Mismatched libidos is a common complaint from people who are settled into a long term relationship, but is that really a problem or just a few people who love to complain? If you are in a LTR, do you get as much sex as you want?
No matter what age I was I always had a higher libido than any of my partners. I have been criticized, mocked or shamed for it by previous partners. That sucks. I dont mind light teasing but if Im made to feel as if Im a chore its definitely time to end it. I find people are more critical when a woman has a higher libido vs a man. Oddly its men who often criticize it but men are usually the ones to complain their partners don't want as much sex as them... Go figure right?
A shame we didn't meet earlier. My libido is extremely high.
@Jerre lol except I have never had a one nighter and when I lay with a man its because we go steady. I greedy I don't share my men...
I usually want sex a little bit more then my partner but not enough to complain or fight about it like some couples do so I voted A but really kind of between A-B for me
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!What does age have to do with the situation?
I've heard that complaint more from middle-aged and older people, so I separated the responses by age to see if the results back up that impression.
In a long term relationship, sex is not the only thing a couple looks for.
Yes, I know that. Sex is one of several important components of an intimate relationship. Do you have an answer to the question?
Yes, I have the answer inbuilt in that one sentence. Now I will elaborate, in a long term relationship a couple gets less sex as compared to a short term relationship because in a short term relationship sex becomes the ultimate goal which once achieved a couple or a person is ready to look for the next available option with a single ready to mingle caption whilst in a long term relationship sex happens but there is space made for other important things too, eg; that lovely feeling of permanency and stability, planning a future together and in a lot of cases family planning and financial planning and of course the live for each other kind of love. In some cases sacrifices that a couple makes for each other. In all this less sex is covered up for by a lot many other important things which are as important as sex. After we have been acquainted with each other for some time now and as i see the terms Older and wiser, i thought you of all the people would have understood by that one statement of mine and I wouldn't need to elaborate on it.
1. I would prefer to not make assumptions. 2. You still didn't answer the question, but I would never insist on an answer. If you don't really want to answer, that's okay.
Option A
I'm under 30 but my boyfriend is not and we seem to have about the same desires
when I was, there was more than plenty of satisfaction... that we never really stopped to consider or wonder if there was any lack of it... guess we were just in the same wavelengths
It's been a sexual desert for a long time.
My wife and I, it's once or twice a day.
I'd hope that when I get to that stage in life, I'd be doing it a lot lmao
Wdym lol
@michael00007 ?
So you are not in a LTR yet?
haven't had sex in 4 years.
Once a day, every day, suits me fine.
That’s great, for both of you.
Imagine miss match libido in a LDR.
All I can say is that it can't stay unresolved if you are looking for a healthy relation. If no resolution is found, the best decision—but tough to accept— is to breakup.
Funny how 30+ % women thhink they have same drive and get same amount while 30+ % men say they have more drive than they get.
Do you spot the delusion here.. ?
My girlfriend and I botheant sex more than we get it, but since we don't live together, that's not an option. We've been dating over 4 years.
I get as much sex as I want - Said no married man ever
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