I think it really depends. I had an almost-relationship with one of my closest friends until he moved away, and even after he moved, we talked for hours on the phone a few nights a week and it got to the point where we definitely had feelings for one another, and he told me he thought of me a few times while he masturbated and it was one of the most romantic things I'd ever heard, given the nature of our friendship.
Not disrespectful at all. Why do you feel disrespected?
I've masturbates over guys pics and guys have masturbated over my pics. We told each other what we did, No one felt disrespected.
Sounds like fun
It was. @lilbags1
Whyd you stop then?
I'd take it as a compliment if someone were to tell me this. It means they find me physically attractive, and pleasure themselves while imagining me. That's more of a compliment than anything else in my book.
I'm under the assumption that girls only like it if they're in a relationship with the guy though. Otherwise, they find it creepy.
I think if you masturbated over someone and told them when you are not in a relationship and are not good friends, then it is disrespectful i guess. But your fantasies are your own and if you do not want to disrespect someone, just don't tell them...
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Telling you was odd and perhaps disrespectful.
If you're remotely good looking, at the very least dozens and probably more males have masturbated thinking about you at least for a stretch.
Guys have fleeting thoughts of every remotely attractive and some below average looking classmates, friend's sisters, friend's mothers, coworkers, girls walking down the street, etc. etc. etc.
No, it isn't disrespectful.
You can't control who thinks about you sexually.
But generally, TELLING someone that you've masturbated to them is not socially acceptable.
Depends if they are present when you are doing it.
It's ok if you're in a relationship with them
masturbated over you how? Like while you were sleeping or from a pic of you? If you were sleeping then yes disrespectful. If over a pic other than maybe being grossed out id think it might be flattering. Knowing that someone thinks your hot enough to do that too.
At the thought of me
well then i guess you should be flattered
I actually think it's somewhat flattering. Voted D).
I voted D but I want to qualify my position. In your case the person TOLD YOU they had masturbated to you. I can see why that would be offensive to you if that person was not in a sexual relationship with you already. But if two people are already in a sexual relationship, I don't see it as a problem.
It's disrespectful to tell about it, but not doing it and keeping it to yourself.
If in a relationship then masturbating over someone else is a kind of unfaithfulness at least emotionally, but again try not to, but if doing it, then no need to hurt your partner with the fact, unless he/she downright ask you - if so then obviously tell the truth.
I mean, if you go straight up to someone and tell them, "yo I touch myself to you Throwback Thursday pic.", that's disrespectful. However, I think we as as humans are going to get some release from those we like IRL. So I wouldn't say that's disrespectful. I know for a fact a few of my female friends in HS scratched their itches to me, so I wouldn't say it's just limited to guys.
Like I said, I don't think there's an issue unless someone says it to them.
No. It's better than the alternative. Them master bating to someone else. Meaning that they don't find you sexually attractive enough to them.
I know you think about sexual purity and all, but think about it for a minute.
If I was in a relationship with said person, of course I'd rather them do it to me than anyone else. But if we're not, I'd much rather them think of somebody else.
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No I don't think it's disrespectful. I look forward to the prude genocide.
I think it's okay to think about someone when you masturbate, but if you were to look at a picture or video of someone it's a bit disrespectful
How is that different?
I don't know, I'd just feel weird if someone looked at a picture of me and masturbated to it
No, it's flattering. Women who think it's disrespectful have female entitlement syndrome.
Are there any other symptoms?
Or maybe we just have self-respect and don't like people to imagine us in compromising positions, when purity is of value to us.
You are NOT entitled to tell people what they can or cannot think about you. Get over yourself.
Whether you write poetry or masturbate, they have inspired you to act. It is a compliment.
I would say its flattering...
As long as you keep it to yourself it doesn't mater too much...
I wouldn't be bothered if someone masturbated over me, I'd be pleased if anything. (Well if it was a girl.)
But I have generally avoided masturbating over girls I know/like/respect, as I feel that in some sense I would be debasing them.
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