If you are in a relationship and the person decides one day they do not want to have sex anymore what do you do?

[Wendysbitterapple]

[Finchie40]

Be honest with them, tell them that’s fine on their decision to not want to have sex anymore , but don’t be upset when you go get it from someone else. When you are in a relationship with someone that chooses to change their decision on how things were in the beginning of the relationship , that’s their problem, not yours, You didn’t change, they did. So you have every right to walk away and find someone that wants to give the same to you the same way you give to them. I dated a girl that did this to me , and I was honest with her , I told her sex is important to me , so if you no longer want to have sex with me that’s fine but don’t think I won’t be open to someone else that wants to give me sex , So I ended up having sex with another girl that didn’t want to with hold intimacy and affection from me and it was the best decision I made , cuz the way I look at it is she already cheated on me by her decision to not want to be intimate with me anymore if she truly valued me or loved me she wouldn’t be withholding intimacy and affection from me period , people
That choose to withhold intimacy and affection in a relationship are selfish people that only think of themselves they don’t consider their partner’s feelings , so you are best to walk away from them and find yourself someone that values you like
You value them , You are not a convenience, so it’s their loss not yours

[BigWhiteWolf87]

Kindly don't ever get involved with a decent or respectable woman as she deserves far better than a lousy man like you. Committed relationships have more value than just sex. You can get sex from anyone, including a disease ridden prostitute (more your type).

[Finchie40]

You misunderstood what I was saying , Yes relationships have more value than just sex but sex is an important part of a relationship , especially when the relationship started off with a lot of sex , Most relationships fade when a relationship becomes one sided , one sided to the point one partner is neglecting the wants and needs of the other , , that isn’t love that is selfishness unless the person has a valid reason not to want to be intimate with you like before. If a partner has constant lame excuses as to why they no longer want to be intimate with you then they don’t value you period they only value themselves , so the other partner has every right to walk away from that relationship if they are not being fulfilled , So it has nothing to do with Love , if the partner loved you , they wouldn’t constantly be denying you period. A relationship has to go both ways or the relationship will not survive

[BigWhiteWolf87]

@finchie40 - so you're selfish, thoughtless and inconsiderate is what you're saying. You whine about someone neglecting your needs because you're only capable of thinking about yourself and nobody else. What if your partner had cancer or some disease that reduced their libibo... that's hardly them neglecting you, it's them being sick.

[Finchie40]

Then that’s a different story and a valid reason , all I was saying if a partner doesn’t have valid reasons as to why they no longer what to be intimate with you then you have a right to walk away from that relationship. Being neglected by a partner for no valid reason is someone that only cares about themselves and only values themselves , they see no wrong in their doings , they just do what’s best for them , that isn’t love

[BigWhiteWolf87]

@finchie40 so you're selfish, thoughtless and inconsiderate is what you're saying. You whine about someone neglecting your needs because you're only capable of thinking about yourself and nobody else. What if your partner had cancer or some disease that reduced their libibo... that's hardly them neglecting you, it's them being sick.

[Finchie40]

If you can’t wear your partner’s shoes the same way you expect them to wear Yours , your relationship will not last because that isn’t love, that is Selfishness

[Anonymous]

If you are in a relationship and your partner decides they do not want to have sex anymore, it can be a difficult situation to navigate. Communication is key in these types of situations, and it's important for you to listen to your partner's concerns and try to understand their perspective. You may want to discuss alternative forms of intimacy or ways to maintain a healthy emotional connection without having sex. It's also important to respect your partner's boundaries and give them the space they need to process their feelings. Ultimately, it's up to you to determine how to proceed, but it's important to be supportive and compassionate during this challenging time.

[Screenwriter]

It's up to how important sex is in your relationship.

If it's always been a holistic part of your intimacy, then, I think you have a deal-breaker.

No one should unilaterally decide to stop sharing such an important interaction.

If, however, sex has never been that important in your partnership, and giving it up won't bother either of you, then it won't matter. It'll be like giving up cheese if you're lactose intolerant.

[BigWhiteWolf87]

This happens more than you think. Cancer, disease, etc. can result in reduced libibo.

Real relationships where the partners are committed to each other stay. These people truly love one another and are not merely using the other person to feel good about themselves - like @finchie40 who walk away because he's not worthy of a real relationship.

