Guys, if you had a virgin lover who has used 🖕 but never anything ssme size as 🍆. She tells you she may resist and fight to escape pain but still?

[LovingLoverReturned]

still take her virginity. Will you do it? Or if you have done it before with someone who did you feel bad after.. assuming you aren't an F-Fin sadist 😂

[MrOracle]

Unless the guy is huge, or the girl has an exceptionally robust hymen (both of which DO exist, but are rare), there doesn't have to be an incredible amount of pain. I've taken a couple of virginities, and the girls were prepared for some pain, but were still enthusiastic about going for it. Neither of them had a super difficult time - a bit of pain in both cases, but less than they expected - but I know a few girls do have a pretty hard time.

I suppose if we'd tried normally before, and it didn't happen, and she was resolved to get'er done, and she told me to do this, I likely would, because I would understand that she wanted it and it was something she just had to get through. Fortunately, I didn't have to face this kind of situation in real life.

[Gent207-2]

This sounds like rape to me

Yes means yes and no means no

Any resistance or hesitation is pretty much a no especially for me. Whereas the courts may find me Not Guilty, the court of public opinion will have my head on a spike regardless of the evidence.

[LovingLoverReturned]

Hmmm. But She told you to do it because it's a necessary step to lose her virginity and she will only resist the first times because it is painful.

[Gent207-2]

Nope sounds like rape or entrapment

[summiter]

I would only do it if she was willing to try it and we had a lot of condoms nearby

[Berethor]

Didn't most men have some level of sadism in them? men tend to be more violent than women. I prefer a virgin over a ho, we had agreement, I don't think that I am going to get cold feet.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S187704281200287X

[LiamSawyer]

With care and thoughtgulness it can be done without pain but she does need to be reassured and relaxed as well as properly stimulated and aroused.

[loveslongnails]

I don't do virgins - been there, done that, never again.

[LovingLoverReturned]

Everyone was once a virgin. Are you in a relationship or have to search each time got s new lover?

[loveslongnails]

Of course everyone was once a virgin. I wouldn't have sex with a virgin again though. I'm in an open relationship.

[LovingLoverReturned]

I see I see. Not in love? No woman you found that you want to be with exclusively?

[loveslongnails]

I do love my S. O. and vice-versa, but we aren't strictly monogamous. Most people hear that and think that means we have daily fuck fests with random strangers, but that's not what happens at all. It means the option is there for other physical attractions for us, individually or together, without deceit or guilt. Funny too - once you take away the forbidden and the prohibited, it's not about the "thrill" of the secret or the conquest.

[LovingLoverReturned]

Thanks for sharing

[DiegoO]

Resist and fight to scape pain? I would be better off jacking off than be in court because my ex suddenly decided to "resist and escape" in her allegations.

[DiegoO]

My ex is/was virgin.

[Rizwan_khan]

Yes i will put my d in her but with gental push and yes that pain has to bear because it is natural process. By the way when boys had first sex they also feel some kind of pain on d but yes girls pains are more then boys pain. But i have seen girls enjoy that pain also because it's a mixture of pleasure and real pain both.

[Jamie05rhs]

If she's feeling pain and she resists, then I'm going to stop! Geez, people. Common sense!!

[KostasKouvalis]

I've actually met someone like that. If that's what she wants, I would do that for her

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I will just do it super slow and penetrate a little bit of my penis and very shallow stokes til she gets used to sex.

[Twalli]

I wouldn't have sex with her until she knows I don't want to hurt her. Also she'll be on top, so she has control