I love eating pussy but my wife hates giving blow jobs and when she does she won’t even let me cum in her mouth or swallow. Would you put up with that or what would you do?
Well my exwife did everything when we were dating... but by the end of the first year of marriage no more BJs. I was pissed... so yes I stopped eating her out and I went like 15 plus years with no oral and I resented her for false advertising the entire time we were dating.
She literally told me that she always hated giving head, but she only did it for me when we were dating so she would not to loose me... but now that we are married its not like I am going to leave her. I was like you know that super insulting. I was pissed.
But it took me 15 plus years to eventually leave her, but it wasn't about BJs that did her in for me. So I guess she was right.
Oh dang sorry that happened. Yeah it sucks. Hope you found someone new who does.
Absolutely I did, never again my man!
Haha awesome!
Its very true that most women are not into giving oral pleasure (just like Anal and other fetishes) and the most common complaints that women will say are they find it very disgusting, degrading, taboo, uncomfortable, and fearness. Communicating before you get involved with them is key but since your married, educating, taking slow (as beginner step by step), and utilizing wisdom are keys because women are emotional affectionate human beings and convincing them is very important. If she is not willing to listen to you, I recommend Marriage Counsel, and If she does, apply those methods.
Awesome advice thank you. So we tried counseling and the second it didn’t go her way she fired him and we haven’t been back since (5yrs ago). And she picked the counselor.
No problem my man and Wow, I can't believe she fired the counselor, she better change because she is not supposed to deny you and she have to satisfy you.
I wish that was the case. I’m about ready to jump off a cliff 😂
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What if it’s 3 months later?
really... what kind of life is that.
A hard one 😅
No, I have no interest in blowjobs.
Once I've gone down on the SO and she's happy, let's move on with the program.
Oh dang. Why don’t you have an interest? Bad experience?
Not bad, but not great. Most women are not as good at it as they imagine. Most of their claims go back to high school or college where young guys were so horny that they'd cum by just squeezing some titty. My own SO made such a claim. She was okay, but I'll skip the BJ and move forward to the things which I do like.
If it's all THAT important, why is she your wife?
She had other awesome qualities this is just one area that is rough.
If you knew about this before you were married, then you've just gotta accept that this is the way it will always be. And that sucks (even though she doesn't!)
I didn’t really know before because we weren’t sexual like that before marriage and I figured once married she would be but didn’t work out that way.
Not at that moment. I don't keep score.
I don't expect my SO to return the favour but it sure is nice when she does.
That’s awesome she does. So since she does sometimes it’s not really an issue for you then right?
@keepitreal007 It's not an "issue" but it would be nice if it was more often.
No. But would usually lead to sex
Does she give you blow jobs?
Not often. But prefer sex anyway
That’s good then.
No. I really don't care if I ever get a blow job!
Interesting why not? Do you get them now?
Never had one. I'm just not interested. I almost never even watch them in porno's. I've been watching porno's since at least the early `80's and, in all that time, I've only seen MAYBE two girls give what looks like a good, or at least, interesting, blow job. One was back in the mid to late `90's, the other was sometime in the past year.
At this point I wish I had no desire. It sucks wanting it and never getting it.
I don't expect anything, but it would be nice if she returned the favor.
Does she sometimes?
Yup. All the women I’ve been with have enjoyed sucking cock
Lucky you!
I’ve never really thought about it but that does make sense. I should start asking for them in return.
No, expectations kill relationships, thats a tit for tat situation that will not suceed.
Yep. But when it’s nothing it’s hard.
My girlfriend did that to me, i just quit eating her pussy. When she asked why, i told her the truth
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