Girls, If you gave your male friend a massage, how would you react if he got an erection?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Honestly? Indifferent. Especially if he's just a friend and I know he's not attracted to me.
It is normal for some people to get aroused during massages, male or female. I mean let's be real here: it feels good!

[Asker]

Would you continue the massage while he had the boner? Would you say anything about it?

[Anemone978]

I wouldn't massage my male friends. We don't touch each other except for like high fives or punching each other in the arm.

[Katie1964]

Yawn.

No surprise there, healthy guys just get erections when they are being rubbed on by girls. At least in my experience.

[Asker]

Would you continue massaging him with the boner?

[Katie1964]

Sure, I mean I am massaging his back, not his D. Unless it's Hubby.

[Asker]

I’m talking about if ur massaging his legs and he gets a boner and now ur super close

[Katie1964]

I would only do that for Hubby. Then I would be happy he got an erection and would take care of that for him (and me, wink).

[Asker]

It happened to me and she made a joke “you must really be enjoying it”

[Katie1964]

You should take it as a complement not a joke.

[Asker]

Yeah but I was wearing just mesh shorts so my boner was sticking straight up

[Katie1964]

Even more of a complement if she didn't run and talked about you penis to you. LOL

[Asker]

Yeah but there was nothing hiding my boner at that point

[Katie1964]

So what. Most women know what a naked man looks like with an erection. It's not a big deal or anything to be ashamed of. I mean your a guy, most guys I know would be ashamed if they couldn't get an erection, not that they did.

[Asker]

Yeah but in that situation it’s not like the boner goes away very easily

[Katie1964]

Probably not going away anytime soon, unless she or you rub one out! LOL

[Asker]

Haha exacty, and she didn’t, but she kept massaging around the boner for 20 more minutes!

[Katie1964]

Kind of a tease. She should have at least said you could do it before she continued. Hubby says his balls hurt if he gets excited and doesn't get to ejaculate.

[Asker]

Yeah she gave me major blue balls lol. How would that convo have went lol

[Katie1964]

Well if she wasn't going to do that for you, she could just say "why don't you take care of that, I'll get some tissue for you when you're done."

[Asker]

Oh wow! That would be pretty sexy if she said that to me, I don’t know how I should react

[Katie1964]

Well, I mean if it makes you as uncomfortable as my Husband says it does, she shouldn't have put you in that situation. Seems like the least she could do is give you the OK to give yourself some relief. It's not like she was being forced to do it for you. Not sure its sexy, more just compassion. If it were me, I would assume your reaction would be to masturbate.

[Asker]

Yeah but where would she go when I need to jerk off? I assume she would leave the room right? Then it might be Pervy of me to be jerking off while she’s waiting in the other room

[Katie1964]

Yeah but where would she go when I need to jerk off? She could stay or go depending on yours/her level of comfort. I assume she would leave the room right? Why would you assume that, maybe let her decide. Then it might be Pervy of me to be jerking off while she’s waiting in the other room? Not if that's what you discussed you were going to do and she left. We (women) know guys jerk off, if she was in the next room or next county what's the difference.

[Asker]

Do you think a woman would understand that i needed to jerk off in that situation in order to enjoy the rest of the massage? I wouldn’t care if she stayed in the room but i bet she would want to leave

[Katie1964]

Do you think a woman would understand that i needed to jerk off in that situation in order to enjoy the rest of the massage? Most with any experience with men would. I wouldn’t care if she stayed in the room but i bet she would want to leave. Probably get it done faster if she stayed, from my experience.

[Asker]

Yeah but wouldn’t I make a bit of a mess on the massage table?

[Katie1964]

You could just shoot it on your stomach and chest. Or if she stayed she could catch it by putting a tissue over the tip of your penis when you were about to cum.

[Asker]

Yeah but she’s massaging my stomach and chest lol so then it would have cum on it. Do you think she could catch it?

[Katie1964]

1. It will just wipe off with a damp cloth; 2. I have before with past boyfriends, if she has any hand eye coordination she should be able to accomplish that.

[Asker]

Yeah but during the massage I wasn’t naked I was just wearing mesh shorts so that would make it harder for her

[Katie1964]

I guess I was assuming that if you were to masturbate you would take those off.

[Asker]

Doesn’t that take the massage to a different level if I’m now naked?

[Katie1964]

Most massages are done with the receipant nude. I have to go. Have fun and good luck.

[Asker]

Yeah but aren’t they wearing a towel covering their junk?

[Kelly6]

Some use towel some don’t , it’s optional

[Asker]

@Kelly6 you mean a fully nude massage?

[Sirenboobzilla]

It's a batural reaction. Can't exactly hold them accountable for that

[rachel776]

i would know if i did he would get hard, so that would limit who i would do it to

[KathrynTaylor]

1 word. Ewwww.

[moonpie89]

I would expect it

[brezzybaby]

Ohh well I think we all know the answer to this.

[Asker]

I was worried she would get upset

[Kelly6]

No surprise there

every guy will get erection with a massage

[Asker]

So it’s not awkward for the woman?

[Kelly6]

Totally not awkward Have given massages and seen it a lot

[Kelly6]

It mostly happen because our finger touch activates erection

[Asker]

It made it more awkward because she’s not a real masseuse she’s the trainer for my college lacrosse team. She’s a grad student so she’s 3 years older

[Kelly6]

How is that awkward? Many of us do multiple jobs

[Asker]

Just that her massage was supposed to loosen up my hamstrings so her hands were kinda close to my crotch and she didn’t stop when I got hard

[Kelly6]

When I give massage I do legs and during then guys gets erection. Looks like it’s your first massage

[Asker]

Yeah it was my first massage and I was just wearing mesh shorts with no underwear so nothing was hiding the erection

[Kelly6]

If you didn’t like it then don’t get it again

[Asker]

It felt great but I’m worried she’s gonna see me differently from here on out

[Kelly6]

No she won’t. Are you the only one with dick?

[Asker]

What do you mean am I the only one with dick?

[Anonymous]

I would pretend not to notice, because if he was aware that I noticed, he might expect me to fix the problem.