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If you never had a girlfriend or never will, would chemical castration be okay?

Never had a girlfriend & never had sex either. Meanwhile I'm always feeling horny but it's torture because I'll never be able to truly existence sex. Other guys are able to have sex while i can't because I'm undesirable to the opppsite sex. So I've bee. Thinking to stop feeling this way & to get rid of this desire for sex & relationships I've been thinking about chemical castration. Would it help me and make my life easier?
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  • Hey! Don't put yourself down! Everyone in this world has a soulmate. The one they can actually love. Also, I don't think masturbating will harm you or make it worse. Have you ever tried it before? If you don't do it as much and just do it scheduled then it should feel way better. Or it might just be that women's bodies are different from men's.

    Also, autism, depression, and looks aren't everything when it comes to finding a girl. If your looking for girls with one night stands then it does matter. But actual love... Nah, take it from somebody who is considered 'unatractive' you have your natural charm. And I believe you can talk to women... It'll just be uncomfortable but after that.

    You will feel stronger and more confident. Just don't pick a person who will bring you down even more! And anything that isn't natural... Won't have a normal affect on your body. It just isn't right to use drugs like that. Drugs are
    addictive nearly every single one of them...

    And you aren't undesirable. Nobody is undesirable. You just have to find the right people unlike those with attractive genes. But I don't think you are as unattractive as your putting yourself out to be.

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  • well.. I don't know if chemical castration is the way to go for you because though it might decrease your libido, it won't completely get rid of it. You'll still feel horny but with your hormone levels being altered, not only will you find it difficult to get hard/maintain an erection, but it will be more difficult than usual to reach climax. There are plenty of cons to being chemically castrated like higher chances of developing osteoporosis, cardiac disease, etc..

    • Well at this point in desperate to try & stop those sexual feelings from continue. I want them to disappear completely. Don't want to feel this way anymore

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    • I read that a lot of studies found that the results were a lot more promising in participants who used therapy on a regular basis, and didn’t rely on the chemical part alone. Maybe start seeing a therapist for a bit first, then you can consider chemical castration if the therapist doesn’t think that therapy will be effective.

Most Helpful Guys

  • If you get chemical castration, there’s no turning back. If you really need sexual relief, get an escort, and have a good time with her. You can also masturbate, it’s not gonna destroy you, like they were saying a hundred years ago. As far as getting a girlfriend, you have to work on YOURSELF. Get into things that expand your horizons and give you a feeling of accomplishment and self-confidence, then you have things you can talk about with a girl.

    As for me, I took up ice skating long ago. I wasn’t trying to ‘get’ a girl, I just wanted to try it. At first, I could barely stand up, but after a while I was doing small jumps and spins. Sometimes a girl would just come up to me, and say, “Hey, that was really cool! How do you do that?” It just takes off from there. If a girl wasn’t interested in talking, I’d just go back to working on some skating move.

    Try making friends with older women too. They might have a daughter or niece, and some older women get lonely and might like some sexual entertainment too. You never know, and an older experienced woman could teach you a few things.

  • Mystery method, Alpha m, Rollo Tomassi, entrepenuers in Cars, coach coach Wayne.

    Your job this week is to watch one of their videos each day. Brother when I was 18 I couldn't get laid if I was the last man on Earth
    I trained my body, my mind, and my soul. I've slept with over 200 women now. My current girlfriend is 10 years younger than me and we boom boom everyday.

    Check out those guys, and do not castrate!

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  • How old are you?
    And why do you assume you’re not going to be able to ever find anyone to have sex with?

    • 24. And a lot of problem from being unattractive physically to having Aspergers and just no experience even talking to girls

    • That’s sensory issues right? And have you ever been on Tik Tok? And what have prevented you from being able to talk to girls?

    • It's a mild form of autism. Basically high functioning autism. And no i haven't. And being physically unattractive has been one of the biggest reasons along with depression

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  • Don't hate yourself,,, The lady you want will show up qnd she will want you even more. In the mean time tqke care of yourself, dress well, look good, exercise, Manscape , Masturbate, maybe a sextoy like those Things that looks like q pussy

    • That's just going to make my mental health worse masturbating. And no sex toys. That would be even worse as well

    • I don't understand doesn't it releave you of your hornyness after you cum?

    • i guess you don't know how to make yourself cum

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  • I don't know, but I doubt it.

  • hmm are you on the spectrum?

    • Of what autism? Yeah i fall under it

    • that explains everything

    • Why do you say that?

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  • I can finally relate to someone. My answer is, I don't know.
    I'm not as old as you, I've had one girlfriend last year. But I'm a virgin right now.
    Even though it's not too late for me to lose my virginity, I hate my sexual urges and fantasies. People kept telling it it's something to be proud of but it's ruining my mentality.
    I have one sort of solution for this.
    The idea that a man has to lose his virginity before high school graduation is sexist. It's a think lots of guys expect from each other. You should try not to care about these men. You're not worthless for being a virgin. It's like a stereotype that men made up and still runs today. "If you a virgin then shut up pussy hoe". People on my half told me that their high school sex or their first experiences were awkward. Then some people told me that these men are just lying for attention. I find this hard to believe because they keep bragging about it like it's their life.
    You're not worthless.
    Distract yourself with productive things.
    Try exercising if you've got weight to lose. Try talking walks, playing video games, watching movies, cooking and drawing, or the best option, put yourself around girls more. When you realize that they're not scary as you thought they were, you won't mind being around them. Try socializing with them. Something close to small talk if you can't do small talk entirely. It's hard for me as well. I'm introverted that's in work to get out of this phase. People on this website told me to do the same.
    I hope my comment helped.
    How to put less value on girls or losing my virginity?

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