If you cheated and they ask for a threesome, would you agree to it?

[ChicanaChick]

One of my friends cheated on her boyfriend with his good friend. She won't tell me how he found out, only said it was in a very bad manner. She's trying to win him back.

He said the only way is to allow him to have a threesome in her house, she selects the two girls and she can either leave or stay (whatever she wants). Then when it's done, he's available to listen to what she has to say about the cheating and her excuses, etc. He wants her to let him have a free pass basically and then he'll consider taking her back. He reminded her that she said it herself that she would do anything to win him back so he's asking for that.

If you cheated and they asked you to do that, would you agree on that deal? She doesn't know whether to accept the deal or not. She feels it's too humiliating but her ex boyfriend said they would be even by then and then they can work it out.

[Finchie40]

Well your girlfriend is dumb period , the fact that she cheated on her boyfriend is her answer that she truly doesn’t love and value him , so she is best to move on because all he is going to do is bang her and another girl in a threesome and get his way and revenge in a sense , because he is going to fuck her and the other girl like they are whores and go on with his life , by her cheating on him put her in a whore category , he won’t fully commit to her anymore , he is just going to use her , I gave an ex a second chance after she cheated on me and the feelings weren’t their anymore , The fact that she cheated on me was pretty much my answer that it was over , but I gave her a second chance and fucked the shit out of her like she was just some whore of the streets , after I finished I never
Called her again

[ChicanaChick]

The thing is her boyfriend literally caught her cheating with his friend at his house. Plus he has the evidence and was going to expose her publically, destroy her reputation for good. He'll take her back and won't say a single word about it (will delete the evidence) if she agrees to the deal of letting him band two women at her house tomorrow, humiliate her in the same manner she did. She agreed to it.

[ChicanaChick]

She's basically also buying his silence upon agreeing to the deal.

[ChicanaChick]

He sure got her good. If she didn't agree, her reputation would plummet and she would be exposed to others.

[Finchie40]

Yea she is stupid if she is going to go along with his request , She already dug her grave and is already going to be considered a whore because she cheated with his friend , Don’t think for a second that he is going to forgive her and not consider her a whore , He is going to bang her and another girl to get his revenge and to boost his ego , After he bangs them both , your friend is better off just moving on and realizing she is wrong and hopefully she learned off of this mistake , and hopefully she won’t cheat again if she meets someone else , If you care about your friend , stop her from doing it , it’s not going to solve anything it’s just going to make matters worse , she needs to realize what she did was wrong and accept the fact that she was wrong period , She is going to put herself in a deeper grave by accepting his request , He is taking advantage of her because of what she did to him , he will not love her the same and things won’t go back to normal considering she already answered her own question that she truly doesn’t love and value him , because if she did she wouldn’t of slept with his friend , Cheating is a selfish act and most people our selfish and only really think about themselves , but sometimes people have to learn the hard way by accepting that they are wrong , what your girlfriend needs to do or she is just going to keep going down this path of being considered a whore

[Sixgunsound]

It doesn’t sound like either of them are at the maturity level necessary to be in a serious relationship. She doesn’t take the relationship seriously enough because she cheated, and he’s more concerned about getting her back than anything else.

[ChicanaChick]

Update: She agreed to his offer in exchange for his silence over her cheating (he won't tell anyone and will get rid of the evidence afterwards) and him taking her back. He'll meet with the two women at HER house on Saturday. Even though she accepted the deal, she doesn't like it and feels humiliated.

[Sixgunsound]

So here’s my next question, who are these uninvolved women who agree to be used by him as revenge on her, and what’s there benefit in this deal? I just can’t wrap my head around someone thinking so little of them self that they’re willing to spread their legs to be used for revenge.

[Sixgunsound]

And what if any of them catch feelings during their revenge sex?

[ChicanaChick]

It hasn't been decided yet. They're searching them. I believe it's more than likely going to be 2 hookers getting paid.

[Sixgunsound]

Fair enough, but that still doesn’t seem like the best way of handling it. This honestly sounds like the script to a porn movie.

[ChicanaChick]

Meanwhile I'm in the middle of their mess laughing so hard. It sounds like a toxic relationship. There is no dignity, no trust, no love, no nothing.

