If you live with your SO and you’re getting ready to go out, do you have sex before the date or after the date?

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I thought about this the other day as my husband and I were getting ready to go out for a nice dinner and dancing. For us it usually depends on how we’re feeling or how much time we have. After dancing with each other, there was so much physical energy between us by the time we got home, I’m sure you can figure out the rest! 😛

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After
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Before AND After
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Depends how we feel, it doesn’t matter
Vote D
We’re not sexually active
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We don’t live together
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I’m single right now
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Most Helpful Girls

  • We never plan to have sex before leaving but often the acts of getting ready, seeing each other naked, and getting dressed in sexy clothes and stuff will get us worked up. So we often have half-clothed quickies before we leave for something. Just a few weeks ago I had a work party, and my hubby decided that he needed to cum so he lifted my dress and put a load in me. I only had time to pull my panties up before he had to leave so cum was leaking out of me all night but it was so hot talking with my co-workers while that happened!

  • Depends on the date and how much time we have. Or just how frisky we might be that particular day. I would say after more often though.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Before an event, we are usually getting ready, taking a shower, getting dressed, so taking time out for romance at that moment is a low probability. When we return home afterwards, we unwind, possibly have an alcoholic drink (one,) and get undressed for bed. Since we sleep naked together, guess what happens next?

    • Yes, that makes sense, especially if there is a lot of preparation to do for the date. I can guess what happens next! 🤣

    • Practice makes perfect!

    • You got that right! Gives you something to look forward to.

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  • Usually after. It's fun to go out and get each other in the mood publicly and then start undressing each other as soon as we get in the door at home. Once in a while, it can be hot to have sex before and then go out in public sharing the naughty secret my cum is inside her, though.

    • Oh I have definitely been in both situations. So hot!

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  • I don't live with my partner yet, but we definitely have done both. It depends on the mood.

  • When I go out, it's usually to live music. This always stimulates my brain and turns me on.

    Ejaculation, on the other hand, drains me of energy in a big way.

    So from me, it is a big 'AFTER!!!'

  • Usually after but one time she looked so fucking hot I had to! She was pissed because she basically had to get ready all over again but she got over it.

    • @ So the only option was to have sex with her right after she just got done getting ready to go out. That is what I call you couldn't control yourself because you had the option to have sex right then or not to.

  • Depends how the feeling is, if you’re going out to eat a lot; probably before. Otherwise after

  • Sometimes it depends but we usually like sex before we go out. It keeps a smile on me the whole night. Sometimes when we get home we will go for round 2.

  • Usually before, so that we don't risk being to tires or fat after eating to get optimal enjoyment out of it.

    • That seems to be the case for most.

    • That's actually a valid point.

  • Thanks for including the last option of being single!😭😭😭

  • I would go for both😘

  • If we have sex at all on date night, it's after. There's no way my SO would let sex mess up her makeup and hair before we go out.

  • Depends on how we feel. Before, after, both etc

  • This is my opinion if I had a, SO Depends on how we feel, it doesn’t matter.

  • before and after. Maybe during too.

  • I railed and came on her face in the hotel room before we met her parents about a half hour later. We got back to the hotel that night and made bondage love.

  • Why not both? 😂

  • After usually.

  • Depends on how we feel

  • Always after.

    • I think that’s what most tend to do.

    • Indeed.

  • after the date

    • sometimes during the date

  • sex is good and you should share if with your partner always as much as you can we dont live forever right.. enjoy life and what it has to offer and that is one of the best feelings two or more can share with each other.

  • Ew. Who has sex before the date? That's weird.

    I can only see that happening if you're going on a trip and you get to your destination and you have sex before bed, and then you wake up late the next morning and then go out.

    • I don’t think it’s that weird, but I think it depends what you’re doing afterwards or where you’re going.

    • @musicbrain5 Okay. ... Just out of curiosity, what kinds of dates would you be going on where you would have sex beforehand?

    • Likely dates that aren’t on a schedule, like dinner dates for example. Or doing it in the morning before spending the whole day out together.

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