If you had a choice in how often you were able to have sex.. How often would you realistically want it, and why?

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For instance: I'd love it to be at least 5 times a week, but would realistically accept 3 times a week, as long as it was hot/wanted sex!! 😍

PositiveFlight · Accepted Answer

As often as possible honestly. Sexual intercourse between a man and a woman is one of the most healthy activities possible. It’s good for healthy blood pressure, the release that each gives to the other. The ability to help the other discharge such passion. It’s like releasing everything and having the other absorb it. Forming a bond and connection to each other. When an orgasm is given to the other, using each others gender specific part to cause the orgasm in the other, there is a special connection and bond that is formed. I think it’s beautiful that each other’s most sensitive part rubs and stimulates the other. Sex is a beautiful gift from God and I think 5+ times a week is healthy and not letting something so connecting and wonderful go untapped.

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

Well after we been together for a while then at least twice a week. These couples who do it once a month that is crazy.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

4 days a week minimum, 3 times a day for 3 of those days and 1 of those days being marathon sex (so more than 3 times in a day). My 3 times a day doesn't have to be breakfast/lunch/dinner for example. I personally enjoy sex more between 3pm and 3am

curlyfirecracker · Accepted Answer

Daily or every other. Doesn't have to be every step and full sex, but a quickie here, blow job there, etc. The tease and play is such a good part, too. If it becomes a chore, or seemingly isn't desired the same, not as much fun.

ShellyB · Answer

Just to give one simple number I would say twice a week, however sometimes more sometimes less/none. JMO!

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Realistically for me, it is my best hobby when not working. I'd prefer that over watching TV, or doing anything else.

Nothing wrong with a healthy hobby that is also a good workout. Typically for me personally though, men don't think this way... as they want to watch sports, hang out with friends, play games, etc... sure they like sex but not that much for that long.

Think about what most people do for hobbies or in their free time when not earning a living or cleaning house, that is what I would like but I can accept less if there is a good reason for other things to be done too.

VIVANT · Answer

I don’t care I just like the cuddles 💗

Potteplante · Answer

That fluctuates.

Sometimes I'd be wanting it multiple of times a day - other times I don't want to be touched for a period of time. 🤷‍♀️

As long as we always get back to business eventually - I'm good.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I would want sex at least three times per week but could settle for twice a week.

Sour-rose · Answer

Never. Not to eventry it. The sweet thing about being an asexual goddess

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

I mean sex is a broad term. I think I would want something sexual evey day but actual sex I think in a number I would say 3 times but possibly every day. I think it would depend on how the week was.

SnowedIn · Answer

... we average 4-5 times a week. Some weeks it's every day.

Mystery1900 · Answer

Sex four or five times a week would be good. It is healthy to orgasm and ejaculate frequently. In a marriage I think sex is important to renew bond between man and wife and should be regular. It is also important for me to be able to release my sexual urges.

Anatasia520 · Answer

2 times everyday

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

I want some kind of sex every day; preferably morning and evening. Manual or oral sex or grinding is ok most of the time, but I struggle to be satisfied without having intercourse/penetration 4-5 times a week.

Seriously, though: unless one of us is sick, I don’t want to skip a day. That can leave me really on edge.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I would be fine with once a week. Sometimes, that is not realistic bc of schedules, the older you get the busier you get helping other people.

cunnilinguist · Answer

Depends what you consider sex. While I'm happy with penetration just 1-2 times a day I'd be eating a pussy 4-5 times a day ideally, but then if I can get to spend a good hour down there munching away I suppose I would be content by cutting that down to 3, like morning, daytime and evening, but if it's just half hour or less it would have to be 4-5 times a day.

Bricealan · Answer

Probably every other day? Depends

crossdressingrihno · Answer

One a day or or once every 2 days

Agape93 · Answer

I'd love for it daily, but I'm good a few times in a week

Dargil · Answer

One good Sunday Morning session and a couple of blow jobs after work during the week.

AviatorTom · Answer

3 times a week, every other day. Fantastic sex on day 1, rest and recover on day 2. Fantastic sex on day 3, rest and recover on day 4. Fantastic sex on day 5, rest and recover on day 6. And on day 7, we all rest.

RavVid · Answer

Every night. I actually think morning is a better time as you are both relaxed and refreshed after sleep but real world getting to work gets in the way of that. In an ideal world both morning and night every day. In a less ideal world at least morning sex on the weekends.