[Sixgunsound]

The only love in that relationship is physical. I don’t understand why they don’t just let it go and move on from each other. Living this high drama life is just going to keep getting them hurt and keep making them come up with more extreme revenge strategies. Wielding sex as a weapon is already pretty extreme.

[Sixgunsound]

May God have mercy on the children if they get pregnant before they break up.

[Sixgunsound]

Thanks for MHO

[Anonymous]

I think it’s pretty fair, an eye for an eye right. But if I were your friend I would just end the relationship right then and there tbh, or at least turn it into an open relationship

[ChicanaChick]

yeah I'm actually laughing at their situation My update is true. That's how he caught her so he offered her the deal of it taking her at her house. She has accepted it just now.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh wow, I mean this is all a mess lol But then again she should know that the number 1 rule of cheating is “don’t cheat to begin with” 😆

[ChicanaChick]

yeah she messed up big time. If she didn't accept it, then her ex boyfriend would've told everyone and publically exposed her on fb too. So in accepting the offer, he won't tell anyone and take her back. Needless to say wow, lol

[Opinion Owner]

Wow toxic af but I’m living for the drama tbh lol I hope they end up just breaking up in the end tho, there’s clearly no point in continuing the relationship any longer…

[MCheetah]

1. I wouldn't cheat on a woman.
2. I'm not into cuckoldry.
3. I'm not attracted to lesbians (or any gay people).

So, no, and no.

[Berethor]

I am unlikely to cheat, but if you ask if I accept a MFM, the answer is no. Your friend is a slut.

[ChicanaChick]

yeah the guy caught her screwing his friend in his house. In exchange for his silence (not telling anyone what happened) and taking her back... his offer is for him to have sex with two women in her house. She has now accepted it but she admitted to me that she now understand what he felt... she feel hurt and humiliated.

[Berethor]

He is actually generous, if a women is slutty it's worse, a woman is like a lock.

[ChicanaChick]

Or maybe she's going to play her good and use her until she gets bored. No man ever really forgives that.

[delta50]

Seems fair and if that's what the other person needs to get over the cheating then why not?

[ChicanaChick]

I guess but I imagine it's hard to get over cheating you actually saw in person.

[juliammm]

I love 3somes :)

[ChicanaChick]

She just accepted the offer but really doesn't like it. She feels hurt and humiliated. She had to accept it in order to be taken back and for him not to tell on her, not to tell others what she did.

[mrmonogamous]

First off, I would never cheat. Second off, a threesome cheapens the emotional bond of sex. Sex is the most intimate form of communication a couple can share. Don’t mess with it.

[boggboss]

Both situation don't fix the situation that happened we wasn't in a open relationship I was cheated on her letting me have sex with others won't regrow the trust that she broke lol

[ChicanaChick]

She didn't make that offer, he did. She tells me that she feels so humiliated by that offer but that's the only way he said he'll take her back.

[boggboss]

Then he is a retard for making the offer and she is a retard for thinking about it

[ChicanaChick]

Meanwhile I'm LMAO at them continuing something so toxic.

[Th3ft]

I’m curious who she will choose to bed him. And why a threesome that essentially excludes her? Did she have multiple guys in the process?

[ChicanaChick]

He wants her to feel the same hurt and humiliation when she did his good friend in his house. So he gets to do two women in her house.

[ChicanaChick]

With that deal, he takes her back and he doesn't tell anyone about her cheating.

[Th3ft]

Damn! That sounds brutal!! Hopefully he isn’t too mean in all of that day to let it out.

[misogynistic_pig]

No, I do have dignity.

[misogynistic_pig]

I would pull out a knife and stab her.

[ChicanaChick]

Going to prison over a lying cheater? There are so many women in the world.. why focused on just one?

[tony_baloney]

I can't tell if you're serious so I'm going to continue laughing

[bowenw]

I suspect he would enjoy the threesome and would want to do it more than the one time.

[ChicanaChick]

True. He'll likely then continue cheating at her even after evening the score. Meanwhile I'm laughing at their toxic relationship and the drama lol.

[bowenw]

Keep us posted on what happens.

[ChicanaChick]

She just told me she's going to accept the deal but it's hurting her.

[ChicanaChick]

She's hurt and humiliated that he wants it done in her house. But she'll accept the deal since she humiliated him first at his house.

