If you don't enjoy kissing someone, will you enjoy having sex with them?

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PS: Asking for a friend, has nothing doing with me.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

No , I only like sex with a girl that I feel great chemistry and connection with , just how I am , I like to think sex means something , I can’t just bang a girl for the hell of it , I always questioned myself as to why that is , cuz I know most guys can just have sex for the hell of it , but for some reason I can’t, I think it stems down from being molested when I was a kid by an older woman , that’s the only thing I can come up with after all these years lol Sadly most girls don’t believe me , and that’s ok but for me to be intimate with a girl I need to feel a deep connection between her and I , so kissing shouldn’t even be an issue , I love kissing a girl that I am deeply into , the passion of making out with her is amazing to me , my intentions is to have her coming back for more and more , I think having sex with multiple people is dirty and degrading but that’s just me. and I know there are a lot of people that can do it, but for whatever reason I can’t. I don’t care how hot a girl is , I need to feel chemistry and connection with her for me to even end up in bed with her. So the fact that this guy doesn’t want to kiss your friend during sex , is mainly because he is just using her for sex , he doesn’t value her , he just likes the convenience of her. I have friends that just have sex with girls for the hell of it and I tell them all the time that it is so wrong to do , and they will just say it’s just sex , I know girls that say the same exact thing , to me it’s dirty and degrading for the simple fact some of my friends now have STD’s and now kicking themselves in the ass for being so stupid , I tell them you just dug your own grave , by being a dumbass but people do what they feel is best for them , I just know that isn’t my intentions. But I have had girls do that to me so it’s always a 50/50 chance but if a girl didn’t want to kiss me during sex that would probably be the last time I have sex with her basically Thank you for a good time but not a long time

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I'm not going to have sex just to have sex if I'm going to have sex with you that means I like everything about you and that includes kissing and it's not going to be a wham bam thank you ma'am it's going to be all about you I'm going to make everything about you so if the person doesn't know how to kiss the odds are we're not going to have sex because in order for me to make it all about you I want to get into it and I get into a Zone and in that zone I like to take my time and take you to a place that you've never been before so yeah I need to like everything about the girl so she has to know how to kiss and most girls do know how to kiss I've never been a girl that didn't know how except for maybe she was shy but that means that all went away very quickly

nolabels · Answer

I'm not into kissing anymore for some reason. It's kind of gross to me. Sex? You betcha!

SnowedIn · Answer

Very likely. Perhaps for some there's a direct connection but not necssarily.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Not really, the kiss has to have some passion to it and get me in the mood. If it's turning me off because she's like a St. Bernard (all tongue and kinda drooly) then sex probably isn't in the works.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

unlikely

slatyb · Answer

That's probably won't happen.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

no. why would i do one and not the other? no kiss no fuck

Dargil · Answer

Some girls are lousy kissers but have magical vaginas.

Fireguy17 · Answer

maybe not as much as if you like kissing someone.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Most likely but, I've never been in a situation where kissing wasn't part of fucking.

exitseven · Answer

I used to go out with this girl that smoked. It never really bothered me when we used to kiss but somehow she got it in her head that it was gross. She started using this mouthwash that was much worse than the smoking. I didn't like kissing her but the sex was still good.

Shedzij567 · Answer

Isit like the person isn't good at kissing?

syncheart · Answer

Interesting question. Seems to me that if you didn't enjoy something about the other person. Even if it wasn't kissing. You wouldn't be having sex with them.

runnerboy · Answer

I think I would still like the sex and the orgasms. But kissing is important

Staximus · Answer

Probably not

larry69 · Answer

Not as much fun!!

kellytheman · Answer

I feel kissing and sex is a different but the sex could be less passionate or less emotional if there is no kissing or it's bad. However there its kinda hard to kissing when there a lot of movement and moaning.

dudeinohio · Answer

I'd imagine sex would still be enjoyable

Juxtapose · Answer

Likely not since I like to kiss a lot hun 😘

shades777 · Answer

I enjoy kissing so sex without kissing feels like she might as well be a hooker if she does not like intimacy

vj0090 · Answer

Ooooh yessss.. hahaha.. I will be OK..

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