If you are actively dating and looking for a relationship, do you abstain from sex or have the occasional hook up till you find the relationship one?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Wait? Don't wait?

Ok, so this question is sparked by a response from a user saying men see nothing wrong with hooking up for sex til they find the relationship. Maybe I'm old school, but I am not gonna be randomly occasionally having sex while actively dating telling people I'm looking for a relationship. To me you don't have sex til you find that person you want a relationship with 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

I had a friends with benefits until I found a gal I wanted to peruse and then I shut the shop down...

[CharlieDMX]

Unless we formalized a relationship, anything goes

[JamesBlackDragon]

Never really been into the dating scene but if I was I wouldn't have sex until I get in a relationship because that's what I'm looking for

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Exactly. As it should be ❣️🙂

[ElSlute]

I agree

[outlawcowboy]

As long as you keep it safe

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

And also honest. If you are dating, or sleeping with more than one woman, I feel they have a right to know. Same if a woman doing that

[Poopeegirls]

I agree with u

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Thank you. And that's what's wrong with dating these days, that people think that's ok 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Poopeegirls]

I know. People do things the opposite of what they should be done.

[Anonymous]

If you want sex, just masturbate. That's how I roll.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Exactly. Tell other people that lol

[Opinion Owner]

I would but that's a lot of people.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Sadly you're right

[Anonymous]

I won't date sluts who do the hookup bs