[bowenw]

I'm sure it's only the beginning and she's going to get hurt more.

[bowenw]

Somehow I don't see their relationship lasting.

[ChicanaChick]

Yeah it won't last. I think he's going to continue using her for sex, played her, turned into a total jerk and make her get bored. I just accepted his offer and I'm willing to bet he's probably laughing that she accepted it.

[bowenw]

His play may be to make her subservient, and hold this over her head forever.

[ConspiracyTheorist]

Well I guess if he really loved her he wouldn't want to do that but then again if she loved him neither would she have... they are probably better off

[Ironic_Method]

I wouldn't get back with anyone that cheated on me.

[TroyDT2]

I don't cheat, will under no circumstance take a cheater back, and what he is demanding is stupid.

[ChicanaChick]

She just accepted the offer. In accepting it, she'll be taken back and he'll keep his silence (he won't rat her out nor tell anyone what happened).

[YakubDavid]

Morally, it isn't right. He should have just broke up with her. Straight up. The relationship will never be the same. If he wants to max out revenge, I guess he could dump her right after the threesome... more effective. I can think of other ways too... then again, I've an evil mind against cheaters.

[TacosRAwesome]

It's a valid offer.

[ChicanaChick]

She has accepted it in exchange to having him back afterwards and his silence (he won't rat on her nor tell anyone what happened) over her cheating.

[ChicanaChick]

Needless to say she feels hurt and humiliated... she said to me ''anywhere but at my home, omg''. Cheaters don't like it when it's done back at them lol

[Snedger____]

I would smash her face and end the game

[ChicanaChick]

I posted an update. I believe that's how he found out. Hence why he's making that deal to have it happen at her house.

[ChillDad]

I mean, clearly that relationship is over. But yeah I don't understand the need to get even. He should be allowed a free pass

[ChicanaChick]

Yes she should allow him but she feels so humiliated with that offer. He told her that she humiliated him first so why can't he do the same. If she does that, he'll take her back.

[ChillDad]

I think even if he does take get back, it won't last long. This is already pretty toxic. But I also can't imagine catching my SO fucking my friend.

[ChicanaChick]

True and he wants her to feel the same effect when he fucks two women in her house.

[ChillDad]

Correct. Which I get. If I found my girl fucking my friend, I wouldn't even let her pick the girls. I'd go out and get my own 3some

[ChillDad]

Message me

[ChicanaChick]

ok I've just messaged you

[Twalli]

depending on how I discovered the cheating determines whether or not I'd consider taking her back. If she cheats on me with a girl, I'd ask her if she wants to have a threesome with her and me, but if it's a guy it would take a lot more for me to forgive her.

[ChicanaChick]

My curiosity of how he found out got the best of me and I just asked her now if he really walked in on that. Her only replied was ''Yes but don't tell anyone. I don't want to talk about it.'' I was right on my update. He literally caught her cheating with his friend in his house so he's offering her that deal.

[Twalli]

The thing is that I am more okay with a girl cheating if she tells me about it. If she's in the act and I catch her the whole dynamic changes. She didn't really have a chance to tell me afterwards.

[ChicanaChick]

yeah according to what she told me, he did ended up crying. She just accepted the offer. That was in exchange for his silence (he won't rat on her nor tell anyone what happened) and him taking her back. Needless to say she does feels hurt and humiliated but still accepted it.

[bamesjond0069]

I mean it makes sense. She should allow it if she wants to be with him. Otherwise they won't be together and that's that.

[ChicanaChick]

She told me she feels humiliated by that offer. He told her that it would make it even and that she humiliated him first so why can he do that same.

[bamesjond0069]

Yeah. And? The point is it is humiliating. She did it to him so he wants to make sure she feels the same way in hopes of making her realize not to do it again and also this form of justice is often easily comprehensible to men and will help him feel good about himself again.

[ChicanaChick]

Meanwhile I'm LMAO at them trying to continue a toxic relationship with cheating and no trust.

[nawtee_me]

leave him... NOW

[ChicanaChick]

I'm NOT the one in the relationship. That's my friend's relationship. I'm just laughing while watching their mess lol.

[Zolly99999]

No... cheat once and they are gone for good. Once a cheater always a cheater