If you are in a relationship with someone. But on the side you are having phone sex and video sex with someone else would that be considered cheating?

[Wendysbitterapple]

[Bricealan]

I was in a relationship with a girl from College days, and she did move here to California with me for a couple of years. During that time she and I did have phone sex and camera sex with others on line, and sometimes we did it together, and did with a couple in Canada, plus she would stay up late at night and go on line with other men and have on-line sex but I always knew it.

She eventually moved back to Ohio after meeting someone on line having on line sex

Our relationship was going to pot anyway, but I did miss the company and sex.

[Finchie40]

Yes , anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating , if you can’t wear your partner’s shoes like you expect them to wear yours then you truly don’t value your partner , you like the convenience of them , How would you feel if your partner was having phone sex with another girl behind your back?

[YesterdaysChild]

Yes it would. Why do people keep asking these questions when they most likely know that it is cheating?

Matthew 5:27-28

New King James Version

Adultery in the Heart
27 “You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

[Samantha36]

No I wouldn't consider it cheating. I'd be annoyed if he kept it secret though. I'd like to do it with him

[DannyUk2017]

In Uk that's a Fashion 😉

[OlderAndWiser]

Would you tell your relationship partner about it or would you hide it? If you would hide it, why? Why can't you tell your partner about it?

[madhatters4]

i mean it depends on the relationship and what the expectations of that relationship are. but in my book absolutely it is cheating.

however, some couples may not see it as cheating. again it is up to the partners

[Lowiu]

I would for sure consider it cheating if we never talked about it

[Astarlessnightsky]

Do you hide it from your partner?

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yep. If you wouldn't do it with your parents it's cheating

[MementoMori777]

Yea.

[AviatorTom]

Unless your partner approves, it's cheating... and disrespectful.

[Drumlin2001]

Unless you've explicitly discussed and ok'd it, yeah it's cheating

[ProbablyClueless]

Yes, very much so.

[exitseven]

Yes, sex is sex it is cheating

[SawerBrown]

Yes it could be

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah thats cheating.

[TaureanBull81]

I wouldn't consider it as cheating... YET since you haven't physically crossed the line in person.

[Grond21]

That is the very definition of cheating

[Nikki1989]

Of course, it is cheating.

[Mr1derful]

Yes!

[Rangers]

No shit, that's cheating

[Subflics]

Yep cheating

[Brady]

Yes it's cheatin