If you could choose how long it took for you to be able to reach orgasm during sexual relations, what amount of time would you choose?

If you could choose how long it took for you to be able to reach orgasm during sexual relations, what amount of time would you choose?
By the "amount of time," I'm referring to the point at which your body would orgasm if you didn't make an effort to delay it.
So if you choose 5 minutes, that doesn't necessarily mean that you WILL orgasm at that point, just that at that point, you will orgasm UNLESS you purposely make an effort to delay it.
I hope that makes sense.

Assume that your partner will be sexually satisfied regardless of the amount of time that you choose.
5 minutes or less
Vote A
6-10 minutes
Vote B
11-15 minutes
Vote C
16-30 minutes
Vote D
31+ minutes
Vote E
I would prefer not to orgasm
Vote F
I don't know / I'm asexual or don't desire sexual relations
Vote G
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's hard for me to cum. I love cumming together and thrusting towards eachother for the climax with a deep moaning kiss. I can feel it when a girl cums or fakes it pretty easily. Mostly because that's what it normally takes for me to get there. Body wiggling and literally love when women/girls can't control themselves and have contractions or grab me by the legs at the sweet spot and keep going there.

  • I usually last 30-45 minutes if not longer. For me, a male orgasm just puts a stop to things and that's no fun. I'd rather the girl I'm with ask to stop for a short break to get water, rest or whatever else and then carry on. I get more out of making a girl orgasm than I do when I finish.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I picked the shortest amount of time, but only because that seems to be the best most men can sustain before blowing their load without pausing. But honestly, I'll be shocked if it ever happens during penetrative sex; sounds like winning the lottery.

    • I 👅that thing till she cums once at least befor I give her the D. Gotta lick it befor you stick it I can go for hours and make sure my partner gets off 5-6 times at least before I give her mine. 😉References are available

    • You poor thing!!

  • I can already control mine good enough to keep going and have multiples, it's not really about the time

    • @Apple1996 very well said. Just keep cumming until you are Exhausted. I normally fuck until I have cum 4-5 times and no more cum left

  • I'd like when it takes a while to reach that point and have long periods of orgasms.

  • I've never had sex with someone who has been able to make me orgasm:/

    • That's very unfortunate. Sustain foreplay for a minimum of 30 minutes. Playing with you touching your 7 erogenous zones. You haven't been with anyone experienced enough. If he teases you for a long time at the right spots. When you're ready for sex go for slow and deep thrusts cowgirl or doggy. You on top will stimulate your clit more by him naturally especially if you bend over a bit. Doggy goes right for the gspot. Put your legs together between his and bend forward also rub your clit at the same time. If missionary is a must make sure his head is higher than yours and put a couple pillows under your butt. During foreplay don't be afraid to instruct him based on what feels best or put his hands where you want them. It should take 15 mins to go from making out to nibbling on your ears and neck to stomach to kissing your thighs and another 15 spent going down on you at minimum before intercourse. With practice patients and the right guy you will have amazing ogasms. Plural. You may not be able to have vaginal orgasms from sex. Sex is great for getting pregnant but not necessarily the best for an orgasm. When you have time try using the faucet of an empty bathtub. At the perfect temperature sit down underneath it before a shower and I guarantee you will cum in minutes just from the water stimulating your clit. Rub circles during sex. You need to have a clitoral orgasm probably.

    • @unluckyplant710 I’ve given myself clitoral orgasms but nobody else ever has :// I have never made myself cum tho

    • @Isabella1100 I had sex an hour ago and she had 4 orgasms. Real body shaking squirting orgasms. Very intimate.

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  • Ideally, the same amount of time my partner does... if we do sync and make the choice together "on the fly" while gazing, kissing and playing... so far, hasn't happened yet.

  • C would be a nice middle ground, but if i could completely pick its getting to the edge of orgasm as quickly as i do now while being stuck there for at minimum 10 minutes before i am able to cum. Would be extremely pleasurable.

  • I definitely can't last a triathlon amount of time but I can keep going multiple times and will always make sure my girl is pleased and reached orgasm at least once before I do.

  • I voted 11 - 15 minutes. Even though my PE has gotten a lot better I would always like to be sure that I wouldn't have to worry about for at least 11 - 15 minutes while still experiencing exquisite pleasure in my penis.

  • I said 11-15. I’d like some time to be arroused and then bam! Hopefully 15 min leads to multiple times

    • something us guys will never get😂

  • probably like 20 to 25 mins

  • I currently cum quickly so I voted for E

    • How quick in min?

    • @ashwini_opentalk about two minutes

  • Id Choose about 1 minute or less so I could hopefully get there before my husband finishes

  • 7-8 min

    • oh really great gud

    • Geez I'd nail it !

    • @ashwini_opentalk how long does your 2nd take. I usually hold off until the girl has cum twice, then the next time she starts to cum, I cum with her.

  • Wow- that's a pretty even spread. It looks like there's a broad range of preferences here.

  • I often don’t orgasm, so 15/20 minutes would sound good if I could choose.

  • I'd want to cum shortly after my partner

  • I'm asexual and don't desire sexual relations

  • It would depend on how long it usually takes my girlfriend

  • Alteast one hour

  • I thought every was able to time their orgasms

  • Must be a girl thang? I have been clipped sorry honeys no more rug rats. Not saying children are rodents, they're cute ! I have two college grads and very proud of them.

  • I usually last about a good fifteen minutes the first round but I would like to last at least a good half hour at times

  • Hours and hours like I do the jury better than the finish

  • I chose E, 31 mins. That would give me plenty of time to make my girl cum several times. Then the next time she cums, I will cum at the same time.

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