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If you could read your partners mind during sex and they were thinking about someone else sexually rather than you, how would it make you feel?

If you could read your partners mind during sex and they were thinking about someone else sexually rather than you, how would it make you feel?
I would be crushed if that happened
Vote A
If you could read your partners mind during sex and they were thinking about someone else sexually rather than you, how would it make you feel?
It would depend on who it was and whether, or not, it is someone I know
Vote B
If you could read your partners mind during sex and they were thinking about someone else sexually rather than you, how would it make you feel?
No, it wouldn't matter, most sexually active couples have sexual fantasies anyway, that's just normal
Vote C
If you could read your partners mind during sex and they were thinking about someone else sexually rather than you, how would it make you feel?
I would never allow myself to listen in to anyones thoughts in the first place, even if I could, so I would never know
Vote D
If you could read your partners mind during sex and they were thinking about someone else sexually rather than you, how would it make you feel?
OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Sex Fantasy" Survey
Vote E
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It depends on the context.

    Artistic minds wander rapidly, if I'm having sex, there are going to be times where my brain is "off", times where I'm "in the moment", and times where my mind is thinking about all sorts of things.

    My boner might be enough blood drain that day to put my brain in autopilot mode, I may be so focused on my girlfriend/wife that I can't think of other stuff, but also boobs in front of me are going to make me remember other boobs I've seen, then I might also remember what boobs do anatomically, then I might end up wanting a bowl of cereal, chocolate milk, or cheese, or pizza, perhaps it went the direction of some porn I saw, which would then result in thinking of other women, or my girlfriend and other women at the same time, or perhaps some kind of creative drawing idea, or whatever else.

    I think if it's just that sort of wandering it's fine, but if the entire time or every time you are wishing in your mind that it's someone else in your bed, instead of your SO, then thats a reason to breakup.

    If its just an urge to have variety though, then just have cosplay sex with lots of outfits.

  • @laurieluvsit
    surly it would just be like having a weird threesome :D
    nothing wrong with that :D
    in fact id prob start thinking of someone else and make it a foursome :D

Most Helpful Girls

  • This question reminds me of the song "Unanswered prayers."

    Being a mind reader sounds kind of fun, but i bet it would end up being a curse.

    But to answer you question, I'd probably be pissed off, and then later realize I was thinking of someone else, also.

    • I have only done this a few times in life, and always after a bad breakup. I only date girls I am really into. I want to think of them while fucking.

    • @SkipPerk You're definitely going to heaven.

    • @Anonymous ... lol

  • Maybe there is a reason we can't do that.

    • Oh Thanks

    • You're welcome, thank you for a great opinion :)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I read minds soooo 🤷🏼‍♀️... guess il have to start thinking of someone else and then move on when we are done.🤣

  • I make a point to have lots of flirty, foreplay, and no one party “deadfish 🐠 sex just to avoid having to wonder about your question…. thanks so much for heightening my stress level just a little bit more going into Monday
    🙃

  • What makes you think the other isn't doing the same?

  • Obviously most people who have followed some of my responses know I have fantasies and I’m pretty sure my husband does as well. We try to use them to motivate us to try new things in the bedroom.

  • The same way I Always have with my hands my lips my body and my? No matter what she's thinking or feeling it's me making her feel the way she does.. I would have to say role playing would be naughtier than what or who she having a fantasy about. So yes I have to say I would still feel with my hands 🖐😊

  • i'm sure all guys do this

  • I mean, how often is this happening?

  • I would pull out a deck of cards while still having sex... and ask her to think of a number, then draw a card, while still doing it... would turn it and ask her "is this your card?" while she reads the name of the person she was thinking of written on the card... then just go for the finale while she's still mind-blown...

    hopefully... that name is Katy Perry...

  • Really depends who it is, some people fantasise about celebrities and famous people, that wouldn't really be an issue, but if it was someone we knew that would be a bigger problen.

  • We all have fantasies. So long as she's with me, it doesn't really matter what her fantasies are. I hope they're bringing her pleasure.

  • I’d feel a little jealous and it would probably kill the mood , thinking I wasn’t the guy for her , but I’d still dock her anyway just to get off but after that things between her and I would probably not last considering I would lose respect for her , my thing is if you have to picture someone else to get off then that is your answer that person you are fucking isn’t right for you , you my as well just be a blow up doll or an automatic dildo lol

  • That was an episode on black ice that the husband knew the child was a his and he had a memory tape chip and it shows the ex-wife oh by the end of the tape he became his ex-wife somebody coming inside of her without a condom and the end of their family was right there and he was living alone after that is it worth the truth?

  • I would be a little upset but I realize that everyone has probably done this. The first time I had sex I did it.

  • Depending on who it was, I might see about making that happen

    • This is a perfect answer. You just want them to experience pleasure.

    • @LingyRolls Well yes. No reason to be jealous here. She is still going home with me after it's all done

  • I've always loved hearing her fantasies or stories of her past.

    • She has multiple TV crushes, half the male cast from game of thrones and the Vikings and a few from hell on wheels get brought up occasionally and we talk through some fantasy scenarios while we fuck. It's puts an edge on her orgasms by thinking about all those guys and it puts an edge on mine imagining her doing wherever she wants with all those guys.

  • I feel like I would want to crush him, but have mixed emotions in this. I know people have fantasies on this.

  • It would be an instant turn of efforts are mine and credit is going to someone else he'll no

  • Depends on who

  • I would push him out of me and never have sex w him again

  • because it's clearly not me that they wanna be with & that their still hung up on a pervious partner. I'd stop, pull out, leave the bed and get dressed to leave.
    Why would you wanna stay with them if you knew that.

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