If you had two friends with benefits would you tell them that you had another one? Or would you not tell them
It’s best not to keep secrets at all from someone you are having sex with , the only way I will get
Into a FWB’s with a girl is if her and I are on the same page , meaning we are only fucking each other but open to date other people , if we end up meeting someone else and we end up having sex with that someone else then we both agree to end the benefits part between us and just remain friends , I don’t want to stick my dick into a girl that is getting other dick in her period , The same way she shouldn’t want me banging other
Girls then sticking my dick into her afterwards , to me it’s dirty and degrading is how I look at it , so I never had 2 FWB’s at the same time. If the Guy’s you are having sex with are ok with you screwing other guys than that’s something you both should of addressed before having sex together. So yes tell the other guy or you are just being a selfish person by just assuming that’s ok, The other guy might change his mind about wanting to have sex with you again , which is fine , at least he has a choice and not blindsided0 0 0 0
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Yes, absolutely.
They have a right to know that I'm not exclusive with them.
*Who* the other one is might not be disclosed depending on the specifics, but informed consent is only informed consent if you have access to accurate information.
If you don't give them that it's a violation, just like rape or cheating etc...0 0 0 0
Most Helpful Girls
I had 4 or 5 friends with benefits. They all knew about each other as I'm honest. They were fine with it. Got a little difficult keeping them all happy though so I just ended up with 2. The 2 that were the best in bed
0 2 0 0That's how you should do it honestly.
I have two. Not only do they know of each other, we're all mutual friends and we've played together before.
1 5 0 0@provokeesmokee right on.
That's a good arrangement
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9 22I've never done friends with benefits but shy should you tell them? It's just sex without any feelings involved. Right?
0 2 0 0If asked, yes. If not then no, as the whole concept of friends with benefits is that you are not exclusive and so your friends should assume you have other friends with benefits as well as them
1 2 0 0Yeah you should so they can decide whether or not they want to be with you anymore...
0 0 0 0If I could continue both relationships without too much aggravation, I'd probably try to keep them both for a while.
0 1 0 0i have more than one and they know there are others but not who
0 3 0 0I'm always honest with guys before we hook up about the last time I got fucked, and I'm honest about that I'm not looking for a relationship
0 4 0 0What did you do with the cuke after you took the pic, nice pic
I wouldn't hide it from them but I also wouldn't go out of my way to tell them. I wouldn't say "Sorry Judy, we can't fuck next Wednesday, I'll be fucking Tricia."
0 0 0 0But you *would* let them know that you're not exclusive without being asked, no? It's kind of important information after all.
@Losalt No, I wouldn't let them know I'm not exclusive. We're just having sex, with whomever we want. She can have multiple FWBs too, if she wants. Why do you think its " important infirmation"?
@AviatorTom Well, knowing if there's a risk of STDs for one... And expectation management as well honestly. There's no reason to tell her *who* you're with. But letting her know if you're exclusive or not is kind of a big deal I feel. Likewise if you're poly it's important for everyone involved to know if you're practicing polyfidelity or not etc.
Sure, it's no strings attached, if they get jealous, it's not for them.
0 2 0 0I would not tell them. I would not tell my girlfriend about the other two. I would not tell my wife about the other 3.
0 1 0 0Nope.
1 0 0 0I'd have to be put in that position to answer
0 0 0 0I would be honest with them. I wish I had 2 fwbs I'm a horny 18 yr old and would love all the sex
1 1 0 0I never had 2 friends with benefits at the same time but I might have to tell them both about each other. She’s need to know I not just having sex with her and know there is another girl I am having sex with.
0 0 0 0In my honest opinion, if you're in any situation where sex is involved, you should let the people you're having intercourse with know that you have more than one sexual partner. This is another reason why I don't like the whole cheating, mistress, or side piece situation as every party should be aware of the possibility of getting an STD being greater.
0 0 0 0You're not exclusive. You don't have to tell them, but you also don't need to hide/avoid telling either. That's the joy of the whole thing, just sex, no strings attached.
0 1 0 0Fuck no, keep that pootie train rolling.
0 0 0 0I am straight up up telling bother all of them at the se time as I do now an I live with 4 at the time 5 comes in day after tomorrow.
God Bless0 0 0 0I would not tell. FWBs do not need to know about each other.
0 1 0 0I would tell them.
0 0 0 0It's complicated
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