If you're a 28 year old guy & a virgin. U have gotten with ur first girlfriend. Do u think u would be curious to try things out with different people?

[Anonymous]

I started dating a 28 year old guy that has said he's never been in a relationship or sexual with anybody. I got this fear that sooner or later he will want to explore things with other people as well due to not having the chance to before. What do you think? Do you think he waited until now to be intimate and let someone in for a reason? I am just scared that once he gets comfortable he will become curious of how it would be with other people. What do you think?

[NamerOfStars]

If he's still a virgin after that long, he probably will be eager (nervous and possibly apprehensive, but eager) to try new things, just because he's never had the chance to. Will he feel a desire to be with other women? Maybe- but unless he's missed out because he spent his early adulthood as a monk, he'll know how difficult finding somebody can be, and will be LESS likely to do something that'd drive you away.

Now, if you want to ensure he sticks around, one important thing is to take particular care to not callously reject things he suggests or asks for- that's important for everyone, natch, but especially in your case. I'm not saying you have to agree to DO them, but being told "You want to [X]? Ewww!" or something along those lines is going to be even more devastating to him than it would to a normal person. Reject gently, and try to make sure he doesn't feel judged- I mean, you'd want him to do the same for you, no?

[asphaltrhymes]

Or maybe he's really into you and maybe some people are fine with just 1 partner. No need to date around beforehand or play the field of variety lol.
Anyways, peace and best wishes. Maybe he's just waiting for when you two have those moments of the relationship going and growing into more uhh more. Ah well 😋

[Billlewis]

If a guy is 28 years old and still a virgin, if he makes good money, he should be regarded as a fantastic husband for a woman who wants a pussy free wimp as her spouse.

[Justaguyagain]

I wouldn't

[slatyb]

Most relationships are not forever. His lack of prior experience won't make him stay or go.

[Dargil]

I would prefer to have been around the track a time or two before The One came along.

[DextroShade]

You sound very insecure, who hurt you? If he is a 28 year-old virgin he likely won't have many opportunities to get curious with other people as it is. Most men struggle to find girls.

[Wise4myage]

That's always a possibility, but just keep each other happy for now, and see how it goes.

[ChaseBryant]

This is a very intuitive fear. I think it is good to know how far that you are willing to go. Some guys that are virgins are only looking for girls to "score" with.

[Anonymous]

I assume he was the one that asked you out and hit on you

[Anonymous]

cases like him are much more common than people think, more common than they seem, i assume he had to be the one to make a move on you or ask you out first.