Guys, If you are nervous, do you have trouble getting hard?

So I hooked up with this guy, we were both drunk and he took forever to get hard and to cum. So I am curious to know if nerves could be a factor?
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  • It's called brewers droop doesn't affect all men.

    Nerves could have had a negative impact too but for me that extra tension of first time with someone turns me on even more!

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  • Being nervous can make things difficult for a guy. Being drunk certainly did not help at all. Are you going to try again when no alcohol is involved?

    • Nah probably not - it was a one time thing. It has nothing to do with him not getting hard though :)

    • Well I hope it was fun and you had a great orgasm. Enjoy!

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  • Nerves can definitely be a factor.

  • Absolutely.
    I am usually nervous when I am with a girl for the first time. So it takes a bit of work to get myself calmed down and to get hard.

  • Most likely it was the alcohol. It could be anxiety, depending on how much sexual experience he has. Next time don't drink so much. If it's legal, maybe try some marijuana edibles.

  • That's possible, but also could be because he was drunk. Or both of those things combined.

  • No nervous would never do that to me. That was cause he was drunk lmao.

  • It can. So can alcohol. Significantly.

  • It may be, but for me i think i get excited and harder faster if im nerves. But i have never had a problem. But it has been 5 years so who knows

  • Nerves and alcohol can do that to me.

  • yes it can interfere with that. i hope you realize booze can cause issues getting or staying hard too. look up the term "whiskey dick"

  • Honestly, it's happened to me at least 4 times with 4 different hot girls and got performance anxiety.
    I went to an adult shop and got an erection suppliment and i changed that if for a 48hour period of it working.

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