[Finchie40]

Yes that’s a valid reason not to want to have sex with your partner, it’s when someone doesn’t have a valid reason and constantly denies their partner’s wants and needs is when someone can choose to walk away , the person denying doesn’t love their partner , they love themselves , they aren’t taking into consideration their partner’s feelings period , So that’s all I was saying Miss Selfish , , if you want to be in a relationship where you feel the need to neglect you partner’s wants and needs for your selfish decision , Good luck with trying to last in a relationship, because you will more than likely be kicked to the curb where you belong if you think relationships can be one sided

[BigWhiteWolf87]

@Finchie40 so you're selfish, thoughtless and inconsiderate is what you're saying. You whine about someone neglecting your needs because you're only capable of thinking about yourself and nobody else. What if your partner had cancer or some disease that reduced their libibo... that's hardly them neglecting you, it's them being sick.

[Finchie40]

If I couldn’t fulfill my partners wants and needs because I was sick or had cancer etc. I still wouldn’t neglect my partner’s wants and needs if I couldn’t fulfill her I would let her go and leave it up to her on what she wanted to do , Not expect her to sit around waiting for me , I would put myself in her shoes out of respect for our relationship, If I just wanted things my way then that isn’t love

[katiesmuff]

Well that relationship has just come to a very abrupt end!

[OlderAndWiser]

I would ask my partner what they think I should do to satisfy my sexual needs.

[mandyfire98]

Break up with them.

[Apple1996]

I'd just masturbate a lot

[EmmaMary]

Talk it through rationally to try and discover what has gone wrong, and try to find a happy compromise... Maybe even seek counselling.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I didn't make that decision. I'll still be having sex, just not with her.

[boggboss]

Speak to them about it find out if it can be fixed go from their

[AviatorTom]

That's exactly what happened in my marriage. My then-wife decided no more sex. We tried to continue a relationship. We ended up separating and an amicable divorce a few years later.

[Bricealan]

I quit going out with her on New Years day. (there were other things that prompted me to do that)

[Dargil]

If it wasn't in marriage and a talk is not productive, I will make my way.

[Nikki1989]

Talk about it and work on it till we find the solution to the problem.

[andreasderjuengere]

What I did:

1 - tried to 'negotiate'

2 - tried to be extra nice

3 - waited for a change of mind

4 - discreetly found other options outside of 'home'.

[sheikalana]

I would question them.

[Drumlin2001]

Dunno. Right now I wouldn't want to break up family for. my young kids. But when they're older who knows.
Would need to discuss why. Maybe tender an idea of an open relationship, or just end things.

[MikeTheBartender]

I call it a friendship.

[exitseven]

I don't think I would want to continue the relationship.

[smilelots]

That happen to me with my x we are no longer together.. but it was not just the sex it was just not ment to be in the end.

[Jamie05rhs]

Find out what the problem is.

[max337]

I really could be in love with that person that i am ready to live my life with her without sex

[jahaims]

Leave

[Liketheview]

slowly go insane

[KrakenAttackin]

You leave them.

[Guardian45]

First and foremost is talking about it. Key for communication is understanding what the other person thinks and feels. When both parties can say this, then a resolution is possible. In most instances, a compromise is possible to keep both of you happy. If no compromise is possible, then acceptance is required. Otherwise, all is lost!

[peterrezeeek]

i, d respect her decision but ik that she cannot stay for long time without it..
so she will get horny within few days

[YesToLife]

Maybe relationship therapy will help here. Also I guess a person should own their own sexuality and make sure the needs are satisfied and not be just dependent on partner

[EaterPeter]

You are doomed. Story of most peoples life.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Randomnamek]

You should leave. Sex is what differentiates a sexual relationship from a friendly one

[CubaPirate]

Get out of the relationship probably

[krin_m]

Move on!

[Jmmmfi4]

I could hang

[MasterKS]

Time to get a new partner.

[Anonymous]

Cheat.

[Anonymous]

Well end it I need my sex and if they don't know that by then well they don't really know this mom!

[Anonymous]

If I love the person I'll stay. It means if I leave it was just because of the sex. You can still be intimate in other ways and you can always masturbate.