If You Don't Want to Use Condoms, You Shouldn't Be Having Sex

If You Don't Want to Use Condoms, You Shouldn't Be Having Sex

So there's many 'reasons' men don't want to use condoms, including:

-They don't feel as nice/it feels better without one

-My dick is too big

-I'm clean, why should we?

-I don't want to 'waste' time putting one on.

etcetera. While the second one makes no sense (look at the condom challenge, your dick WILL fit) and the last two are just unsafe, the first one is an opinion. If you and your partner share that opinion, fine, you both agree.

However, most often times both partners do NOT agree over the use of condoms. Condoms are one of the safest ways of anti-conception. They have a 98% rate of working when used right.

These are common mistakes when using a condom: 14 Common Condom Errors

If You Don't Want to Use Condoms, You Shouldn't Be Having Sex

There are also occasions for using a condom. If it's a one night stand I'd say always use a condom, because, duh? You don't know the person too well and they might carry an std or you'll get pregnant from a stranger. This one's for straight people only: if your girl isn't using birth control, you should use a condom.

"Well, she should just use birth control, why am I the only one expected to stop pregnancies?" I hear you think. I agree women have to carry part of the burden, but! Have you considered how the pill works, for example? Well, first of all, birth control is a hell of a lot harder than just ripping a condom package open. You have to take the pill, each day, at the same time. No matter where you are, when you skip one, you're unprotected. I'd say try doing that with a placebo, guys. Like buzzfeed has done with tictacs. Furthermore, the pill has hormones in it and does not just prevent pregnancy. You're pumping hormones into your body, which means your whole cycle changes and more. Girls can get fatter or thinner, more acne or less acne, a worse period or a better period, a longer period or a shorter one. These outcomes differ for everyone, so you never know what you're going to get.

If you don't want to take on the responsibility that comes with being a guy and thus having sperm, why are you even having sex? I totally agree women should own condoms as well, and try out if birth control other than the condom works for her, but that should NEVER be because a man has told her he wants her to. Not getting an std or pregnant has to come from both ways, but not using it is just stupid, unless you want to get pregnant.

If You Don't Want to Use Condoms, You Shouldn't Be Having Sex

The only two birth controls I like so far are the condom and the IUD. Both make sure you're protected and keep your natural business okay. Those are the two i'd recommend to all. Be responsible before getting intimate, please. There's already too many humans and sick people on this planet. Peace.

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  • Ragnar Lothbrok does not wear condoms and neither do I.

    If You Don't Want to Use Condoms, You Shouldn't Be Having SexIf You Don't Want to Use Condoms, You Shouldn't Be Having Sex
  • A 16 year old telling people when they should or shouldn't have sex. Jesus. Use a condom if you want that's your business

  • my friend is afraid she's pregnant because the condom broke because the guy's penis was so thick.

    • Guys with really thick cocks shouldn't be buying the standard size condoms. That's just dumb or lazy.

    • @LisaSparrow yeah they used the complimentary ones in the hotel room

    • Well then, those free condoms might just end up costing them a small fortune! lol

  • I got me a sterilization. No kids and condoms for me :)

    • A sterilization doesn't stop STDs

    • @jacquesvol STDs are only likely if you sleep with a complete stranger. If I know the chick and we've already slept together with a condom than it's safe to remove the damn thing.

  • Well I don't use condoms, but I still having sex!

    • And apparently you don't use grammar either.

    • 'mmmmmm, sexy :P

  • exactly

  • The vast-majority of condoms contain N-Nitrosamine, a
    cancer-causing carcinogen. It can cause reproductive-issues and cervical-cancer in women.

    • even polyurethane condoms?

    • @COCOCHANEL Polyurethane condoms aren't really "less-toxic", they're just better for people who are sensitive to latex. Most of them still contain N-Nitrosamine. Glyde America is probably the least toxic brand out there. Their condoms are made of natural-rubber and thistle-extract... Personally, I do not use condoms, I prefer monogamy. We just watch her cycles.

    • This is true, but then there's still other forms of birth control as I mentioned. Also, that method is extremely unsafe.

  • Condoms are for feminists and whores.

  • Bravoooo. Braaaaavoooo. Leon approves.

  • you are right

  • I respect your opinion... Best take I've ever seen👏👏👏

  • And if the woman is the one who doesn't want to use condoms... ?

    • It's still both partners responsibility. If you both agree on not using them it's always ok, but then there's other forms of birth control to replace it.

    • But if female condoms are more effective how do we get females to start carrying condoms?

    • They are not necessarily more effective. They are less easy to carry, they are less easy to use and they aren't tight, so it seems to me like fucking a plastic bag... also, females aren't the 'shooters', so it's illogical to me why you'd try to catch sperm instead of just stopping it. Women already carry male condoms most of the time and are on other forms of birth control.

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  • Yawnn.. huh wha- ?

  • Oh right so men are the only bad irresponsible people who don't want to wear condoms. I get it.
    I will always use a condom, and I have tried a larger one so it fits better as the Durex ones are tight and hard to get on me.
    My health is the most important thing. In fact if I have sex with a girl I will make sure she gets tested if she has had previous partners. Tbh, I think I would prefer a virgin.

    • Most definitely not. I don't see how you get that from what i wrote? Women carry a responsibility of condom use as well, both sexes should keep condoms.

  • Vasalgel would be a good alternative in a long term relationship if only it was already on the market.

  • tl;dr no ballon no party

  • My cawk is way too big to fit a condom. Even magnums only cover half my penis.

    • You must be putting it on your leg.

    • @YourFutureEx third leg is something different than a penis

    • Get it

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  • I stopped using condoms when I have sex because I want to keep the environment clean by using less plastic... don't wanna, you know... cause global warming...

    • There are many, many situations where reducing plastic consumption is the right thing to do and very admirable. Going without a condom is NOT one of those situations.

    • @samhradh_leannan I know, which is why I wash and reuse the same condom from now on.