If you could reverse time would you have a better love life?

[chris_987]

Maybe it doesn't apply to girls, but if you're a guy and you say that wrong thing, the girls are quick to block you, but if you reverse time, you could probably win more often and get the girl to sleep with you 100% of the time.

[Hot_Mess_Express]

I wish I could go back to 14 when me and my boyfriend had amazing bodies and I could have the confidence to teach him how to eat my pussy and I could blow his mind now that I know how to give much better blowjobs!

Also maybe try to get in a three-way or two lol

[chris_987]

At 14 you were having sex?

[Hot_Mess_Express]

Yeah. Way more vanilla than I do now, but I had been active for a little while by then

[chris_987]

Awesome! That's where the hot mess name came from

[veganrogue]

Interesting premise, however I don't know if I'd go about the 'quick reverse in time' to change the outcome of each failed attempt until you score the girl. But to know what. I know now, and apply it 30 years ago when I was 22? I know my sex life would be way crazier than it had been for sure.

[exitseven]

Yes, I bet I could do that. I was very shy when I was younger and I would have done better if I wasn't so afraid of rejection

[rachel776]

[menina]

I wouldn't reverse time, I would reverse my preferences. And yes, that would my love life better.

[chris_987]

It's funny because this demonstrates how men and women think about the opposite sex differently. Women only are attracted to a small minority of men. That's why you guys think the less men you're attracted to, the better. Men will sleep with a majority of women. So the question makes sense that if we didn't say the wrong thing or give her the ick we feel like we would have slept with 100% of girls. But a woman's goal isn't to sleep with 100% of men. That's why this question is funny to me.

[menina]

Yup, that might be true.

[chris_987]

So so what about you? What are your preferences?

[menina]

Well, unfortunately I'm attracted to white guys and I'm black. That's what makes my love life harder.

[chris_987]

Is that because you find it hard to attract white guys?

[menina]

Yes, besides most of them are not attracted to black girls.

[chris_987]

Well it is pretty racist to be attracted to one race

[menina]

It's not my choice. I don't do it on purpose, I just can't help it. And it's not that I don't find non-whites attractive. I just can't help finding white men attractive.

[menina]

You have no idea of how terrible I feel because of it.

[chris_987]

Okay calm down. I'm not here to shame you This is just one of those moments where you're going to have to admit defeat. If you want love but you can't find it from a certain race then why should you deny yourself of being happy? Just go after the guys that like you and be content with that.

[menina]

But you said that I was racist indirectly. Guys who like me? 😂😂 I wish it was that simple...

[chris_987]

Do you think you're attractive?

[menina]

Yes, I think so.

[chris_987]

Okay how tall are you and how much do you weigh?

[menina]

I'm 5'5". And no, I'm not obese.

[chris_987]

Well if you're over 150lbs then you might be out of shape and white guys aren't really into that

[menina]

I don't know what that is. I'm not from the United States. Also, I'm not desperate for a white man and I'm not looking for a boyfriend. I just answered your question.

[chris_987]

So what are you looking for? Just a friends with benefits. Random hookups?

[menina]

I'm not into friends with benefits or hookups. I want to be in a relationship. But I'm not looking for it now. I need to focus on myself and improve my life at this moment.

[chris_987]

So in the meantime you just suppress your urges that's pretty evolved of you

[menina]

What urges? You mean sexual urges?

[chris_987]

Of course I mean sexual

[menina]

I don't need to be worried about. I've never had sex.

[menina]

*about that

[chris_987]

What's the closest you've been to having sex?

[menina]

Masturbation.

[chris_987]

The last girl I was with she was a virgin but she got eaten out by a guy. I don't know if that counts as still being a virgin though.

[menina]

It doesn't count to me. But people have different definitions of what counts and what doesn't.

[chris_987]

So do you watch porn when you masturbate or do you just use your imagination?

[menina]

I watch porn.

[chris_987]

And you only use toys? Or just your fingers

[menina]

Just my fingers.

[chris_987]

Oh then you have a good chance at still enjoying sex with a man, cause vibrators can't compete with a penis

[menina]

No, they can't compete. You're right.

[chris_987]

So what type of porn are you into, just white guys?

[menina]

Do you really want to know that? 😂😂

[chris_987]

Most definitely, I'm always curious what turns girls on

[menina]

Lol ok Yes, I watch white guys. But sometimes I watch gay porn too.

[chris_987]

That's like super masculine watching two guys fuk, do you consider yourself very submissive?

[menina]

How am I supposed to know that if I never had sex? I don't know.

[chris_987]

Makes sense, but don't you imagine a guy taking control if you where to have sex

[menina]

Hummm, not really.

[chris_987]

So you imagine taking control during sex?

[menina]

Yes, sometimes. But nothing in specific, just a general thought.

[chris_987]

So in what way would you take control?

[menina]

I can think of me initiating sex sometimes. I mean, after having more experience of course. Not now.

