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If you could give one sexual tip what would it be?

For relevant details- it's tips for me and yes I'm a virgin still but I'm nervous about sex so any tips help ❤
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  • -Explore. Yourself.
    Biggest thing is know what you like, from there you can communicate with any sexual partner and get a good experience.

    Also- if they can't accept that, don't try for more with them. Regardless how many you want to have sex with, only do it with people who accept and encourage boundaries and communication before, during and after.

    • Thank you ❤

Most Helpful Guys

  • In General: Learn to slow things down. It's easy to get excited, but if you want a great experience, work on the getting to know each others bodies. There's a time for quickies, but, spending time on each other is how we truly get to know our partners.

    Virgins: I've only ever been with one virgin and I have only one tip and that is for the guy to listen to her and ask her if she's okay repeatedly. A guys first time is not painful, it's all pleasure and therefore it should be according to her tempo. They should also be prepared of the possibility of not having sex and let her change her mind. The girl I was with backed-out twice, no big deal, I was in no hurry and made sure she knew there was no pressure.

    Guys should just put the shoe on the other foot and treat her how they would want to be treated, with a little care and understanding.

  • The more experienced partner should make it clear that they genuinely WANT their companion to frankly express what they tactilely DO and DON'T enjoy and value! In college, we used to say: "If I've made you happy, tell your friends; ... if not, TELL ME FIRST!" One cannot improve and be welcomed back for an encore... second guessing!
    Otherwise, they're just being used as a means to YOUR ends--- A large part of the American Conservative hypocrisy is to deny adolescents to experience what they themselves find to be pleasurable in a guilt-free home environment~

Most Helpful Girl

  • give blowjobs and swallow all the cum you can... i'm serious

    One teaspoon of semen contains over 200 proteins and several helpful vitamins and minerals including vitamin C, calcium, chlorine, citric acid, fructose, lactic acid, magnesium, nitrogen, phosphorus, potassium, sodium, vitamin B12 and zinc. While amounts of each vitamin vary with age and relative health of the person doing the ejaculating, there is usually a significant amount of zinc present (about 3 percent of US RDA), which is an antioxidant that helps slow down the aging process. So besides exercise, sex (sans condom) gives you a healthy dose of something good.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Keep an open mind above all else!

    Don't be afraid to stretch your boundaries from time to time just to test the waters but at the same time don't let anyone force you into anything that you are not comfortable with.

    I have published a Sexual Education University Parody that is still in the works. There are 100 chapters so far in draft mode of which I have put out five. Kind of fun and will touch on almost everything sexual under the sun... no, I am not kidding!

    I have also written a ton on GAG as well though if you poke around. I am an Erotic Story Writer :)

    Good luck Ms Shay!

  • Use protection so you don't hear babies cry.

  • Always try to give more than you get.

  • I agree with what Alex Snow said... do not forget to use condoms... you do not want to be a teenage mommy or get an STI

  • Relax your inhibitions and enjoy it

  • Condoms prevent minivans!

  • You won't get pregnant from oral or anal.

  • Basic sex tip... take your time, don't rush, and enjoy whatever happens

  • Always experiment with your body.

  • It depends on what, as a virgin, you have to work with, to provide guidelines. I was with two virgins. With one I barged in and it went badly. With the other, I had developed a plan and it went much better.
    Questions:
    *Can you pass a tampon into a position where it is useful?
    *Have you inserted anything else, like fingers, a hair brush or a toy? How wide? How did it go?

  • great lovers are made not born.

    take your time: dont be in a hurry to get to the end.

    sex isn't a race.

  • Make them wait.
    Do not rush into sex.

  • Don't rush in. Take each step at a pace your comfortable with. If your partner tries to push anything they aren't the one. Don't hype it up too much, just get naked have a laugh and things will take their course. Play safe.

  • The first few time will probably seem awkward. Hopefully the guy will be very understanding and go slow. Be sure to communicate. Tell him if anything is hurting or you need him to stop or slow down. Try to learn as much as your can before trying it by reading or watching videos, but remember porn is not reality. Talk to friends for advice.

    • I've been told it might be awkward and it could hurt. I think those things I just have to deal with I'm not sure. I am trying to learn through porn but some of it is scary

    • A lot of girls say it hurts or is uncomfortable the first time. Being nervous and tense does not help which is not easy to avoid. Just try to follow the guy's lead the first few times and enjoy it. It's supposed to be fun. Instead of starting with intercourse, try other things first to get used to each others bodies. If you can find some non-porn videos they may be more helpful and not seem as scary or unrealistic.

  • No matter how many tips u get honey sex can never be good unless you r doing it from all ur heart n for a first timer always remember that it would be a little scary little painful but it will definitely be worth it

  • Don’t lie. Don’t listen to a lot of women on here.

  • To wait until you're sure they want to keep you and you want to keep them.

  • Patience…make the guy earn you.

  • Don't rush. Just let it happen in its own time.

    And the first time is always terrible. No way around it.

    • Always?

    • If either you or your partner has some experience its not as bad but if you're both newcomers then just prepare for it to be awkward and uncoordinated.

  • Just go with the flow snd don't force anything

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