I didn't get the talk til i was 24 but by then it was too late cause i had already done stuff at 15. I was heavily and negatively influenced by friends/bfs and peer pressured. So i definitely want to talk with my kid about it once they hit middle school and i’ll just pray im not too late because i dont feel comfortable (nor that its necessary) having that talk with them at age 12 and under. I dont even want my kid dating until they’re at least 16. I will let them know ahead of time that all dates will supervised until they’re 18. If they want to get buckwild by 18 then thats on them as long as theyve moved out and gone off to college. But anything before that will cause them to be punished and lose trust and the opportunity to do lots of things without a chaperone
1 1 0 0*and lose the opportunity to do lots of things without a chaperone
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It would depend upon her age. If I thought she is mature and sensible enough then I would remind her of all of our conversations about sex and relationships and make sure she is being safe and sensible.
0 3 0 0I started enjoying pleasures with a friend from age 13/14, but remained virgin until I was 15.
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I personally haven't had sex but I've watched porn since I was 14 I think I was still in Grade school Grade 8 I think
when I end up teaching my future daughter hopefully named Suzan that she should wait till 18 and not make the same mistake her father did without letting her know
she will be my innocent angel
But really I don't know what I would do as a father since some how once you impregnate a woman something click inside a man and they start thinking like a dad sometimes0 0 0 0I would have the safe sex convo (if I already didn't). Parents should be guiding their kids starting at puberty and be honest about sex and relationships.
My generation, our parents just dodged their responsibilities and we were left to figure it out on our own. Pretty much most of us had intercourse by the age of 13-14.0 0 0 0I think the dodging still happens. A lot of my classmates and I were told “You better not be doing anything you have no business doing” rather than given the talk. Even our sex ed class only taught us to fear all the diseases that you could catch but they didn't explain anything outside of that like how you can get the stds. I didn't even know what a condom looked like until i was partaking in the actual act of sex itself and he was sliding it onto himself
@DizzyDesii I suppose you might be right. I do think topics on sex are becoming more acceptable, but less than I had hoped.
More acceptable between similar age groups. But I don't know if more parents are having the talk
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4 33Communication is key.
0 0 0 0I started all this at the age of 16..
0 2 0 0I would have a detailed talk with her about sex and especially birth control. I would let her know it is her body and she gets to decide what happens to it and to make sure it is ok to say NO if she is uncomfortable with things.
1 0 0 0Depends how old. Definitely gonna have a talk with her.
0 2 0 0shoot first and ask questions later.
0 1 1 0From parental experience lol... as long as she is being smart and safe and not too underage... and if he is treating her with respect and being smart and safe... then it is ok.
To your sex part, I was a late bloomer for when first fucked... but did other stuff starting when I was 13/14.
Now it is time for me to really get my "answer" going and enjoy thoughts and pics of the best cock and cum whore around... wink wink wink :)1 0 0 0Not done any sexual stuff yet Miss, myself.
And if I had a underage daughter doing this kind of stuff I would take her in a room and talk to her about it. She should better have an understanding about what she is doing.0 0 0 0I was 12 when my girlfriend and I did pretty much everything but sex and I was 14 when I had sex. I don't think any parent wants to hear there underage daughter is sexually active but it happens to most. I think instead of getting pissed it would be better to be willing to discuss things and maybe take her to see a doctor for birth control. Explain that I would like her to take her time and don't do anything she isn't ready for.
1 0 0 0I was 15 when I started getting busy so I wouldn't be in a position to scold. But I'd tell them they better be careful.
1 0 0 0I experienced my first blowjob at 10. I had my sexual intercourse at 15. Both of my girls were informed of what sex is and what it can do, and were given a condom and eventually put on the pill.
0 0 0 0Have a little talk, obviously !!
0 0 0 0Spank her bare butt with belt
0 1 0 0I was about 16 when I was sexually active with girls my age or older mostly just oral sex and just fooling around and exoermenting. I actually starting hsving intercourse at 25.
0 0 0 0I don’t have kids so that’s hard. My family has been fairly open with sex. As long as the guy is about her age I’d probably not care too much.
0 0 0 0I mean I remember being 6 when I first got curious about stuff. And doing things so I think that it is important to open that communication early in childhood. Let them express themselves openly to you. You know? Like I would be pissed to find my daughter doing anything sexual but at the same time if that is something g in her life that I haven’t been open about then it is kind of my fault.
1 0 0 0I would find out where the boy lives and plant some cocaine in his car. I would then call a tip line for the police and sit back while justice is served.
0 1 1 1Never forget to have an agreed location, with an alibi!
@justlookin69 That’s exactly why I try to have friends in various forms of law enforcement. One person disliked this - probably just someone against justice.
Definitely be talking with her , she's a smart kid but lacks some common sense
0 0 0 0I was 16 and I’d get her on birth control
0 0 0 0As long as they don't have sex IDC. Butt stuff counts as sex.
0 1 0 0As a man I would want to know as little as possible and tell my wife to get involved.. I was 15
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