[chris_987]

So you're saying you have a high sex drive, do you masturbate often?

[menina]

I guess I do. I wouldn't say often.

[chris_987]

Okay in one week how often would you touch yourself

[menina]

I would say around 5 times.

[chris_987]

That's literally the whole week! You definitely got me beat. It's Tuesday right now. How many times have you done it since the week started?

[menina]

Lol This week, it was only twice.

[chris_987]

What usually turns you on? Like let's say you're not planning on masturbating but you see something and then you just have to touch yourself. What usually is that trigger?

[menina]

For instance, if I watch a hot sex scene on TV. It can make me wet and then I have to masturbate.

[chris_987]

How many times a day do you think you'd have sex with your man if you were in a relationship

[menina]

Probably twice a day.

[chris_987]

Damn that a lot for one dick, what if he can't go another round

[menina]

Lol If he can't go another round, it's fine. I will get it.

[chris_987]

So you live in a place where there's not a lot of white people but you love white guys?

[menina]

No, where I live most people are white. I wouldn't say I love white guys, but yes I'm attracted to them.

[chris_987]

So your capable of falling in love with a black man with a big dick?

[menina]

I wouldn't fall in love with him because of his dick Lol But yeah, I guess so.

[chris_987]

You would fall in love with him because he's funny and handsome?

[menina]

That would help yes, but I would have to like his personality too.

[chris_987]

And he has to have a higher sex drive than you?

[menina]

Not necessarily. He could have the same as mine.

[chris_987]

Lol you want to do it multiple times a day, most guys wouldn't be able to keep up with that request

[menina]

I obviously know that everybody has a limit. I wouldn't be asking him to have sex 10 times a day Lol I'm not expecting that.

[chris_987]

Would you settle for him? Just figuring you until you cum

[menina]

Yes, I would.

[chris_987]

Yes and then taste it afterwards

[menina]

Ok, I guess I didn't get what you said before Lol

[chris_987]

Would you swallow his cum

[menina]

No, I don't think so.

[chris_987]

Oh that's not your thing

[menina]

No, it's not my thing at all.

[chris_987]

You don't think that if you're sucking a guy's dick, you're not going to swallow something?

[menina]

I probably would if I did that. But again, it's not my thing.

[chris_987]

So what is your thing then?

[menina]

I'm going to find that out once I have sex. All I know is that I'm not into oral.

[chris_987]

That's interesting that you would know you're not into oral when you've never had sex

[menina]

Yes, it's not something I want to do.

[chris_987]

Okay, I guess I understand

[menina]

I'm glad you do.

[chris_987]

Why is that

[menina]

You mean, why do I think I won't like oral?

[chris_987]

Yeah

[menina]

It doesn't make sense to me and it sounds gross.

[chris_987]

It doesn't make sense that a dick goes in a mouth?

[menina]

Yes, at least not to me. Other people are free to do whatever they want.

[chris_987]

So your against eating ass too I guess

[menina]

Yes, I am.

[chris_987]

So are you saying that there will be zero foreplay when you have sex or just only kissing and straight to intercourse

[menina]

Maybe, I don't know. I need to wait to see what happens. You seem way too interested in what I like and what I don't like. Why do you care?

[chris_987]

Why not, you never know we might end up losing our virginity together

[menina]

Wait, what?😦😦😦 Me thinking that you had sexual experience and then you don't? I'm not judging you, but I'm surprised. I suppose that's very unlikely.

[chris_987]

Lol why would that be unlikely all we have to do is drive or fly to each other

[menina]

Because we're too far away from each other. Would you really travel to another country just to have sex? I mean, I know there are people who do that but I find it weird and creepy.

[chris_987]

It depends what country I always wanted to visit Sweden. I wouldn't travel there just for sex but if I found someone there I liked I would just live there

[menina]

Well, I'm far from Sweden. I have no interest in going there either. But I get you, there are places that I would like to visit. Ok, I really thought you just wanted to travel for sex.

[chris_987]

If I went to Brazil maybe

[menina]

I can imagine why you would want to go to Brazil...

[chris_987]

Not because of the BBL

[menina]

Really? Because most men go to Brazil because of that.

[chris_987]

Why do you think men would go to somewhere for sex?

[menina]

Because they're attracted to Brazilian women. And they think that all Brazilian women are prostitutes (which is NOT TRUE).

[menina]

Because some women can't or don't want to have sex in their countries. So they travel. Have you ever heard of sexual tourism?

[menina]

*Because some men

[chris_987]

No, the real reason is because of femininity. If none of the women in Brazil were feminine, men wouldn't fly down there to be with them. A guy on the internet tell the story about why he went to Brazil and he was saying that every girl no matter their age or occupation treated him with a base amount of respect that he doesn't get in America. And through that he was able to realize his worth. So that's why femininity is important in society. The equivalent for women would be if every man became feminine than a woman would have to be masculine. And they would fly to a place where masculine men are so that they can be in touch with their feminine side. Hopefully that made sense. With men, it's not always about sex

[menina]

I get your point, but I disagree with you. I still believe it's all about sex and the way they see Brazilian women. Plus, some Brazilian women are desperate to live in the United States of America or somewhere in Europe. So if they meet a man from one of these places, they do everything for him so they can be together and move.

