that can be amazing!!
    Maybe some want someone that knows, and can show them, help them without any insecurity or being unsure.

    • I don’t think it really matters if someone has had sex before. You were I strung and kind and that’s why it worked. You could’ve had a lot of sex and as a result been impatient president a douche 😛. I think taking time to learn each other’s bodies being patient and communicating is what matters. I really don’t understand why women assume a guy who has had sex is going to do it better with “ them”. I’m really curious how sex was different for people where both were decent people and virgins vs decent people where only one was a virgin.. no way to compare though without a parallel universe 😁 And of course If either is a dick head, I don’t think experience matters 🤷‍♀️

    • Patient * not strung 😊

    • @VIVANT TOTALLY, and even with others that were not virgins, it is all about her comfort, and how she feels, and when she feels safe, trusting and comfortable! I would NEVER, EVER try to force, or coerce anyone to do anything they were unsure of, or didn't want to do!! When you both connect, and both feel right, it is so much better, and just no pressure, and sometimes even then, it isn't quite right, so you just snuggle and watch a movie, and no big deal! It's right, when it is right for both, and you should laugh, and love, and really enjoy being together, and just 'play' instead of making it something that 'must be done' for some stupid reason!

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  • Not a virgin anymore and if i was to be one i would prefer someone with more experience, i lost my virginity to my exbf who was also a virgin and it was horrible, yes there is something about being the first, but tbh to me if it means its not gonna be enjoyable i wouldn't mind sacrificing that

    • I don’t think it’s simply Bc it’s special. I think the power dynamic is leveled. which is important to some. As far as it being horrible. I don’t think him having experience with other girls would make it “not horrible“. It all depends on how you both approach it.. if you take time to explore each other, learn stuff, if you communicate. I don’t see why two virgins can’t have as good sex as anyone else. Even better Bc you don’t have preconceived expectations. And virgins can be more patient Bc everything is exciting. I mean being a virgin for the girl there can always potentially involve pain.. that doesn’t chugged if they guy is experienced or not. And if yes had lots of sex but never a virgin it can be worse. What is most helpful is if the guy is experienced with your body in particular and patient... There’s tons of stuff you can do for a long tine before sex, that is basically like having sex , so when you get to it you guys know what’s going on. A non virgin can have experience with their partners body. That’s what matters.. Bc Everyone likes differnt things. Better to exierience with each other than

  • When I was a virgin, it was not important to me that my first time be with another virgin. In fact, I would have preferred a more experienced partner (which is exactly what I got).

    • I agree

    • I guess exierience can be helpful but it depends on the person. But then that also depends on the person, I mean a jerk is a jerk. Experienced or morning 😊

    • @VIVANT very true :-)

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  • When I was a virgin I wanted to have sex with a girl. My first was not a virgin and I didn't mind at all.

  • I think virginity is overrated.
    Let's be honest if you had sex only once you're still technically a rookie and damn near virgin so it's all about experience.
    Personally I lack experience and I'll admit it but I wouldn't mind doing it with an experienced person. Sure it'll be more challenging as she might be less forgiving on mistakes she's used to not seeing but it'll also motivate me to perform better.
    In the end we are only as good as the company we keep.

    • I don’t disagree... I was just curious 😊

  • I am a virgin and having another girl that is a virgin helps so that we both share the experience. We are both rosy cheeked because we have never done it before. There are less expections and more experimentation. I'm not against being with a girl even with children because at my age it's not a good chance to find someone that is. But overall, for those with faith, a vow to God for one girl upon marriage. Which in these modern times is not easy to do...

  • Voted A

    Differences in sexual experience inevitably offset the power balance in a relationship. Of course, this can be overcome with hard work and heartache, but why subject yourself to it? Sure, I can get medical attention if I break my arm, but why would I break my arm if I could just as easily... you know... NOT break my arm? So yeah, I will be sticking with a partner who has the same sexual experience as me.

    • Yeah I agree with that

  • When I was a virgin, I think I preferred to have sex with another virgin. I didn't give it much thought though because my boyfriend was a virgin. Not sure if I'd have felt different.

  • when i was a virgin, it didn't matter to me deep down... cos if i felt so strongly about someone then as long as they felt the same way, then it would be ok

  • When I was a virgin I didn't care. I just wanted sex.

  • Lol tbh I feel like you can relate more if you have sex with another virgin being scared of your first time and all

  • I was a 35yr old virgin. At no point did i ever expect to only sleep with a virgin. Someones past didn't matter to me.

  • I don't care:)

  • I would prefer my first time to be with a Virgin because spiritually I want to be able to give my sexual innocence to someone and have there's so I can only be apart of them and them apart of me.

  • whichever comes first

  • No it doesn’t matter if the girl is a Virgin or not

  • Honestly when I was a virgin I was more worried about a guy being into me enough to want to have sex with me than thinking about if he had been with another girl before.

    • Really? You seem like a person who is Pretty amd confident 😊

    • Thank you. I’m confident because I’m older and emotionally stable, unlike when I was about to give away my virginity.

  • I don't care as long as her body count isn't very high.
    But virgin would be more preferable

  • I don’t expect the guy to be virgin but yes i am a virgin

  • When I WAS a virgin, I definitely did NOT want to have my first sexual experience with another virgin. I was hoping to find and older woman to show me the ropes, but that didn't happen for about 2 years after my first experience.

  • I am a virgin, and I want to experience my first time with someone who is also a virgin. I just think it will be more special and meaningful that way. Because we will both be exposing ourselves to each other. We will both be touching someone else's naked body for the first time. We will both be allowing another real person to excite us sexually for the first time. We will be learning about sex together and discovering how it works. I believe there is an intense spiritual and emotional bond that forms during that process. That intimate connection is what I want to have in my marriage, and my goal is to keep it alive and have it last for the rest of our lives until the day we die.

  • I'm a virgin, and sex---and marriage ---with another virgin would be ideal for me.

  • so i know 2 virgins. one wants someone experienced the other wants an other virgin.

    the one that wants an experienced lover want it to be shown the ropes, guided a long

    the one that wants the virgin, because they will be on equal ground.

    both opinions are very valid.

    • Sure both make sense. I was just curious what people prefer. I guess one thing with two virgins is the guy can't slut shame the girl. Well no I guess one can always do that if they are dedicated lol😛😐

    • lol. i don’t get slut shaming.

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