[chris_987]

It's hard for you to understand but men don't care what their motives are. They just care how they're treated and you can tell that it's not just sex that they're going there for because no man from other countries come to the states or any Western world to experience the women. It's hard for girls to understand because you don't have a need for femininity in your life. You do have a need for masculinity so try to imagine if every man was feminine you two would travel just to experience masculine men. A lot of girls think men only care about sex and that is exactly why they can't keep them. Femininity is way more important to a man than sex ever will be.

[menina]

Like I've said I get your point, but I disagree with you. They go after sex. If you look for more info about this online, you'll get what I'm saying. I'm talking about Brazil in specific, I'm NOT talking about other countries.

[chris_987]

But you're a woman so chances are you don't have an interest into why guys pursue girls anyways. The information that you find is going to be more surface level. Like I don't have an interest in how to get rid of. Cramps so I wouldn't speak on the subject. The same reason there's no point and you having a desire to know why guys want feminine women.

[menina]

I never thought about why guys pursue women because I have serious things to be worried about. The information might be on surface level if we're talking about other countries. But if we're talking about BRAZIL ONLY, you'll find a lot of things. That's what I meant, I'm NOT talking about other countries.

[chris_987]

I'm pretty sure anywhere where sex tourism is a thing. Men are going there for the same reasons. As I said before, there are prostitutes in America and other western countries but generally men don't come to these places to get prostitutes.

[menina]

Again, I'm NOT talking about the United States or other Western countries. I'm talking about BRAZIL specifically because we were talking about it.

[chris_987]

Was your main point about Brazil?

[menina]

Yes, it was. That's what I was trying to tell you all of this time.

[chris_987]

Okay but what was the main point?

[menina]

Are you serious? Didn't you read what I said?

[menina]

You're the one who started talking about going to Brazil.

[chris_987]

Yeah I made a point but I think it was the opposite of what your point was so I'm trying to remember what you said. Conversation was too long to go back and figure out what was said

[menina]

Ok. My point was that some men go to Brazil because women there are seen as prostitutes (which is NOT TRUE) and everybody thinks they're hot. Also, some Brazilian women are desperate to leave Brazil. They think Europe and the United States are perfect places where everybody is living a perfect life. So when they find a man who is European or from the US they do everything they can to be with him and leave Brazil.

[chris_987]

But just because you want to leave a poor country doesn't mean you're going to act feminine towards a guy which I think was my point. There are girls in first world countries that want to go to Dubai or other places they idealize but because they 've been raised to be a masculine they can't make a guy want to pay for their lifestyle due to their masculine tendencies. So my point about Brazilian women being feminine pink guy is going there to experience that still stands.

[menina]

Nevermind, you clearly didn't get my point... Brazil is NOT a poor country. It just has a complicated past and a complex present.

[chris_987]

Isn't Brazil considered a third world country?

[menina]

No, it's not.

[chris_987]

Okay, my information must be outdated cuz Google says it used to be a third world country but now it's not anymore. My outcomes have changed

[menina]

No, but it's not. Brazil is part of BRICS, it's one of the emerging economies. Besides, Brazil has a lot of natural resources, so it's not a poor country at all. It has a lot of poor people yes, but it's not a "third world country".

[chris_987]

How many people are below the poverty line?

[menina]

I have no idea. I'm telling you that based on the news I watch from Brazil on Brazilian channels. I also have Brazilian friends who grew up in Brazil. If you don't believe me, you can always check online. I'm sure you'll find a lot of info on this.

[chris_987]

You just sounded like you know a lot about Brazil so I just asked a question

[menina]

I wouldn't say a lot, but I know some things yes. I'm a big fan of Brazilian shows and I had some friends from Brazil when I was in high school and also in college.

[chris_987]

Do you also speak Portuguese?

[menina]

Yes, unfortunately I do.

[chris_987]

Why is that a bad thing?

[menina]

Because it's a useless language.

[chris_987]

Wow I never knew there was such a thing as a useless language. I'll be sure to tell my Portuguese neighbors that

[menina]

But there is to me and Portuguese is a useless language. I wouldn't advise you to tell them that, they probably will hit you.

[chris_987]

Why would I tell them something I don't believe in, plus you clearly got an issue with the Portuguese where as I don't

[Billlewis]

Maybe. I've never really thought about it.

[Gent207-2]

Like Next (movie starring Nicholas Cage)

No thank you

[Alex-Snow]

100% of the time would still be a dream

[RebeccaSJ]

I might start earlier.

[Anonymous]

Yes, because when push comes to shove, no one cares about you.

[Anonymous]

Kind of childish, don't you think?

[chris_987]

Explain why you think it's childish